Speaking in tongues?

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Some are disappointed because they are peer pressured and faked it to fit in with everyone.

Anyone who has been sealed by the HS has the potential to speak in tongues.
These are the same types of issues I found in pentecostal and charismatic non-denominational churches.

Eventually, people develop a sense of superiority because somehow, whether you “receive” tongues or not is linked to your spiritual walk.
 
For a Catholic, the charismatic movement shouldn’t be considered by non-charismatic Catholics as a substitute or replacement of the liturgy or the Mass or the sacraments, but instead, as a supplement to it.
So, if I understand you correctly, charismatic services are separate from the mass? Or do some charismatic congregations incorporate speaking in tongues, etc in the mass?
 
These are the same types of issues I found in pentecostal and charismatic non-denominational churches.

Eventually, people develop a sense of superiority because somehow, whether you “receive” tongues or not is linked to your spiritual walk.
I have experienced this myself but this is an incorrect attitude. There should never be the implication that tongues make a person a “better Christian.” But it is a powerful spiritual tool.

I’ve never spoken in tongues, and at one point in my youth group when they prayed over it, I started praying silently in Italian, and they assumed I had received the gift. I was just totally embarrassed.

It’s easy to fake tongues, too. But ultimately, the real thing cannot be faked. It cannot be learned either.
 
I think this is a very good question. Scripture says:

1 Cor 12:4-11

4 Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; 5 and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; 6 and there are varieties of working, but it is the same God who inspires them all in every one. 7 To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. 8 To one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit, 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, 10 to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. 11 All these are inspired by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.

One would have to surmise that the HS does not deem it necessary or expedient for everyone to have each gift. That being said, I think it is important for Catholics to know that the HS has given each gift to everyone in potentiality. When we are sealed by the HS in baptism, everything is put in place so that any gift that is needed is available within each of us. The same God inspires them in everyone. Some of those gifts may never be manifested, while others may be manifested daily. Padre Pio, for example, exercised the gift if knowledge regularly. God revealed to him things about the people that came to him in confession, and he would confront them.

The authentic charismatic gifts have their origin in God, and would not be “simply a learned behavior” from a human point of view. That being said, it is necessary for people to learn to use their gifts, whatever they are. Most Catholics never unwrap the charismatic part of their baptism, and it remains in ignorance and unuse.

In my confirmation, the characterological gifts were emphasized:

Isa 11:2-3
2 And the Spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him,
the spirit of wisdom and understanding,
the spirit of counsel and might,
the spirit of knowledge and the fear of the LORD.
3 And his delight shall be in the fear of the LORD.

These are all gifts that must be “learned”. Of course one is to expect the grace of God at work in one to will and to do His good pleasure, but all these gifts are such that we grow into them and cathect them as we learn.

I think this is a very unknown and misunderstood point about praying in tongues.

1 Cor 14:13-14
14 For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays but my mind is unfruitful.

Many will then say, what is the point of that kind of prayer? To that I would say, spiritual growth:

1 Cor 14:4
4 He who speaks in a tongue edifies himself,

This is a form of prayer intended to build up the individual in their relationship with God. There is also something to be said for getting out of one’s head during prayer. 👍

It strikes me that it is similar to a Benedictine or other lifestyle and form of worship. They are just as Catholic as Augustinian orders, but their way of living the devoted life varies.

Clearly he mentions both known and unknown languages.

I think this is the main reason the Charismatic gifts are not flourid at Confirmation as they were in the early Church. It is a lack of instruction, and the recipients not having that clue about how it works.
Ha ha.

Every time I’ve heard tongues, it sounded like Spanish or Italian.
 
If the tongue can NOT be interpreted, the speaker should remain quiet. Likewise, we need to heed Paul’s advice
Yes, of course. But these instructions are for the gathering, so that everything may be done decently and in order. They don’t apply to private prayer. Besides, the use of a tongue in prayer is not the same as the variety used in “speaking” at the gathering.These are two differenty types.
and NOT get caught up in solely the emotional experience.
This is a common misunderstanding about the use of tongues that has been perpetrated by the abuses that exist. The fact that one’s emotions are involved in worship does NOT equate to getting “caught up” by them. It is also false that emotions being involved in worship means it is “solely an emotional experience”. However, this is a good example of what I was saying about people being afraid to involve emotions in worship. These two elements, that one will be “caught up” by them, and that they will “solely” direct or hijack the worship are rather common among opponents of charismatic gifts.
One needs to follow what Paul says.
I agree.

1 Thess 5:19-20
19 Do not quench the Spirit, 20 do not despise prophesying…

1 Cor 14:5
5 Now I want you all to speak in tongues…

1 Cor 14:18
18 I thank God that I speak in tongues more than you all;

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These are the same types of issues I found in pentecostal and charismatic non-denominational churches.

Eventually, people develop a sense of superiority because somehow, whether you “receive” tongues or not is linked to your spiritual walk.
Yes, this is a common abuse that has been very detrimental. It is a clear departure from the Apostolic teaching, which places this gift at the bottom of the priority list.

1 Cor 12:27-31

27 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it. 28 And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then workers of miracles, then healers, helpers, administrators, speakers in various kinds of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? 30 Do all possess gifts of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? 31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts.

And I will show you a still more excellent way.

The still more excellent way that has been pursued by the Church is the way of Love, extolled in I Cor. 13. Although this “way” need not be pursued to the exclusion of the charismata, that has been largely the result. What we are seeing in our day and age is a gross lack of love as well in the Body, and the spiritual gifts can bring one to cleave better to God, so that the “still more excellent way” can be pursued.

1 Cor 14:1-2
:1 Make love your aim, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy.
 
So, if I understand you correctly, charismatic services are separate from the mass? Or do some charismatic congregations incorporate speaking in tongues, etc in the mass?
Both things occur, but most charismatic prayer gatherings are separate from the Mass. Occasionally a priest will celebrate the liturgy with charismatics, and accomodate the exercise of spiritual gifts, but this is not the norm.
 
So, if I understand you correctly, charismatic services are separate from the mass? Or do some charismatic congregations incorporate speaking in tongues, etc in the mass?
This is my experience. I have never seen a charismatic gift used in the mass. My group actually urges against the use of things such as tongues in mass, because the solemnity and custom of the liturgy is well defined for the sake of the congregation. i.e. There are specific places where silence is expected. Charismatic gifts are never to be used in a setting where they are not welcome or where they will cause division and conflict. As these contradict the intention of the Holy Spirit in giving us such gifts. It is abundantly clear that they are solely for building up the Church and the faith of the faithful, both individually and communally.

On the other hand many people who have other charismatic gifts do tend to experience them though the Eucharist, however these tend to be extraordinary revelations such as prophecy** or exhortation, not tongues. When you get a prophecy or exhortation, you usually do not use it on the spot, because that is not the purpose of these gifts. I know people who immediately after receiving communion get strong messages for people and such - like “call up so and so after mass, they are having a rough time, encourage them in their situation” - usually such things come as a shock to the person encouraging and those in need of encouragement.

**Don’t think of prophecy as strictly seeing/predicting the future, as that is only a small part of this gift.

People who are charismatic are not holier or more capable of being holy compared to those who are not. Saying such would be like saying a Franciscan is more holy than a Dominican. I have found that the charismatic gifts that I have received have drawn me into much deeper unity with God, and has helped me overcome personal problems and propensity to sin, but this is just one of the many ways that God has chosen to work through my heart. It is not the only way I could have gotten to a higher state of grace. In my spiritual growth, I have actually come to understand why God has taken me this route.

Also, Charismatic gifts can be a huge responsibility as well. I know people who are prophets of sorts, who have seen major healings in others on account of their prayers and exhortation. It is crucial to remember that all gifts come from God, exist because of the will of God, and are sustained by the will of God. Being Charismatic is not just something you wake up and do, it is a way of life and devotion within the Church(just like becoming a missionary or entering a monastery). If God gives you any special spiritual gift, you have an obligation to use it for the good of the Church, so it is a case of much being given, but much being expected.
 
This is my experience. I have never seen a charismatic gift used in the mass. My group actually urges against the use of things such as tongues in mass, because the solemnity and custom of the liturgy is well defined for the sake of the congregation. i.e. There are specific places where silence is expected. Charismatic gifts are never to be used in a setting where they are not welcome or where they will cause division and conflict. As these contradict the intention of the Holy Spirit in giving us such gifts. It is abundantly clear that they are solely for building up the Church and the faith of the faithful, both individually and communally.
Well, you need permission from the local bishop to incorporate things like tongues into the Mass. I’ve been to Mass where this permission has been given and it’s done, and I think it is done appropriately. In fact, St. Paul’s discussion on charisms in 1 Corinthians is actually part of a larger section on the liturgy, and he is encouraging the use of the charismatic gifts at Mass. But currently, this is not yet been incorporated on a large scale back into the Mass.

Because you need special permission to add, remove, or change anything in the Mass, most charismatics incorporate the use of the gifts outside the Mass.
 
I’m not all together grasping this. Why isn’t the Holy Spirit working through ALL the other Christians in this very way then? Doesn’t this make you wonder?🤷

Can you prove this simply isn’t a learned behavior? I’ll admit I have viewed this only on the surface. But these questions come immediately to mind.

Peace
The Holy Spirit is a perfect gentleman. He does not force anything on anyone … or give a gift if he is not first invited by a person that is willing … and has an open heart.

Jesus said … Wait until I send the Holy Spirit …who will give you power. 500 people heard him … but there were only 120 people still waiting on Pentecost. Jesus invited/ instructed “all the other Christians” as you mention above … but for whatever reason … they rejected his offer. Willing obedience, trust and expectation were the key then … as well as now.

Paul the Apostle explained that the gifts are there …but they must be sought after … there is an element of faith required in order to activate and practice the gifts … and if/ when they are allowed to wane they must be ‘stirred up’ … as he reminded Timothy.

None of it is automatic. It must be acquired and practiced … Same as playing the Saxophone.

I have, and practice regularly, the gift of tongues and healing … among others.

The first thing that drew me to become proficient … was a healthy curiosity. The secont thing … and this was hard to learn for me … was to not doubt.

The more I practice these … the more faith and understanding I receive. There are places and people where the healing, for instance, does not happen. It is usually because of a lack of understanding of how to receive.

People dont use or express the various gifts for different reasons. For instance … In some places it is just not done that way … and people that are curious are told to stop asking … in some cases they are asked to stop talking about it or leave ( ‘the traditions of men make void the power of God’) … in others there is a lack of understanding of how to receive and actively practice the gifts.
 
I’m not all together grasping this. Why isn’t the Holy Spirit working through ALL the other Christians in this very way then? Doesn’t this make you wonder?🤷

Can you prove this simply isn’t a learned behavior? I’ll admit I have viewed this only on the surface. But these questions come immediately to mind.

Peace
Yes, it is a learned behavior… but all of the gifts of the Spirit require a learning process …

There are some very good books on the subject. “They Speak With Other Tongues” is a good one … I read it a long time ago … It gave me my first insight into what ‘tongues’ was about.
Lots of Catholic Charismatics have and exercise the gift … so I am sure that there are publications from the Catholic perspective.
 
I have a question…

My boyfriend fell to the ground unconscious for about a minute when a priest seemingly “speaking in tongues” and had his hand onto him…

Why did he fell unconscious? I’ve been trying to make sense of this for a longest time. Thank you for any answers…
 
I have a question…

My boyfriend fell to the ground unconscious for about a minute when a priest seemingly “speaking in tongues” and had his hand onto him…

Why did he fell unconscious? I’ve been trying to make sense of this for a longest time. Thank you for any answers…
This is called “resting in the Spirit” or “slain in the Spirit.” Basically, according to charismatics, your boyfriend was simply overcome with the presence of God.

And in fact, it had nothing to do with the priest speaking in tongues, but instead was your boyfriend’s physical response to an encounter with God.
 
Yes, it is a learned behavior… but all of the gifts of the Spirit require a learning process …

There are some very good books on the subject. “They Speak With Other Tongues” is a good one … I read it a long time ago … It gave me my first insight into what ‘tongues’ was about.
Lots of Catholic Charismatics have and exercise the gift … so I am sure that there are publications from the Catholic perspective.
I wouldn’t say that it is a learned behavior. Certainly there is a maturing and growth in the gifts as we make use of them. But to say that you “learn” them is incorrect terminology. The gifts are imparted as the Spirit wills. Our job is to accept what God gives us and to use it for is glory.
 
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My boyfriend fell to the ground unconscious for about a minute when a priest seemingly “speaking in tongues” and had his hand onto him…

Why did he fell unconscious? I’ve been trying to make sense of this for a longest time. Thank you for any answers…

By falling to the ground, your boyfriend experienced firsthand the amazing power of the Holy Spirit. Speaking in tongues by the priest was just a manifestation or sign of the Holy Spirit’s presence and it is was actuallly the Holy Spirit’s annointing through the priest that caused your boyfriend to fall… Although he appeared unconscious, your boyfriend was totally aware of his surroundings and totally aware of the presence and power of the Holy Spirit on him.

What happened to your boyfriend is just a small example of the kind of Holy Spirit power Jesus’ followers experienced at Pentecost. Before Jesus left this earth to return to the Father, he told his disciples to wait for the One that would come to give them power from on high. This power was the power of the Holy Spirit. While many Catholics and Christians believe Pentecost marks the beginning of Church history, many in the body of Christ do not believe the Holy Spirit manifests that same kind of power today.

Your boyfriend’s encounter with the Holy Spirit was very real. Anyone can have an encounter with the Holy Spirit. All it takes is an open heart and a calling upon the Holy Spirit. Ask for gifts of the Holy Spirit and ask the Holy Spirit to come into your life. He is waiting for that moment when you’re ready to take that leap of faith. And once you do, there’s no turning back.

God Bless
 
Well, for me, I have experienced charismatic people telling somewhat that if I don’t have the gift of tongue somehow I am not pleasing God enough. They seem to thing that the ‘gift of tongue’ is the most important gift or the sign that you are really with God. Yet, when they turn around and acts in ways which are unholy, I honestly wonder whether they have the Holy Spirit at all, or whether they even know what the Holy Spirit is. I just sense a spirit of pride and looking down on others and I don’t think this is from the Holy Spirit.

An other thing I don’t understand is: I think prayer is supposed to be either private (between a person and God) or if public, then all pray together. Why pray personnal prayer publicly/laudly? I find this a distraction when I am trying to concentrate on my own private prayer. Also, I have noticed that some praying for me, pretending to be praying to God and speaking in general terms. This kind of situation when someone prays for you and would like you to hear that he is praying for you, yet conceiling it behind, the praying the charismatic way…I find it hypocritical and definatevely not inspiried by the Holy Spirit.
If a brother thinks I have a problem, why not approch me and tell me about it, and even tell me that he is going to pray for me. Why speak to me in the third person, pretending to pray?

I pray often with a charismatic group. I have been trying to find a charitable way to tell them how some acts just don’t seem to be connected with the Holy Spirit in any way, shape, or form.

For, me if ‘speaking in tongues’ is a sign of ecstasy in God, then it should go with holiness. How is it that some people who are not yet ‘baptized in the Holy Spirit’ seem to be holier than those who have been? I think I need to understand more clearly what baptism of the Holy Spirit means really.

It also seems to me that some people just practice and make themselves speak babbles in order to appear that they are ‘speaking in tongues’. Many seem to do it under pressure from others just to fit / be accepted in the group. I find this sad and unholy.
 
I have a question…

My boyfriend fell to the ground unconscious for about a minute when a priest seemingly “speaking in tongues” and had his hand onto him…

Why did he fell unconscious? I’ve been trying to make sense of this for a longest time. Thank you for any answers…
This condition is not “unconscious”,as people in this state are quite conscious, it is just that the power of God’s presence is so overwhelming that they cannot stand up. Their focus is so intensely on the presence of God that they are not aware of their physical sense. The Children of Fatima experienced a similar trancelike state, where they fell upon their knees on sharp rocks, but never felt any pain during their prayers.
 
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 Well, for me, I have experienced charismatic people telling somewhat that if I don't have the gift of tongue somehow I am not pleasing God enough.
I am very sorry this happened to you. Not only is it misinformation, but I think it is abusive and judgemental.
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  They seem to thing that the 'gift of tongue' is the most important gift or the sign that you are really with God. Yet, when they turn around and acts in ways which are unholy, I honestly wonder whether they have the Holy Spirit at all, or whether they even know what the Holy Spirit is. I just sense a spirit of pride and looking down on others and I don't think this is from the Holy Spirit.
You description sounds very much like how Paul describes the Corinthian Church. Very rich in charismatic gifts, and very poor in maturity. 😦
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An other thing I don't understand is: I think prayer is supposed to be either private (between a person and God) or if public, then all pray together. Why pray personnal prayer publicly/laudly?
This is one of the abuses of the gifts that has occured because non-Catholic ecclesial communities don’t have authority over them restrainng inappropriate behavior. These gifts need to be used properly, in the right context and for the functions God created them. When they are not, we see chaos.
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I find this a distraction when I am trying to concentrate on my own private prayer. Also, I have noticed that some praying for me, pretending to be praying to God and speaking in general terms. This kind of situation when someone prays for you and would like you to hear that he is praying for you, yet conceiling it behind, the praying the charismatic way...I find it hypocritical and definatevely not inspiried by the Holy Spirit.
You can always ask them to pray in English. If a person is unwilling to do this, I would not allow them to pray over you.
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 If a brother thinks I have a problem, why not approch me and tell me about it, and even tell me that he is going to pray for me. Why speak to me in the third person, pretending to pray?
This just seems bizarre to me.
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 I pray often with a charismatic group. I have been trying to find a charitable way to tell them how some acts just don't seem to be connected with the Holy Spirit in any way, shape, or form.
I recommend that you be just as blunt as you are here. 👍
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  For, me if 'speaking in tongues' is a sign of ecstasy in God, then it should go with holiness.
It should, but it is given to the most immature believers, to help them grow in grace, and that is why we see a lack of maturity sometimes.
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 How is it that some people who are not yet 'baptized in the Holy Spirit' seem to be holier than those who have been? I think I need to understand more clearly what baptism of the Holy Spirit means really.
Catholics are sealed in the HS at baptism. Some grow in grace, some do not.
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It also seems to me that some people just practice and make themselves speak babbles in order to appear that they are 'speaking in tongues'. Many seem to do it under pressure from others just to fit / be accepted in the group. I find this sad and unholy.
Yes, it is very sad. It certainly does not help anyone grow in grace,a nd only encourages people who think erroneously to continue to have wrong ideas like "you can’t speak in tongues = you are not pleasing to God’.
 
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