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I fail to see how this supports contraception and not NFP. To me, it supports NFP totally. If both “parties” agree to abstain (for any of numerous reasons, including the prevention of a pregnancy), for a period of time (hours, days, weeks and in some cases years), this is OK. But you should also be praying to God to make sure that is what he wants. I do not take it to mean that you should be praying instead of having sex, but praying if this is the abstention is correct in God’s plan for you.Let’s break down the statement
“Do not deprive each other”- A husband and wife are not to abstain
“except”- unless…
“by mutual consent”- No one side should refuse sex
“and for a time”- this abstinence should not be open ended
“so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.”- If it were not for this ending, you would be correct in your analysis. If he had said “so that you may avoid pregnancy” you would be even more correct. But he clearly states that three conditions must be met for a couple to abstain: consent, a set time, and for the sake of prayer. This passage does not offer direct support of contraception, it sets a standard that NFP fails.