You need to explain this a little better, what you are saying makes no sense to me. It sounds like you are saying everything we do involves direct action by God. This means everything we do is directed by God, so we have no free will?
No. That’s not how it works. God’s action does not violate our freedom–at least not according to Aquinas. Some later theologians decided that it did. This does allow for better solutions to the problem of evil, but at the cost of radically weakening our doctrine of providence and indeed of creation.
For a good defense of Aquinas’s position (or one interpretation thereof), see the work of David Burrell.
God is the one who causes us to exist. God does not cause us to do evil.
So using your explaination then, when we decide to have sex, God is FORCED to infuse a soul or did He plan and in fact decide for the good of the rest of creation to create a new human being.
I’m going to have to hold you to the rape/adultery example, which you still haven’t addressed adequately. In the case of conception resulting from rape or adultery, we have wicked human action on the one hand, and a good action by God on the other. The one doesn’t cancel out the other. We wouldn’t say to the rapist or adulterer: “Go ahead,” even if we knew for certain that conception would result. In fact, I dare to say that at least in the case of rape we would see conception as making the situation worse. (I want to repeat that I don’t defend abortion under any circumstances, but if you have ever debated this particular issue with a prochoice person you know that it is a very difficult one, and I am certainly happy to concede to the prochoice person that it would better if conception in those circumstances could have been
prevented.)
That example makes your position untenable, because it’s a case where clearly before conception we would say “please don’t do this” (or in the case of rape try with any means at our disposal to prevent the rapist from performing the action), while after conception we would say “Rejoice! God has brought new life into the world!” If we can do this in such an extreme case, we can surely also do much less extreme things, like saying “maybe in some cases it might be wise to have only a few children” while also rejoicing that God has created the children who *have *been conceived.
If you believe that even NFP shouldn’t be used to space births, then it may be hard to get through to you on this one. But the vast majority of prolife people (including your fellow Catholics) who do try to space births nonetheless rejoice at the coming of new life, even if that life was an “accident.” Indeed, in a sense that is a particular joy because it reminds us that (as you and Brooklyn have been rightly insisting) our prudential decisions do not have the last word and God may often choose to surprise and confound our best-laid plans.
Some friends of mine (my wife and I are godparents to three of their children) have five children, of whom the last was an “accident.” A secular colleague of mine (we were all in grad school at the time) expressed disapproval that my friends were having a fifth child. I wish I had simply told her how inappropriate I found that comment. Instead, I told her (which probably wasn’t my right to tell) that I knew that the fifth child was not planned. (I’m afraid I was often a coward with regard to my secular colleagues.) She at least had the good taste (I would like to think also the morality, but I don’t know for sure) not to mention abortion.
So I do understand where you and Brooklyn are coming from. I know that there are a lot of folks out there who really think that having more than a couple of children is some sort of crime. I want you to understand that I’m not saying anything of the sort. Clearly once a child is conceived, he or she is a good gift of God. What I am trying to show is that we cannot logically or morally speak of conception *before *it has happened in the same way that we do *afterwards. *And the case of conception resulting from rape or adultery is my clearest example.
That is different, because in that sense, I think God would allow the man to get hit, rather than directly act to hit the man.
But God is the one causing the man to exist. God is the one sustaining all things in existence. God is the one whose primary agency allows second causes (not just human wills, but the laws that make combustion engines work and wheels turn) to operate. It’s true that God is not *causing *the act of the car hitting the man. God is causing what is good in that situation–the existence of the driver, his agency as a free being, the physical materials that make up the car and the laws that allow it to function.
Similarly, God is not forcing two human beings to have intercourse at a time when the woman is fertile. God is not causing the violence of rape, or the unfaithfulness of adultery, or even the much milder and more questionable foolishness that might in some cases be involved in a decision to conceive another child. What God is causing is, again, what is good. You are right that this is much more prominent and easy to point to in the case of conception. But I don’t see that the principle is different.
With conception it is a different story. God is the only one that can create a human soul. No one else, by any action, can do this.
No one except God can create or sustain in being anything at all. No one except God can create the physical laws that allow cars to operate.
And every act of sex does not occur in a pregnancy. Do you think there is ever a person that was conceived, out your definition of imprudence, that shouldn’t have been conceived, but God just did it, because the person made a stupid mistake?
I think that this isn’t a meaningful way of speaking when we are in time and God is in eternity. I don’t think we can go beyond saying that what is good in any human action is ultimately caused by God (in such a way as not to violate our freedom), but what is evil or foolish or just imperfect derives only from creatures. I will grant that the creation of the human soul is a more direct action by God (in the creationist view which triumphed over traducianism in the early Church–I do not have strong views either way on that issue, not being a Catholic). But again, I think the same principle applies.
Edwin