You are very right, “Pax.” We don’t know who is struggling with the sin of gossip and who isn’t. But we DO know who continues to gossip because we hear/ read the gossip. Apparently I have hit a nerve.
Far from considering myself “holier than thou,” I am chagrined by my own history of gossiping and judging others and have finally faced the significance of those sins this Advent season. Even as I write this, tears come to my eyes as I think of the hurtful comments I have made in the past. At the time I thought I was right; now I finally accept that I was just giving into temptation. I will never know exactly how much my comments hurt people.
I am struggling with eliminating these sins in my own life and, because I am imperfect, I have and will sometimes fail to keep my pledge to end this behavior. Then I have to start over and try again to do better.
If I came across more preachy than I intended, I apologize, although I won’t apologize for speaking out against the sin. Gossip and unfair judgment can destroy lives.
Now you know my truth - judge me as you will.