The Abortion Debate No One Wants To Have

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It is incredibly sad that some people feel the need to abort their disabled child. If my Mom were like that, I likely would have been aborted as I had a disorder known as ADHD as a child which was pretty severe. I still suffer from it now although it is not nearly as severe as it was when I was a child.

Abortion, is wrong no matter the reason.
 
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My own sister responded by asking why we were keeping the baby. She stated it would be unfair to bring a child into the world who would have to suffer throughout it’s life. She even went on to say, that it was God who gave us the technology to abort an unwanted child.😦
By that logic, we should use atomic bombs since God allowed us to develop the technology for them.
We even opted not ot have the AFP test. Especially after we found out it had a 60% false positive rating. Can you imagine, 60% of the positive tests are wrong. It was after I found this out, I asked the genetic counselor how many women aborted based off the AFP test alone. The answer was an astounding 70-80%! Now my wife and I would never consent to another amnio, but just think of how many perfectly healthy babies are being aborted each and every day all because of an extremely faulty test!
I was one of those 60%. I was told I should have an amnio to be sure. I asked my doctor why I *needed *an amnio. Her response was blunt: “So you can abort if it’s positive.” I told her I wouldn’t abort even if it was positive. She told me then that she wouldn’t risk her own child by having an amnio–they’re too dangerous, cause way too many miscarriages.

My HMO made me sign a paper that I wouldn’t sue if my baby was born with Down’s. Otherwise, they refused to treat me any further.

The second time I was pregnant, I also refused to have even the AFP test. Again I had to sign a paper that I wouldn’t sue.

BTW, both my girls are straight-A students. But I wouldn’t have loved them any less if they both had Down’s.
 
Pro-aborts don’t want to talk about this, so let’s

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An article in yesterday’s Boston Globe entitled, “The problem with an almost-perfect genetic world,” included this:

*Supporters of abortion are especially wary of wading into a discussion over the ethics of prenatal testing, lest they be seen as playing into the opposing side in the fraught national debate over abortion rights.*The topic was a November 10 announcement in The New England Journal of Medicine of reliable prenatal screening for handicaps that can be conducted earlier in the pregnancy.

This means moms will be able to abort defective babies sooner rather than later, which is good. (Although we’re told abortions are safer than eating an ice cream cone, early abortions must be 110% safe as opposed to 100% later.)

The fact that pro-aborts don’t want to talk about this surprises me and is useful information. After all, “fetal anomalies” is one of the big four reasons pro-aborts use to keep abortion on demand legal (the other three being rape/incest and health and life of the mother).

So let’s talk about it. On page two are compelling points to ponder, many surprisingly brought forth in the BG piece.

[Photo courtesy of the *Boston Globe.]

Hat tip: **Dr. Joseph **and Mark Pickup
  • Just as handicapped people are winning the fight for greater inclusion in our society, they will find their numbers dwindling. The same politicians heralding the **Americans for Disabilities Act **are fighting for the right to kill those diabled Americans prenatally.
  • What about HIV+ babies?
  • Will the day come when children with "previously existing handicaps" are denied insurance if parents don't abort?
  • 80% of Down syndrome children are now aborted
  • As numbers of people with certain conditions dwindle, less money is likely to be devoted to cures and education. "If you terminate pregnancies with a condition, who is going to put research dollars into it?" the ***BG*** quoted **Nancy Press**, professor of medical anthropology at **Oregon Health and Science University**.
  • The more people are conditioned against bringing certain kinds of babies into the world, the less they will tolerate them once they're here.
  • Smaller numbers will mean even greater isoloation and loneliness. "Loneliness is one of the most significant challenges they face," the ***BG*** quoted **Anthony Shriver**, founder of **Best Buddies**, a nonprofit org that helps people with intellectual disabilities form friendships.
  • Who decides what qualifies as an abortable handicap? As fewer perfect people are born, will the bar continue to raise? What about deafness? Or Type I Diabetes? What about adult onset disorders like Huntington's Disease?
  • As prenatal testing advances, will the time come when even nonhandicapped qualities like brown eyes or red hair are checked?
  • Where do you draw the line? There are four degrees to spina bifida, ranging from incapacitating to barely noticable. Or what about a 95 IQ, which is borderline normal?
  • While some argue advanced prenatal testing will result in "pooer man's gene therapy," others argue only the wealthy will be able to afford genetic testing, leaving the poor to deal with the infirmed.
    Children are taught not to bully and to accept one another’s differences. We encourage them to raise money for **Jerry’s Kids **or the March of Dimes or the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation or the Special Olympics. What are adults teaching by killing those same people? “At what point are we engaging in eugenics and not accepting the normal diversity withint a population?” the BG quoted Mark Rothstein, director of the **Bioethics Institute **at the University of Louisville School of Medicine.
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