Stephen Fry - Why does God let children suffer?

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I was crying in sadness, Simon.
If you honestly don’t see a difference between the sadness one might feel watching their child graduate high school, and the sadness one might feel watching them being eaten alive by bone cancer, then I’m not sure there’s much else I can do for you here.
 
Right and wrong according to whom?
Well, that’s a problem, then, if you can’t see the error in Rev. Fred Phelps’ church’s position:

(Don’t know if you can see pics, with your trial membership status, so google Fred Phelps and see what type of thing I’m posting here).
 
If you honestly don’t see a difference between the sadness one might feel watching their child graduate high school, and the sadness one might feel watching them being eaten alive by bone cancer, then I’m not sure there’s much else I can do for you here.
I think you’re demonstrating an inability to think in the abstract here.

Point is: just because someone cries at a graduation, while knowing that her child is still going to be happy in college, doesn’t mean that she really believes COLLEGE DOESN’T ACTUALLY EXIST.

If you can see how that could be true, then extrapolate that to a person mourning her child’s diagnosis. She, too, can be sad, while also believing in heaven.

QED
 
I can give you a whole list of unpalatable Catholic standards that refute your position.
Those “unpalatable Catholic standards” seem rather cosmetic, though. Obviously, for some people, they are deal-breakers.
If you can give some Church document that limns the fact that the Church declares that God commands we rape and pillage, that would be helpful.
Like I said, I don’t think such a document exists.
Again, a Church document that justifies killing and rape is warranted.
Killing, raping, and pillaging took place during the Crusades. The Church deems the Crusades justified.
There is no such thing as “This is what we believe. End of story” with Catholic apologetics.
“This is what we believe. End of story” - this is how I’ve known it so far.
Ah. So is it true then that your mind is made up? This statement seems to affirm that you are actually recusant to any apologia?
I don’t understand what you mean here. I had to look up “recusant” and “recusancy” but I’m not sure what this has to do with me.

My point was that if CC doctrine is true, then it cannot be proven.
 
I think you’re demonstrating an inability to think in the abstract here.

Point is: just because someone cries at a graduation, while knowing that her child is still going to be happy in college, doesn’t mean that she really believes COLLEGE DOESN’T ACTUALLY EXIST.

If you can see how that could be true, then extrapolate that to a person mourning her child’s diagnosis. She, too, can be sad, while also believing in heaven.

QED
I’ve already demonstrated my ability to think in the abstract. Even if you grant that heaven exists, it doesn’t remove the philosophical problem of apparently needless suffering. All you can do is dismiss it on the faith-based assumption that we’re all too dumb to understand it now, but that, one day, it will all be explained to us.
 
Killing, raping, and pillaging took place during the Crusades. The Church deems the Crusades justified.
Killing, raping, pillaging and much worse (Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Dresden) occurred and, in fact, was perpetrated by the allies in World War II, it isn’t a weak position to still deem WWII as justified.
 
Those are mundane matters that you list there. For those I have only provisional belief or provisional trust.
Understood.

Do you provisionally believe that Jesus walked on this earth 2000 years ago and had disciples who claim he died and resurrected?
And no, again, I never said I reject them. I am just not convinced by them.
Understood.

So you are considering them still? You have not yet made up your mind?

There is no recusancy to the possibility that the Church has authority?
 
Those “unpalatable Catholic standards” seem rather cosmetic, though. Obviously, for some people, they are deal-breakers.
Then your point is refuted by these Catholics who leave the Church over this issue.

QED.
Like I said, I don’t think such a document exists.
Then you are mistaking what Catholics do with what the Catholic Church teaches.

I am not here to provide apologia for what sinful men do.

It’s a straw man argument you’ve presented, Lucy.

If you want to argue that the Church was wrong, then you need t provide documentation that the Church taught wrong things, by providing magisterial and doctrinal teachings of such.

As you have already conceded: there is no such thing.

It is incontrovertible that Catholics are sinners.

That in no way damages the credibility of the CC.

Just as it would be foolish to reject a physician solely because her clients are obese–because they don’t follow her recommendations, it’s similarly foolish to reject the CC solely because her members are sinners, and are not following her recommendations.
 
My point was that if CC doctrine is true, then it cannot be proven.
Really?

We can’t prove that, say, Jesus is divine?

Why do you say that? Have you looked at the arguments proving his divinity?
 
Ah. So is it true then that your mind is made up? This statement seems to affirm that you are actually recusant to any apologia?
It’s not that my mind would be made up. It’s that I have simply lost hope that Catholics will ever treat me any better than they have thus far. That in their view, I will never be a real person, but always something less, like a thing. I have no hope that even if I formally convert, I will ever have any Catholic friends, or even just friendly acquaintances.
I’m not complaining; it’s that in such a situation, how I am to trust them and depend on them when it comes to matters of God??
Well, that’s a problem, then, if you can’t see the error in Rev. Fred Phelps’ church’s position:
Personally, I may disapprove of Phelps’ position – but what does that matter?
I can’t prove that God doesn’t hate homosexuals.
Killing, raping, pillaging and much worse (Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Dresden) occurred and, in fact, was perpetrated by the allies in World War II, it isn’t a weak position to still deem WWII as justified.
Never said it wasn’t justified.
But when mistreatment of the group’s own members is justified by the group leadership or when the group’s leadership condones that some members mistreat other members, then that’s potentially a problem.
 
If the CC is the one who gets to set the terms, then it will undoubtedly set them to its own advantage. It’s not going to shoot itself in the foot, is it, by declaring standards that itself cannot live up to.
Are you a Philosopher, Lucy? You are using philosophical arguments here.
No, but I’m sure Catholics will find a way to defend it. They did so with the Crusades, or pretty much any other mean thing they were involved in.
Obviously it doesn’t state such, but it tends to find a way to justify it. The CC in Europe has a bloody history, and seems to be perfectly allright about it.
Just curious, are you a Historian?

You are appealing to history here.

I just want to remind you about what you said earlier (re-presented below). If you are consistent, then you really can’t be presenting philosophical and historical arguments…unless you are a Philosopher and Historian.
Because I think that my not being Catholic disqualifies me from using Catholic arguments against Catholics.
Of course, you could retract the above.

It’s pretty obvious that no one believes that she has to be a Catholic, philosopher, historian, mathematician, in order to access the truths presented by those disciplines.

Everyone knows that you don’t have to be a Catholic to say: you say you are a Catholic and yet you believe that Mary is a goddess. Doesn’t your Church teach that Mary is a human creature, and NOT divine?

If this putative Catholic tells you: well, since you are NOT Catholic you can’t tell me that…

you can dismiss that with the absurdity it deserves.
 
Understood.

Do you provisionally believe that Jesus walked on this earth 2000 years ago and had disciples who claim he died and resurrected?
Sure. But I think that is a weak line of reasoning. Although, do continue if you think you have a good point!

In contrast, I take a different approach: argumentation from morality. Arguments from morality hold regardless of physical evidence, and they have the potential to hold, come rain or high water.
I used to think that blood sacrifice was unacceptable. But considering the evil that humans are willing and able to do, and that many humans are willing to accept blood sacrifice, God sacrificing His divine Son seems like a reasonable scenario. Outrageous, but reasonable. I probably differ here quite a bit from any existing Christian doctrine. It is humans who need God sacrificing His Son, not God. Because this is for many humans the only way they can realize the scope of their free will and the scope of their willingness to deny God. Some people’s minds operate in such a way that only the thought that Jesus was sacrificed for them keeps their pride in check.
There is no recusancy to the possibility that the Church has authority?
I have in my mind an abstract idea of what the ideal church of God would be like. And in an abstract and idealized way, the Catholic Church matches this idea.
But the actual reality is quite different.
Then you are mistaking what Catholics do with what the Catholic Church teaches.
It’s not clear how the Catholic Church can be clearly separated or different from its members.
I don’t see how the two can be viewed separately.
It’s a straw man argument you’ve presented, Lucy.
It may be an inaccurate image that I present, but it’s not like I know better.
If you want to argue that the Church was wrong, then you need t provide documentation that the Church taught wrong things, by providing magisterial and doctrinal teachings of such.
I never argued that it was wrong.
It is incontrovertible that Catholics are sinners.
That in no way damages the credibility of the CC.
???
How can that be?
I don’t understand this at all!
Just as it would be foolish to reject a physician solely because her clients are obese–because they don’t follow her recommendations, it’s similarly foolish to reject the CC solely because her members are sinners, and are not following her recommendations.
To me, the fitting analogy is that of the obese doctor telling his obese patients to lose weight. Such a doctor’s advice may be true and well-meant, but it surely isn’t convincing to the patients.
 
Personally, I may disapprove of Phelps’ position – but what does that matter?
I can’t prove that God doesn’t hate homosexuals.
True. You couldn’t do that.

But the point remains: if there is no arbiter of truth, then anyone can say anything and it is true because he says it is?
 
My point was that if CC doctrine is true, then it cannot be proven.
This was about the nature of a system that contextualizes the person asking the question within the system.

If a system contextualizes the person asking a question about said system, then said person cannot prove anything about the system; other than make statements that are self-referential to the system.
We can’t prove that, say, Jesus is divine?
Why do you say that? Have you looked at the arguments proving his divinity?
I didn’t say that, I don’t know how you got to this.
I have no idea how one would go about proving Jesus’ divinity. Other than in a circular manner.
If this putative Catholic tells you: well, since you are NOT Catholic you can’t tell me that…

you can dismiss that with the absurdity it deserves.
No, because in my mind, group dynamics trump doctrine. That putative Catholic is a member, and I am not; therefore, in Catholic matters, her opinion automatically counts for more than mine, even if hers is nominally in conflict with the CC doctrine.
 
How can that be?
I don’t understand this at all!
Take the example of the physician again.

She gives advice to her obese clients. They don’t take it.

How does that make the physician or her advice wrong?

You are looking at obese clients and concluding: the physician and her advice is bad.

That’s not a reasonable conclusion, is it?

The doctor says: stop smoking, get on this exercise plan, take this medication, here’s a nutrition plan, come back and see me in 6 weeks…

and the patient continues to smoke, sits on the couch to watch Dance Moms 6 hours a day, doesn’t fill the prescription, and eats at Mcdonald’s every day, never goes back to see the doctor…and then has a heart attack.

Anyone who says: well, that’s a bad doctor who gave bad advice…

is somehow not getting it.

Don’t you agree?
 
I had to look up “recusant” and “recusancy” but I’m not sure what this has to do with me.
It just means someone who is resistant to logic and reason.

Kind of a fundamentalist mindset: no way am I going to be convinced arms folded stubbornly.

Example: a patient reads all the studies that says that smoking is bad, and says, “I don’t care what the science says. I think that smoking is healthy!”

That’s being recusant.
 
Take the example of the physician again.

She gives advice to her obese clients. They don’t take it.

How does that make the physician or her advice wrong?

You are looking at obese clients and concluding: the physician and her advice is bad.
No, this is what you are concluding that I am concluding. And you’re not reading what I said.

Like I said: To me, the fitting analogy is that of the** obese doctor** telling his obese patients to lose weight. Such a doctor’s advice may be true and well-meant, but it surely isn’t convincing to the patients.
This is the part you missed.

An obese doctor telling his patients to lose weight is not convincing, is not inspiring, is not sending out the message that it is possible to lose weight, as with his own life and body, he is showing that he himself is not able or not willing to follow the advice that he is giving others.

A sinful person telling others not to sin is not convincing, is not inspiring. While his admonition may be true and well-meant, it is not convincing.
That is all.

And no, from that it doesn’t follow that the best thing to do is to continue sinning, or that the situation is hopeless or some such.
It just means someone who is resistant to logic and reason.
And you are the arbiter of logic and reason and I owe it to you to accept you as an authority over myself?
Kind of a fundamentalist mindset: no way am I going to be convinced arms folded stubbornly.
Example: a patient reads all the studies that says that smoking is bad, and says, “I don’t care what the science says. I think that smoking is healthy!”
That’s being recusant.
Well, then I’m not recusant, or you’re thinking too highly of yourself.
 
True. You couldn’t do that.

But the point remains: if there is no arbiter of truth, then anyone can say anything and it is true because he says it is?
No, I don’t subscribe to trivialism.

My point about the arbiter of truth was: If X tells you to refer to X to find out what the truth is, then X’s point is moot.
A sinful person telling others not to sin is not convincing, is not inspiring. While his admonition may be true and well-meant, it is not convincing.
That is all.

And no, from that it doesn’t follow that the best thing to do is to continue sinning, or that the situation is hopeless or some such.
But such a state of affairs can potentially change the nature of the relationship between the two, if the relationship is to continue: it changes it from being a hierarchical one (with the adviser being above the advisee), to them being peers.
 
I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned the Christian God’s attribute of omniscience. He knows everything throughout eternity. This leaves the uncomfortable question: Having the foreknowledge that a child would die horribly, why would he still create them?
Our knowledge and actions can have no impact on this, or that creator is not omniscient.

John
 
I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned the Christian God’s attribute of omniscience. He knows everything throughout eternity. This leaves the uncomfortable question: Having the foreknowledge that a child would die horribly, why would he still create them?
Our knowledge and actions can have no impact on this, or that creator is not omniscient.

John
There is no “foreknowledge” with God. To God, everything appears in the Eternal Now.
 
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