Sudden Death of our 13 Year Old Daughter

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Hi Moe,
I am sitting here and feeling the weather change, I am thinking of you. Honestly I too am dreading Christmas for you, I can only think for you all to get through it is with lots of prayers, and to keep yourselves very very busy.
And you know what Moe I am truly sorry that you all have to feel so much pain! I think of the letters that Mother Teresa left, how she suffered so and how much God must have loved her. I do believe that when one suffers pain such as you are that God must love you so very much. I know to you that must sound asinine, but I believe that KK is looking down on you from Heaven and there is:angel1: a reason for that!
 
Dear Moe,

I could be doing better. But, I hope you are doing a “little” better. This time of year has got to be awful for you. But you will get through it. God has His hand on yours - I know it! I will continue praying for you and your family always!

Much love,

mom4truth:(
 
Nordar said:
Hi Moe,
I am sitting here and feeling the weather change, I am thinking of you. Honestly I too am dreading Christmas for you, I can only think for you all to get through it is with lots of prayers, and to keep yourselves very very busy.

I am so dreading even thinking about it … it was six months yesterday and I have been struggling just to get out of bed … never mind thinking about the holidays - that we all loved so much to plan … it is so painful
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And you know what Moe I am truly sorry that you all have to feel so much pain! I think of the letters that Mother Teresa left, how she suffered so and how much God must have loved her.  I do believe that when one suffers pain such as you are that God must love you so very much.  I know to you that must sound asinine, but I believe that KK is looking down on you from Heaven and there is:angel1:  a reason for that!
**I wished he didn’t love me so much … I can’t understand a Father letting his children suffer so much - and I dont’ me just me 😦 I mean everyone who has to suffer.

Thanks so much for the pep talk!**
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mom4truth said:
Dear Moe,

I could be doing better. But, I hope you are doing a “little” better. This time of year has got to be awful for you. But you will get through it. God has His hand on yours - I know it! I will continue praying for you and your family always!

Much love,

mom4truth:(
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My heart just continues to ache and break all over again - I do not know if I am strong enough to do this 😦 Life is so very sad 😦
 
I am pregnant with my first child and I am learning what it means to love someone so much and to worry every little second about their well being. I try not to worry and have faith that God has a plan for this little one and it is already decided, but I like to have the control…but it is not mine. One day, I pray that I learn the meaning of sadness like this. I am a firm believer that each of us has our own path and that God decided when that would start and end. Your daughter knows. She knows why she had to leave everyone so soon. We may never understand and it is hard not to feel cheated. I am so sorry for your loss. He called her back home.
 
Dear Moe,
I am praying for you, how hard it must be just to live and draw breath. Please keep looking up to heaven and please keep praying. That is all you, or any of us, can do.
Love,
Lissa
 
Dear Moe,

I know you are strong enough to do this. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be here and you would just give up on your daughter and husband. We’re all out here still praying for your family and will continue to do so as long as needed. I, myself, often feel as though I can’t go on in this life…but I do. God has a reason for all of these mysterious things we go through in this life.

Much love -
mom4truth
 
Hi Moe, its me Randy, I thought about you a lot yesterday. Please take it one day at a time. You bless me every time I get an email from CAF. You see, in my heart, I believe that God is gently leading me along to be of service to you. I am in wonder and awe, because I truly sense Gods caring hands for you. You are deeply loved! God bless! Randy
 
MGEISING said:
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Thanks my friend … how are you doing? Things are the same 😦 … keep those prayers coming - will you?

❤️ Moe**
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Always. I’ve been busy so I haven’t been on CAF much but I haven’t forgotten you in my prayers. Never.
I’ve been looking for a part time job(kind of a daunting task after 9 years of being a SAHM) and been driving the kids here, there and everywhere it seems.
I’m sorry there is such a difficult time approaching. Maybe it would help a little bit to meditate on Our Lady’s first Christmas without Jesus in your next rosary? I wonder what she did to cope. I imagine she had John there with her but she had to be lonely. I’m sure God gave her special graces to make it through. Just as He will give you also, I’m sure of it.
Hang in there, Moe.
 
rasmussen said:
I am pregnant with my first child and I am learning what it means to love someone so much and to worry every little second about their well being. I try not to worry and have faith that God has a plan for this little one and it is already decided, but I like to have the control…but it is not mine. One day, I pray that I learn the meaning of sadness like this. I am a firm believer that each of us has our own path and that God decided when that would start and end. Your daughter knows. She knows why she had to leave everyone so soon. We may never understand and it is hard not to feel cheated. I am so sorry for your loss. He called her back home.
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**Being pregnant was one of the most happiest times in my life … being a mom is great … I wish you health and love abounding!!!

I know she knows … but it still doesn’t make the pain go away … thank you for reaching out and may God bless your family.

Love Moe**
 
RWMorris said:
Dear Moe,
I am praying for you, how hard it must be just to live and draw breath. Please keep looking up to heaven and please keep praying. That is all you, or any of us, can do.
Love,
Lissa
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**Thanks once again, Lissa. I keep looking up to heaven … I do … I do all the time but the pain never goes away … just missing her with every breath I take.

Greg is very mad at God … told me today he is in turmoil while at Mass …I just don’t know what to say to him. I am mad at God too - but I need the Eucharists to sustain me … my faith is my life preserver … I just wish it were the same for him.

We are just so lost without her.

Loving you,

Moe**
 
mom4truth said:
Dear Moe,

I know you are strong enough to do this. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be here and you would just give up on your daughter and husband. We’re all out here still praying for your family and will continue to do so as long as needed. I, myself, often feel as though I can’t go on in this life…but I do. God has a reason for all of these mysterious things we go through in this life.

Much love -
mom4truth
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**Offered my Mass up for you (and my friend in Austriala, Sojna … I, we, need the prayers … things seem to be getting worse … the pain is constant. Missing her with every breathe.

Loving you,

Moe**
 
fire_and_ice said:
Hi Moe, its me Randy, I thought about you a lot yesterday. Please take it one day at a time. You bless me every time I get an email from CAF. You see, in my heart, I believe that God is gently leading me along to be of service to you. I am in wonder and awe, because I truly sense Gods caring hands for you. You are deeply loved! God bless! Randy
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**Hi Randy … I take it one hour at a time … I dont’ know how I bless anyone in my state - but you and all my friends are truly a blessing to me.

If you can be of service to us … pray … pray for us, pray for our pain, pray that my husband moves closer to God and not farther away like he is … pray that we can accept the things we can’t change or understand.

Thank you … so much Randy for reaching out. I hear people say I am deeply loved by God, but if feels more like I am orphaned by him 😦

Blessings my new friend,

Love Moe**
 
Lorik said:
Always. I’ve been busy so I haven’t been on CAF much but I haven’t forgotten you in my prayers. Never.
I’ve been looking for a part time job(kind of a daunting task after 9 years of being a SAHM) and been driving the kids here, there and everywhere it seems.
I’m sorry there is such a difficult time approaching. Maybe it would help a little bit to meditate on Our Lady’s first Christmas without Jesus in your next rosary? I wonder what she did to cope. I imagine she had John there with her but she had to be lonely. I’m sure God gave her special graces to make it through. Just as He will give you also, I’m sure of it.
Hang in there, Moe.
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**Hi my friend - I know you have been praying … I count on it … my friend.

I hope you get a fun job … life is too short.

I will try … I find the rosary so unstimulating lately — I find praying sometimes just saddens me because I don’t think it matters what I pray for … because I don’t think it matters.

I need to hang in here for Greg and Amanda … but it is getting harder and harder … just, all of us, missing her desperately.

I have pictures of her monument - does anyone know how to put them on this site? Someone helped me before but I forgot who.

Her monument is beautiful.

Thanks LoriK … love, huggles from NH**
 
Moe, God has given you the community (your family and local friends and far away friends (CAF) just let your community hold you and bless you. Your community is Gods grace to help you. Certainly I will pray for your husband. Try to be patient with him.
Throught out the day meditate on the Lord. Keep him at the fore front of your mind. He will do the heavy work. He will give you a break. The part in the bible in Psalms that says " he sets up thy table before thy enemies" is your plank to hold on to. Even if stress and fear, sorrow is at your door step, you need not worry, keep him in your mind and heart, steadfastly. God Bless have a great week. Keep the faith!!!
 
MGEISING said:
**Greg is very mad at God … told me today he is in turmoil while at Mass …I just don’t know what to say to him. I am mad at God too **
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Hi Moe,

I can see that the devil and his minions are indeed working on you and (especially) Greg right now. He would love nothing more than to deprive both of you of the only way to see your daughter again some day.

You are all (including Amanda) in my prayer today, especially Greg since we are both fathers.
 
fire_and_ice said:
Moe, God has given you the community (your family and local friends and far away friends (CAF) just let your community hold you and bless you. Your community is Gods grace to help you.

They, you - CAF, have been our salvation during this horrific nightmare … I thank God truly for that … for it is surely His work …

Certainly I will pray for your husband. Try to be patient with him.

**Oh I will be … he keeps telling me it is a phase. When KK died, the first month he said he never felt closer to God — and I think it is because he received the Eurcharist twice … at KK’s last rites and at her funeral Mass … both priests new my husband wasn’t Catholic - but they said it was OK and that they hoped he would come in the church one day … he even went up for blessing a couple of months after … now he doesn’t think it is useful at all 😦 **

Throught out the day meditate on the Lord. Keep him at the fore front of your mind. He will do the heavy work. He will give you a break. The part in the bible in Psalms that says " he sets up thy table before thy enemies" is your plank to hold on to. Even if stress and fear, sorrow is at your door step, you need not worry, keep him in your mind and heart, steadfastly. God Bless have a great week. Keep the faith!!!

**Thank you for your kindness and your words and most especially for your prayers.

Moe**
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mozier said:
Hi Moe,

I can see that the devil and his minions are indeed working on you and (especially) Greg right now. He would love nothing more than to deprive both of you of the only way to see your daughter again some day.

You are all (including Amanda) in my prayer today, especially Greg since we are both fathers.
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**I know … the principalities are in the works 😦

Thank yo so much for the prayers … Greg was thinking about becoming Catholic - now it is far from his mind 😦 but I guess it is all in God’s timing right :(**
 
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