After Crosby’s death, his eldest son, Gary, wrote a highly critical memoir, Going My Own Way, depicting his father as cold, remote, and both physically and psychologically abusive.
Younger son Phillip frequently disputed his brother Gary’s claims about their father. In an interview conducted in 1999 by the Globe, Phillip said:
My dad was not the monster my lying brother said he was; he was strict, but my father never beat us black and blue, and my brother Gary was a vicious, no-good liar for saying so. I have nothing but fond memories of Dad, going to studios with him, family vacations at our cabin in Idaho, boating and fishing with him. To my dying day, I’ll hate Gary for dragging Dad’s name through the mud. He wrote Going My Own Way out of greed. He wanted to make money and knew that humiliating our father and blackening his name was the only way he could do it. He knew it would generate a lot of publicity. That was the only way he could get his ugly, no-talent face on television and in the newspapers. My dad was my hero. I loved him very much. He loved all of us too, including Gary. He was a great father.[36]
However, Crosby’s other sons, Lindsay and Dennis, sided with Gary’s claim and stated Crosby abused them as well.[37] Dennis also stated that Crosby would abuse Gary the most often.[37
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No one’s perfect. Crosby was a sinner, like all of us, and was probably a good man overall. But I guess if you’re a “devout” Catholic, and you don’t disagree with the church on any social or moral issue in any way, then you’re completely okay-- at least in this forum. Here, you either ARE or ARE NOT “Catholic,” but by your standards. (Who the heck are you to say so…??). Is “Catholic” some kind of a code word here for “ultra-conservative Catholic?” Is a “liberal Catholic” not a Catholic?
I don’t recall anyone being asked to leave the church because of a disagreement on a social issue. I accept that the church has decided some issues are not to be debated. The church has a position on some issues that are not to be compromised. If I – or Moore or Colbert – don’t believe abortion should be a crime (but agree that it is a mortal sin), does that make me “pro-life?”
I hadn’t realized I was getting emails from the extreme right wing of Catholicism with this forum. However, it is astonishing how judgmental and self-righteous many posters are here. It’s been eye-opening for me. I think the general tone of intolerance here makes all Catholics look like fundamentalists.**