You know, having a Catholic roommate wouldn’t be such a good deal if:
- The Catholic was lukewarm towards her faith, never attends Mass, and has no idea of what her Church teaches.
- The Catholic is liberal theologically and believes that Jesus didn’t really rise from the dead, that Mary wasn’t really a virgin, etc.
- The Catholic is liberal in practices, and believes that women should be priests, that priests should be married, and that homosexuals should be allowed to marry.
- The Catholic is a hypocrite and deliberately chooses to sin regularly and does not avail herself of Reconciliation or the Eucharist.
My daughter (not a Catholic) attended a Catholic university and for the first three years, had Catholic roommates who were total hypocrites. This really turned her off to Catholicism. Finally in her Senior year, she had two serious Catholic roommates, and it was the best year she had.
I honestly think, rather than Catholics 1-4 above, I would prefer a Protestant roommate who was serious about her faith, as long as she was also willing to have an open mind and be charitable. The Catechism says that as much as it is possible, we are supposed to maintain dialogue with our non-Catholic brothers and sisters.
I’ve actually written a novel about a Catholic man (a federal officer) who is sent on a case to Africa and ends up with an anti-Catholic Protestant roommate (a female). By the end of my novel, she isn’t a Catholic, but his loving sacrifices for her and his courage, along with his knowledge of the Bible, have convinced her that Catholics are Christians and that she must change her intolerant ways.