Yikes, man! Abortion is either wrong or it isn’t. Homosexual activity is either wrong or it isn’t. You can be relative on these positions. God will not give one person a different understanding of these issues than another.
I have my views on those issues based on my understandings.
God came in the form of a man to save that which was lost.
Now the question should be asked, is, what constitute that which was lost?
Mankind as a whole.
Now, if God is to save that which was lost, He must save the whole.
The whole of mankind (All of humanity) is saved as one body, or one body for all and all for one body.
This way, God has to, in Jesus, go back to the beginning commencing with Adam and Eve, to the time of Jesus, and after Jesus and save the whole.
Why is it that way?
Because mankind of it’s self can not under it’s own righteousness meet the righteousness of God to be saved.
Thus, Gods righteousness in a man, Jesus, fulfills that measure for all of us and grants, get that?, grants gives us as a free gift His righteousness over ours, enabling us to use His righteousness to enter heaven.
I know this is in contrast to what you are used to believing, but that is found, clearly stated in the bible, to where an individual seeking God will find it.
Having said all that, I can now explain my views on abortion , Gay issues and any other issue presented to me for evaluation.
Gay issue: The bible (In the book of Romans) clearly speaks against it as a hindrance towards achieving a closeness with God.
Abortion: The bible does not speak to that directly, but is an issue that should inflame a believer to reject it, who treasures a God given life.
But than again, if God died for the whole, what sin can God not forgive?
What does happen is if these things which hinder a closeness with God, or the coming to God, will only meet the consequences of the world.
There is an example in the new testament (A believer in a church body) of a man who was caught having un-natural relations with his mother.
The instructions given for that man was: 1Co 5:5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
You see, the part where it says: “that the spirit may be saved”, is at the day Jesus paid the price for the mans unrighteousness.
Read the rest of the story you 'll find: The mans restoration. 2Co 2:6 Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many.
2Co 2:7 So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow.
2Co 2:8 Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him.
You see, God in Jesus saved His soul, yet because of his sin, he was ostricized to the world for a spanking, sort of speak.
We all are accountable to our selves, either for blessings or punishment.
The world, who is in the world? Satan? The world will destroy us if we allow it.
That is why we need to be in touch with God for His protection.
Your church is not responsible for your actions, but you are.
So, the decisions you make are met with blessings or cursings. What ye sow that shall ye reap.
Blessings, AJ