It’s just common sense that a healthy young person is made to bring forth life within the sexual act that is suppose to be between a man and a women who love one another. This act is unitive and procreative. It is meant to be that way, otherwise we wouldn’t have children that way. This is the way we were made! I can’t say that enough, because it is so simple, yet people just don’t get it. To explain further, how can you say you love someone enough to fully give youself to them, which is the way it should be in a married relationship, if you are making them “protect” themselves from you. Seeing contraception for what it truly is, it would be insulting and hurtful if my spouse said they wanted to have “relations”, but didn’t want all of me, just some of me. God made us this way…there is nothing sick about it, so we don’t need medication “the pill”, and I don’t need to be protected from my spouse by using a “latex barrier”. A barrier is something that separates, as opposed to bringing together. The other alternative is self-mutilation through surgery. This upsets me whenever I hear someone doing this. I do not judge anyone, I am not upset in a way that I feel angry at the person, or judgemental, but mournful. It makes me sad, because they are destroying a perfectly healthy part of themselves, a sacred part of themselves. It is sad. Not to mention, I believe, physically unhealthy. We all want the instant self gratification, but not the consequences, and if you ask me this is one of those things that has helped the abortion mentality and the downward spiral of our society. We need to learn self control, and respect for others.
I’m sorry if I went into too much detail, but it is hard for me to explain, because the simple answer is never enough to most.