I agree - 2 ways - 1) We don’t need to argue, and 2) agreeing to disagree isn’t a bad thing.
To turn the form one prefers to use in expressing their devotion to God into the actual object of that devotion is nothing more than a leap you have made in your own mind.
It’s actually not a leap I’ve made in my mind… it’s an observation of behavior that I’ve seen in some people - and not necessarily you, Margaret.
Which I’m sorry, makes it an opinion. It is like saying because someone prefers blessing themselves with holy water to not blessing themselves with holy water upon entering the church that they suddenly worship the holy water itself.
Then we haven’t communicated, and you’ve misunderstood me, and I hope my clarification won’t be seen a “arguing.” I think I’ve steadfastly said that having and exercising one’s preference (I do that, as well - so if doing that is a problem, I’m guilty, too) is not that to which I take issue. I do NOT believe that exercising one’s preference as to the language they use in prayer or whether they bless themselves with or without holy water is problematic. I hope I can make myself clear on that, and if I am able to do that, I think you’ll see that we don’t differ in saying that the freedom to exercise a preference exists.
If one where to follow your line of reasoning, then I suppose it could also be said that any preferred form of devotion to Our Lord, whether it be preferring to genuflect, kneel, the sign of the cross, or praying the rosary, is the actual object of devotion itself. So it doesn’t make any sense to me, I’m sorry.
I agree. I think you’ve misinterpreted my line of reasoning. I likely miscommunicated it. So I’ll reiterate what I said above: I don’t see that exercising one’s preference, where rubrics, canons, etc allow for preferences, is a problem at all. Hopefully, to make it clear, let me state that exercising your preference in the language you use in a prayer does not constitute idolatry.
That being said, the fact that you do not do it in such a way as to constitute making an idol out of the form of prayer you use does not mean that others do not do it.
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The old English of traditional Catholic prayers was one of the few truly unique things that that set them apart from protestant prayers. You automatically knew it was Catholic because of the way they were written and because they had stood the test of time unaltered. They were truly poetic. And now, many just sound well… ordinary.
The same can be said, and is said, of the older forms of Anglican prayerbooks. Regardless of your take on the theology of Anglicanism - which I’m not actually dealing with here - folks who appreciate the beauty in the older forms of English, and the artful use thereof, also feel the same about the Book of Common Prayer of Cranmer and of that era. Many feel/felt that the beauty and flow of that use of the English could not be beat. So, for some, at least, seeing that kind of language almost automatically meant it was an old BCP and was Anglican. I know that’s a fine point, and could be considered argumentative, but use of that kind of language is not necessarily universally accepted as pointing to Catholicism (although probably the use of Latin probably would be).
I don’t recall ever saying I was ‘more closely aligned to God’ in using ‘Thee’ instead of ‘You’.
And I didn’t intend to say that
you did feel you were more closely aligned to God because of using “Thee” instead of “you.” If I said that by my clumsy wording, then all I can say is “mea culpa…”. What I
meant to convey was that folks in general - not you in specific - can’t claim to be more closely aligned with God because of “Thee” versus “You.” And based on what you’re saying to me, I trust thoroughly that you are not one of those people. Yet those people do exist, and it with those people I have problems, not you. Actually - I
should say it is that
practice with which I have problems, because I am sure that many of the folks who adhere to that practice for those reasons are genuine and sincere, and deserving of respect for being genuine and sincere.
Your last line above was never in dispute and I don’t recall ever saying it mattered more to God one way or the other. What I said is that it mattered to me.
Then I don’t believe we are in disagreement.
I’ll finish in a second…