Caldera:
-Detailing what is allowed inside the bedroom inside of marriage.
-Contraception as something harmful when they allow smoking and drinking.
-Dogmas such as the Marian Dogmas of late which create another obstacle for already separated brethren without any proof, and completely unnecessary to make them binding if they have any concern for unity. Otherwise, it seems like nothing more than a power struggle for continued authority.
Dear Caldera,
You hit on a few topics Iād like to address.
As far as I see, our Catholic beliefs are backed in scripture. I find nothing in our tradition, that isnāt possible for God. Any and all arguments to defend our faith are found in scripture. It would be nice to know and speak Hebrew and have original translations. Unfortunately I donāt, and can only comprehend whatās in my world, which is The New American Bible.
Why do our beliefs, regarding Jesusā Mother, separate us? Is this an area Protestants choose to attack us to try and discredit the authority of the Roman Catholic Church? Are they seeking to please God or seeking to gain control of the Christian masses?
Why do we argue? Itās all vanity and accomplishes little, when our hearts become stubborn and unwilling to love our Christian neighbor, as ourselves, because of the differences in our traditions and beliefs.
āStop judging by appearances, but judge justly.ā John 7:24 Can mankind ever judge justly? Has Mother Mary been judged justly by mankind? We believe she was pre-justified by her Son; saved before her birth. Is that impossible for God?
āBut we know where He is from. When the Messiah comes, no one will know where He is from.ā John 7:27 The profound mystery of Christās birth is a profound mystery. Catholics choose to believe it has special meaning for the one chosen, āfull of graceā by God.
There are many problems in the Church because human beings have charge of it. That doesnāt mean its precepts are wrong. There is also corruption in non-Catholic denominations, as well.
The issue of contracepting being wrong, isnāt one I learned through the Church. Itās one I learned through experiene. It is backed however, through scripture and the teachings of the Church.
I too had a drinking problem. I drank to enable my now deceased husband. Once I went to confession because I was having resentment toward my husband, because of my drinking problem. When I explained this to the priest, he retorted, āWhen you die and are standing before our Lord, do you think you will be able to blame your husband?ā Boy did my eyes open wide. If only more priests could articulate Godās truth as well but, they canāt or they donāt and in that they often fail in their duty.
Dear Lord God, please help Your holy priests to lead Your people back to You. May they have the protection of the holy angels, always at their side. May they be filled with Your grace and enable Your flock to be holy ones who choose to love You with all their heart, mind and strength. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
Peace to you,
Elizabeth