I’d like to know. You know, like if it concerns my faith or the idea of family, of which I’m a part of.
I will try explain number 301 of AL as I understand it. What follows are the traditional marriage vows. Here they are provided for the husband:
“I (husband) take you, (her name), to be my wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honor you all the days all the days of my life.”
Most of us would easily comprehend “full well” the literal meaning of these vows. However, number 301 of AL states the following: “A subject may know full well the rule, yet have great trouble in understanding its ‘inherent values…’.”
What might this mean? I will state it concisely. I believe it means a person might have “great trouble” in understanding right from wrong. The ability to distinguish right from wrong is of course essential for an understanding of the “inherent values” of the marriage vows. It would further mean that to violate these sacred vows would be simply wrong. As I understand CCC 1776, this wrong could not excuse culpability for violating the marriage vows.
Number 301 of AL then continues as follows: “…or be in a concrete situation which does not allow him or her to act differently and decide otherwise
without further sin.” (emphasis added)
It is critical to note the reference in the quotation to “further sin”. The only reasonable conclusion would be that the subject is in an irregular union that results in the grave sin of adultery. Number 301 of AL then concludes as follows: “As the Synod fathers put it, factors may exist which limit the ability to make a decision.”
Indeed they may. Nevertheless, the remaining difficulty is the reference in number 301 to “further sin”. What of this first sin that is referenced? Is it not the grave sin of adultery?
In my opinion, it is this that requires an explanation. I also believe it will prove very difficult to provide any such explanation. This is solely my opinion.