Sunday Obligation Question

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I hav been around far more 9 year olds than you realize. Any 9 year old who was spoting those differences are because you taught them knowing that you were highlighting what the priest was doing wrong. 9 year olds don’t pick that up on their own - they are coached.
In defense of my daughter, you don’t know her. Although she is only 9-years-old, she tests at a 12-year-old level and higher. She is very mature and aware of what is going on around her. And, by the way, it doesn’t take much effort for one (even a 9-year-old) to see how the Mass is suppose to be celebrated, and then compare that to what they experience each and every week. 9-year-olds (at least mine) aren’t that stupid.
If you have to ask if you have an obligation to go to Mass in this parish, then you do not seem to have the education to be able to determine what is heresey and what is not.
Or it could be that I am asking because, as I shared, Canon Law does not address this issue, and I was simply wondering what other people’s thoughts were on the subject.
You seem far more interested in the rubrics than you seem in Christ, or you would not persist in the same question.
If you think this is simply a matter of rubics, then you haven’t been listening to me at all.
 
ServantofMary, I wish you’d give us some examples of the teachings contrary to the Catholic Faith which you say that the priest teaches in his homilies - perhaps you didn’t read my request for these some messages back?
 
Having read through this thread I can come to one major conclusion. As long as the Mass being celebrated is a Pauline Mass, the Ordinary Form as it were, the Priest can change virtually anything he wants to, apparently including the words of consecration and it is all good. Everything is fine as long as he has the correct intention which would be to conefct the Eucharist… He can teach anything he wants from the pulpit and that is fine also and we, the faithful are to suck it up, offer it up and forgive the Priest or in the minds of some not even think about it as we are apparently unworthy to do so. Even if this Mass is illicit, it is OK to attend it and we are supposed to do so.

Now on the other hand, if you attend an SSPX Chapel, you are doomed and a schismatic because the Masses are illicit and the Society itself is in a form of ecclesiastic suspension.

My question is, why is it OK to overlook illicit behavior in an Ordinary Form Mass, indeed we are apparently to pay no attention to it at all, but not to overlook them in an SSPX Mass?. It would seem to me that illicit behavior either is or is not a reason not to attend Mass.

Maybe someone can answer this question.
 
Salvation outside of the Church is another topic. But all I’ll say is that what this priest teaches is contrary to what the Church teaches (see my signature line below).
You quote is prior the Vatican II, that teaching has changed.

Peace,
FAB
 
Having read through this thread I can come to one major conclusion. As long as the Mass being celebrated is a Pauline Mass, the Ordinary Form as it were, the Priest can change virtually anything he wants to, apparently including the words of consecration and it is all good. Everything is fine as long as he has the correct intention which would be to conefct the Eucharist… He can teach anything he wants from the pulpit and that is fine also and we, the faithful are to suck it up, offer it up and forgive the Priest or in the minds of some not even think about it as we are apparently unworthy to do so. Even if this Mass is illicit, it is OK to attend it and we are supposed to do so.
This is not the case, priest are to follow the RITEs of the mass, and are to teach the doctrine of the Church. Many on this site don’t have a full understanding of either.
Now on the other hand, if you attend an SSPX Chapel, you are doomed and a schismatic because the Masses are illicit and the Society itself is in a form of ecclesiastic suspension.
My question is, why is it OK to overlook illicit behavior in an Ordinary Form Mass, indeed we are apparently to pay no attention to it at all, but not to overlook them in an SSPX Mass?. It would seem to me that illicit behavior either is or is not a reason not to attend Mass.
The SSPX has no say or bearing in the matter, they are not in communion with the Church, they don’t recognize the authority of the Church, or the forms of Vatican II. So for that matter, they should have as much influfence as any other protestant church.

Peace,
FAB
 
This is not the case, priest are to follow the RITEs of the mass, and are to teach the doctrine of the Church. Many on this site don’t have a full understanding of either.

The SSPX has no say or bearing in the matter, they are not in communion with the Church, they don’t recognize the authority of the Church, or the forms of Vatican II. So for that matter, they should have as much influfence as any other protestant church.

Peace,
FAB
However the Chucrh herself has said that SSPX Masses are valid but illicit. So my question remains, why are we to accept illicit Masses of one form but not the other?
 
However the Chucrh herself has said that SSPX Masses are valid but illicit. So my question remains, why are we to accept illicit Masses of one form but not the other?
The licitness of the Mass is the business of the priest. He can be of schismastic mentality whether he is saying the EF or OF or Eastern Orthodox, be a child molester of the worst kind, or be in some other state of mortal sin, but as long as his Masses are valid, that should be our only concern as far as fulfilling our obligation for a given Sunday. And our assistance at that Mass in no way in itself condones his mortal sin if he is indeed in the state of mortal sin.
 
An FSSP priest once told me that any Mass offered outside of the Church, even though the priests have valid orders, is a Mass offered against Christ and His Church and, therefore, not pleasing to Our Lord.

Maybe I did not word this the right way. My recollection of what was told to me is hazy for particulars. If someone here is familiar with what I am trying to convey, maybe they can expound.
 
Having read through this thread I can come to one major conclusion. As long as the Mass being celebrated is a Pauline Mass, the Ordinary Form as it were, the Priest can change virtually anything he wants to, apparently including the words of consecration and it is all good. Everything is fine as long as he has the correct intention which would be to conefct the Eucharist… He can teach anything he wants from the pulpit and that is fine also and we, the faithful are to suck it up, offer it up and forgive the Priest or in the minds of some not even think about it as we are apparently unworthy to do so. Even if this Mass is illicit, it is OK to attend it and we are supposed to do so.{/QUOTE] There is a prior post which sets out what makes a Mass illicit per se; you might try reading that again. And I believe it was mentioned that changing the actual words of Consecration (e.g. This is a representation of My Body) would make the Mass invalid as well as illicit per se, as would using, e.g. a rice cake instead of wheat host.
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Now on the other hand, if you attend an SSPX Chapel, you are doomed and a schismatic because the Masses are illicit and the Society itself is in a form of ecclesiastic suspension.
I don’t think anyone has used the word “doomed”. That seems a bit - what, petulant? there has been sufficient infromation out of Rome to indicate that it may not be the wisest choice for some, and that seems to be about as far as Rome has gone on the issue.
My question is, why is it OK to overlook illicit behavior in an Ordinary Form Mass, indeed we are apparently to pay no attention to it at all, but not to overlook them in an SSPX Mass?. It would seem to me that illicit behavior either is or is not a reason not to attend Mass.
Many (but certainly not all) of those who complain about illicit behavior in the Mass reached puberty long after Vatican 2 closed, the OF was promulgated and the chaos began.

That is not to fault them, but wisdom comes slowly. It is easy to pick a battle with no veiw to the past, go full tilt boogey at it, and come away in worse shape than before one entered the battle.

Some of us have been around far longer than others; and some have picked up enough wisdom to know when to fight a battle, and when not to engage.

It is a plain and simple fact that bishops do not know what the day to day processes are in any given parish, or even any of them. Bishops have full plates - many of them more than full plates - and they have staff. And the short of it is that the staff they have is there, like it or not, to filter out what the bishop is going to deal with on any given day, week, month or year.

Some of those staff - shock of shocks - are going to filter out letters complaining of irregularities, real and/or perceived, so that this never reaches the bishop’s desk. That is what has been happening for the last 35 or so years.

And even if a letter reaches Rome, Rome simply sends it to the bishop requesting tht he respond to the issue; and the bishop may or may not have a chat with the priest, and then we all go about our business.

I have seen one circumstance, several years ago, in which some members of a parish - I think it was in the upper mid West - actually video filmed a Mass by a priest who was egregiously over the edge. They then contacted the bishop; got no response, and then sent mulitple copies of the film to the mambers of the appropriate discatery in Rome. That one got a response that actually had some teeth in it. And if I recall, they were using the services of a Canon lawyer, rather than simply trying to do this on their own.

In 35+ years, this is the only incident I have heard of that actually got something done. Undoubtedly there have been others, handled quietly; but from what goes on in many dioceses, those are the rare exception rather than the rule.

So the OP is certainly capable of writing to the bishop. Depending on the diocese, the letter might actually be read by the bishop. If the OP gives no more details than they did in this thread, the odds are the letter will go into the round file. If they can give sufficent details over months of Masses - in other words, put enough details in that the bishop is convinced that things are worth his stepping in - what does the OP expect to happen? That the priest will be pulled from the parish? How likely is that when almost all dioceses are short of priests?

Slap him verbally on the hands and say “Naughty! Naughty!”? What is that going to accomplish? If this priest sees nothing wrong with what he is doing now, how likely is he going to take corrections from the bishop? And if he doesn’t, what is the bishop to do, when about the most he could do would be to put the pastor somewhere else - that is, simply shuffle the problem somewhere else? And why would he do that?

And what is the likelyhood, if the pastor sees nothing wrong in what he is doing and saying, that he is suddenly going to have a change of heart and mend his ways? What if he is doing what he has been taught?

The short answer is, what do you want to occur, if you could change places with the OP? And how would you accomplish it in the real world? The world that we have - weak bishops, poorly instructed priests, lack of replacements to the incalcitrant ones, - is no longer the lockstep world that we had 50 years ago.

I did not suggest doing nothing - I suggested praying. Maybe that doesn’t count for anything any more. I also suggested that no priest could drive me away from worshiping Christ every Sunday - and the OP is not the only one who has had to deal with these issues. But maybe that doesn’t count either.

And if that doesn’t work for you, how long does it actually take to drive to the next parish? What is your faith worth?
 
ServantofMary, I wish you’d give us some examples of the teachings contrary to the Catholic Faith which you say that the priest teaches in his homilies - perhaps you didn’t read my request for these some messages back?
Actually, specific examples do not have anything to do with the answer to my question. In fact, giving examples would probably just make this thread go off on different topics (like it almost did once in this thread already). But my thought is does it matter? Isn’t a heretical teaching a heretical teaching? Am I obligated to expose my family to heretical teachings, no matter what they may be?
 
Many (but certainly not all) of those who complain about illicit behavior in the Mass reached puberty long after Vatican 2 closed, the OF was promulgated and the chaos began. That is not to fault them, but wisdom comes slowly.
So are you saying that because I don’t want to expose my family to illicit behavior, irreverence, heresy, and sacrilege, that means that I don’t have wisdom? Hmmm…interesting…
I also suggested that no priest could drive me away from worshiping Christ every Sunday -
Personally, I worship Christ everyday. In fact, it is my love for Christ that drives me to not want to see Him treated irreverently, and especially not have my children grow up seeing my Lord treated that way. You don’t know how many times my wife and I have come home from Mass in tears over how our Lord in the Blessed Sacament had been treated. But, of course, I guess you think we should just overlook and ignore that, huh?
And if that doesn’t work for you, how long does it actually take to drive to the next parish? What is your faith worth?
Actually, with a family of six on a single income in today’s economy, most of the time we don’t have any left over after bills and the other expenses like food, diapers, etc. to travel anywhere else for Mass. Does that mean that my faith isn’t worth anything to me? Of course not.
 
Actually, specific examples do not have anything to do with the answer to my question. In fact, giving examples would probably just make this thread go off on different topics (like it almost did once in this thread already). But my thought is does it matter? Isn’t a heretical teaching a heretical teaching? Am I obligated to expose my family to heretical teachings, no matter what they may be?
But, you see, you may be worrying unnecessarily. Sometimes people come on here in a state about a practice they perceive to be wrong, or a teaching that they perceive to be heresy, but the reality is that what they picked up, or were taught, as children, wasn’t the Church’s teaching at all.

Unless you give examples of these heresies you say the priest preaches, you are running the risk of doing the priest a grave injustice.

The fact that you are unwilling or unable to give actual examples makes me suspect that you spoke too hastly in your original post.

We’ve all mis-spoken in our time, but it’s best practice to admit it.
 
but the reality is that what they picked up, or were taught, as children, wasn’t the Church’s teaching at all.
This seems to be a typical progressive theme.

I guess Church’s attempts at teaching in the past were all wrong. Maybe the math and English skills taught by the nuns were all wrong too.

No wonder our educational system is failing. Everyone has these brilliant theories that show just because we’re still alive must mean they’re working.
 
This seems to be a typical progressive theme.

I guess Church’s attempts at teaching in the past were all wrong. Maybe the math and English skills taught by the nuns were all wrong too.

No wonder our educational system is failing. Everyone has these brilliant theories that show just because we’re still alive must mean they’re working.
Who mentioned nuns?
 
You’re joking, right? The nuns aren’t capable of teaching the faith? How about monks or lay teachers? You might want to face them and tell so yourself.
Ah, c’mon, you know your orignal comment was a bit over the top.😉
 
Unless you give examples of these heresies you say the priest preaches, you are running the risk of doing the priest a grave injustice.
If I give examples then I run the risk of taking this thread into topics that has nothing to do with the thread. So let’s keep on topic, okay? 🙂
The fact that you are unwilling or unable to give actual examples makes me suspect that you spoke too hastly in your original post.

We’ve all mis-spoken in our time, but it’s best practice to admit it.
Don’t worry, I have not spoken too hastly, nor mis-spoken.
 
If I give examples then I run the risk of taking this thread into topics that has nothing to do with the thread. So let’s keep on topic, okay? 🙂
Well it seems as if the original topic has been pretty well talked out. If there is a valid Mass, we are obligated to attend.

The questions you haven’t asked which I think are very appropriate to the thread are:

How far is the bext closest Mass? Can you get there regularly? If you aren’t able/willing to attend Mass at all, how will you raise your children as Catholics? Where will they receive the sacraments?
 
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