My friend I have put flowers on my beloved fathers, my grant mothers etc whom I love dearly also as you have. We are taking about “carve images made out of stone.”
Catholics do NOT worship statues.
The evidences you seem to `produce’ are reverential stances toward a statue, image or icon that is being used as a focal point of devotion. I kneel before a cross and even kiss it on Good Friday… i show veneration, not worship. Catholic’s are FORBIDDEN to worship idols or even Mary! ALL worship goes to God.
If someone (catholic or otherwise!) IS, in fact, worshiping the object, (which has been done and IS done)… THAT is idolatry, and it wrong. Hence, the Catholic church is VERY hesitant to deem
crying statues' and bleeding crucifixes’ as true miracles. They do so because they understand the commandment all too well, that they are not to have idols. When such veneration is approved, its is done with excruciatiing investigation, and more times than not, a verdict of `this event is worthy of devotion’ is about as much s the Catholic church will allow.
The point is: The Catholic church and her Magisterium, under the Holy Spirit, safeguards the gates, being sure no such infraction of the 10 commandments is allowed or perpetrated inside the Church.
It may certainly happen, as I myself (and many others) have seen when many people put great stock in
items' like the Shroud of Turin’ or Medjegoure(sp) rosarys. (NOTE: I am not stating any form of beleif in these 2 things… I am using them as example only!)
Bottom line: The Catholic church forbids and removes and idol worshipping or attempts to do so.
I beleive people who SEE it as such are not seeing this form of vernation and devotion as something seperate from worship.
Personally, such statues, icons and images I see as like a photo album of my Catholic faith.
Besides… we are, after all, made in God’s image, no? We are sensate beings, no? We have eyes to see, ears to hear, noses to smell, hands to feel and tongues to taste. I SEE the statue of Mary, as i hear others praying to her for her INTERCESSIONS with her Son. (See Wedding Feast 0f Cana… Mary interceded to Jesus on behalf of the wedding couple, no?) I feel the soft heat of the candles lit before the image of the crucifix, I smell the inscnese wafted in fron tof and around the altar.
God gave me these senses, and allows people to use them to glorify god in art and imagery directed at the Lord. Please do not see this as idol worship. It just plain is not.