My husband bakes bread, he has picked as his patron saint, St Honorius (or Honore in French)
catholic.org/saints/saint.php?saint_id=3794
My husband is not Catholic, but has been led to the Catholic faith through our long, though invalid marriage and has welcomed Mary and the saints. Which saint can I pray to to help me get officially back into the church, and not considered an outcast anymore?
Three cheers to all the hard working bakers of this world who bake us “our daily bread”!!:thumbsup:May St.Honorius ensure that the yeast helps your husband with an abundance of graces, as he asks the intercession of this saint, to Our Good God,through Jesus Christ( St. Honorius–a new one to me–thanks for posting us this one & the links as well!)
StMarianne Cope is considered a patron saint of “outsiders”.Her mentor **St.Damian of Moloki ** is another one(there are links to his story in this thread sometime back"
prezi.com/k-j7ykjspihq/saint-marianne-cope-patron-saint-of-outcasts/
Well Casida,I do not consider you or your husband as an outsider!! Jesus was a friend of tax collectors & sinners and by His standard —I am his best friend and a sinner through & through!! I deserve Hell, but through His Divine Mercy I hope for Heaven.
I know a good friend, who a long time ago married a divorced woman(no annullment),both are Catholics.About 10years ago this friend went to confession to a holy priest when on a weekend retreat.This priest told him that he could not forgive him his sins, if he remained “sleeping” in the same bed as his wife.He suggested to him that he could still share the same house with her(and her children–from the previous marriage) but they had to live as brother & sister.He told him to think & pray about his situation and he urged him for the good of his eternal salvation, to adopt this lifestyle.My friend did go back and made a good and holy confession with the resolve not to sin again.
His wife agreed with his decision when he came back from the retreat.She is in a state of denial to the sin of adultery, as she believed that her second marriage was valid, because the parish priest married them in a church and that a girlfriend(a religious sister–at that time) encouraged her to seek a new partner.( I only hope these two persons did all this in ignorance ,as they would be complicit in this sin)
I share this story,which my friend gave me the details of and he was well aware of his guilt, in marrying a divorced woman( “love”& passion can blind us all) . At the present moment my friend is dying on his death bed and his “sister”–" wife" visits him very often.I can assure you that he is at peace and I believe the gates of Heaven will be open for him when he finally meets his maker.
I do encourage you & your hushand to seek out the advice of a good pastoral priest with the possibility or chance of rectifying your present marriage.(if you have not already done so) I will certainly add my prayers to Sts.Honorius,Marianne & Damian that you are able to receive the grace of full union in The Sacrament of Marriage–God Willing.