You say a priest acts in persona christi, but that is the basis of my argument. Christ is not male, and to view Him as such is to deny His divine nature. For a church to claim that its ministers represent Christ, those ministers should, prima facie be drawn from both sexes. I’m well aware that this goes against tradition; I said before that I viewed this particular aspect of tradition as the greatest tragedy in the history of Christianity. The Church, and Christianity as a whole, would be fundamentally different had women always been ordained as priests alongside men, and I greatly lament that that is not the world we live in. I’m not convinced that female ordination goes against Scriptures. There are plenty of people who argue that it does and plenty of people who argue that it doesn’t, and I’m not interested in getting into that argument now. I’ve never been really enthusiastic about textual biblical inerrancy in any case, especially given that God’s Word is so much bigger than any human language can seek to encompass.
I’m willing to begrudgingly accept celibate priests because of Paul, but I see him as an ideal which is more unattainable than is commonly understood, and the norm of priestly celibacy as an arrogant aberration. Jesus did not marry, and ultimately could not marry, because he was both God and human, man and female. For us mere mortals who aspire to live in God’s image, one sex is not enough – we’re simply incapable of being as Godly as we can be if we don’t marry. For some people, denying the concerns of the flesh and concentrating all mental energy on God may suffice, but ultimately I think that certainly at least the vast majority of religiously celibate people would be better off marrying. We should not so easily believe ourselves to be so holy that we do not need to marry.