No, they would not continue as they were before. Before there were several differences.
- The bishops were excommunicated, not the laity.
- When the excommunications were lifted, it the bishops and priests were in an irregular status, not the laity.
- If the SSPX goes into schism, any layman who chooses the SSPX over the mainstream Church will also be in schism… Something big will have changed. These people will no longer be Catholic. They will have severed their ties with the Catholic Church. This is not “life as usual” even though it may look that way on the surface.
As to stay at home rather than go to an OF mass, that’s not an option that the Church gives. Therefore, no priest has the authority to trump the Church and give such an option. That in itself constitutes a schismatic act. The priest who makes such a statement, while he may not be in schism, is creating his on laws. That is just a illegal, irresponsible and immoral as the priest that says to someone that it’s OK to use birth control. Except that freely missing Sunday mass is higher on the hierarchy of sin than birth control.
Being unable to attend mass is when you’re sick, have no transportation, the weather does not allow it, there is political turmoil and it’s not safe, you’re too young or too old to go alone. Those are legitimate reasons. “I cringe because of what I see at mass is not a morally acceptable reason to miss mass. The mass is about me worshiping God, not about God and priest pleasing me.”
I’m sure that Mary and John cringed at the foot of the cross, but they were there. There are millions of Catholics who cringe at different things that happen at mass or in their parishes, but we bit the bullet and sit through it. In a way, one is giving oneself a dispensation that the Church does not allow. Here again, one is creating laws that don’t exist.
We must always be careful to worship with reverence; however, we must also be very careful never to trump the Church by overruling her laws.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, FFV