Temptation, lust and adultery

[perez639]

When I talk to Mrs. X, it is usually about books (we share similar tastes in books) or work, I always try to work in, “Oh, my wife said,” or “My wife did…”

thanks again.

I am engaged and my fiance and I have made a rule of thumb when we converse to those of the opposite sex we never talk about anything too personal. Hobbies, what we love to do, or anything like that. Keep it professional. Its just a tricky situation to put yourself in the first place.

Someone once told me be very careful when you are in a committed realtionship who you befriend of the opposite sex. Even if they are “work people.” Never a healthy thing because there is always a risk. We are all human and have a natural cabability of being attracted to others or talking to them bc we enjoy their company, advice, etc. Unfortunately. So avoid sin. Start avoiding her. Especially since thoughts of this woman are entering your mind more often than not.