When someone is drowning we would not punish you for deciding not to take the risk to rescue that person or use some other means to force you to rescue them. Even if, you were the only person there and not rescuing them would inevitably lead to their death. Even if it was your fault they were in the water eg. you accidentally nudged them in or even pushed them in as a joke. (Short of intentionally trying to drown them from the outset)
But one important key is that it’s not merely a “random someone”, because your analogy is discarding the critical parent/child relationship. So are you arguing that there would be no backlash if you took your kid to the beach, sat there with your pina colada, and watched them get into water that was too deep and strong, and didn’t lift a finger to rescue them? Or perhaps you shoved them into water you knew was too deep, as a joke, and then you sat down with your umbrella drink to see how they coped with it? In what world is that okay?
Likewise, being in-utero is merely a normal stage of reproduction. If they’re allowed to remain and develop, they will move on to the next stage, of birth and early infancy. Intervention isn’t necessary; you just let things progress normally.
Whereas if someone is drowning, they are in danger of imminent death if someone does not intervene.
Shoving someone in the water as a joke gets you into “reckless endangerment” territory, which is a misdemeanor and can carry fines and jail time. The
Moulton Falls Regional Park bridge story was in the news earlier this spring, but I’m sure there are plenty of other examples.
A “duty to rescue” if you can “do so safely” and offer “reasonable assistance” varies on a state-by-state basis, but it doesn’t necessarily involve you doing it yourself. It might merely be a “notify the proper authorities” kind of thing, whether it’s making a phone call or pulling a fire alarm. However, when there’s a relationship between the two individuals— student/teacher, parent/child, etc— then your obligation goes up many, many, many, many notches. Even though no one’s in danger of dying, and they’re not related to each other, a teacher has a serious responsibility to report knowledge of sexual assault and abuse amongst their students.
How much more responsibility does a parent have for their child?