So, I came back from RCIA today, and some topics kind of struck out at me…forgive me if I’m being disrespectful in some way, I didn’t really feel it was my place to question the teacher, but here goes.
1 John 4:1 Beloved, do not trust every spirit but test the spirits to see whether they belong to God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
<not aimed at your teacher here, but a general rule is you can question the teaching for truth (test the spirits and the fruits of the teaching). You are wise. Also
respectful in avoiding a possibly needless confrontation.
- Discussed was that thing on the news about that scrap of paper saying Jesus was married. My teacher said it didn’t matter if Jesus was married or not. !
uh, doesn’t sound good. Don’t know what he/she was trying to do there. To me, it did matter, because it meant the Catholic Church had incorrect doctrine, was fallible, and the institution crumbles from teaching error for 2000 years. Am I wrong? In this case, no (IMOpinion). But this “standard” of yours might be suspect for discerning other things. For example the Church didn’t teach specifics about there being a “new world” until Columbus’ expedition revealed it to all of Europe. It did not teach in error. It didn’t teach about it at all.
Your teacher might be unconfident or shaken by this “news” - and yet unshaken in her faith in Jesus. Hedging a bet but allowing for the worst case scenario (popular belief in this thing) to “not matter”. HOPEFULLY he/she is not a person with a contrary agenda and bringing up his/her own takes on controversies in opposition to Church teaching.
At any rate, yes, Jesus was single, unmarried, a virgin all His life … and Mary, His mother, was married, a mother (of just Jesus) … but also a virgin all her life. You are correct. It matters.
- Whether or not the Virgin Mary remained virgin after she gave birth didn’t matter. I suppose whether Mary remained a virgin after she gave birth is none of my business, but I was under the impression that that was Catholic doctrine, and not optional to believe in. Am I wrong? No you aren’t wrong. But now this tepid teaching has you “supposing” about things that are settled.
If this teacher taught Geometry and someone chirped in with “I don’t believe in
Pi- you’re just guessing. No one can find the area of a circle!” Would they put up with it? Ruminate for hours wringing hands and looking for an open-minded approach?
There ARE those who don’t want there to be any absolutes in faith. But Jesus has taught with authority and so does His Church. You are wise to be cautious, IMO.
I’m not sure what I’m asking for exactly, but if someone could…“clarify” for me the Catholic view, please do.
tyia