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You have not refuted my arguments with Scripture. You are still using assumptions, maybes, probablies, etc. in order to try and refute it. You have no Scriptures that refute what I posted. I’m sure you have been taught differently thatn what I say but that doesn’t make it so. Even the RCC says it has to be supported by Scripture to be true.
This is a lot of nonsense. Everything you claimed in your original post was subsequently shot down using scripture and the necessary linguistic elements that are required to understand what is going on. You are simply in denial.
 
Sheesh, even if you believed the Church was going to lie, don’t you think that they’d at least use human bones. This is w/o a doubt the stupidest assertion I’ve ever seen on CAF and I’ve seen a few!!!
Exactly!!! I am pretty sure if this were true we would have had some crazy Pope order someone to grab a human Femur bone and turn it upside down.

I can only imagine what these two guys think actually happend. They must think people went through all this trouble to build a good story and a tomb and then at the end of it all they got Friar Felix to grab a dead dog’s bones and sneak the bones in the tomb.

If the Church was so scandalous don’t you think they would have at least murdered some poor hermit and put him in the tomb? Better yet, couldnt they have dug up someones grave?
 
Hello?? Old “Scholar”??

A****re you out there??

**Can you PLEASE **answer post #176??

You can run - but you can’t hide . . .
You jerk.

Cut with the caps and colors.

Don’t you remember, that Old Scholar, whose little finger is worth more than 10 of you, had a sick grandson?
 
Old Scholar,
I’ve been praying for your family. How is the sick grandchild? Update please.
 
I have an opinion concerning the problems that non-Catholics have in understanding scripture particularly as it applies to the issue raised by the OP. I want to preface my statements by pointing out that my criticisms are not meant to be uncharitable. Please accept what I am about to say in the spirit in which it is intended.

Scripture is not simple prose. Scripture is something much larger and meaningful than any other ancient or modern narrative. Scripture is the inspired and holy word of God. It is God speaking to us in the language of men. This last point is extremely important. Our infinite God cannot be fully appreciated or understood by finite man. Without divine revelation there is very little that man can know or understand about God. Even with divine revelation we are as Paul says, “seeing through a glass dimly.”

Scripture is not like simple prose no matter how sophisticated the vocabulary. One must appreciate, study, and understand scripture as a grand and immense cosmic tapestry. Every thread, color, and hue of the divine word has meaning and helps to form a picture of God’s plan of creation, redemption, and salvation. Other clues given to us by God’s creation of the universe help us to appreciate His power, love, glory, and absolute perfect holiness.

IMHO most non-Catholic disagreements with the Church’s understanding of scripture fail to take this approach to understanding the word of God. This thread is a perfect example of this shortcoming. Those that fail to see and appreciate the Catholic position on this thread are simply thinking in human and carnal terms rather than in God’s terms.

The commandments tell us to “honor” our mothers and fathers. The Hebrew word used here is kaw-bode`(phonetic). This word means to honor and to glorify. Jesus was the perfect Jew, the perfect man, the holiest of all men, and the only son of God. Jesus honors and glorifies his mother in ways that we cannot honor and glorify our own mothers. Most importantly, the mother of Jesus was predestined and set apart for her role in salvation history just as Isaiah, Moses, Elijah, Abraham, and others were chosen and set apart.

Mary’s role is greater than all of these. She was to bear in her womb, as the new Ark of the Covenant, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. As such, she was set apart for all time. Like the Ark, she could not be touched by others in any way that would defile or diminish the unique role to which she was predestined. To think otherwise is to think carnally rather than godly. To think otherwise is to misunderstand the scriptures. To think carnally will always lead one to a weakened and inadequate human understanding of the word.

What would give greater honor and glory to God? What would be the greater sign and testimony to the the divine nature of Jesus who is the only son of God? Would it be the perpetual virginity of the spouse of the Holy Spirit or the speculative and less holy view that Mary had other children by Joseph? We believe that the evidence by way of scripture and linguistics easily supports the case of Mary’s perpetual virginity. We believe the historical data argues in favor of the perpetual virginity of Mary by the constant teaching of the Catholic Church as testified to by very ancient writings of respected Church fathers. We believe that even if the evidence was equal between the two views, that the decision of the Church should be trusted. We also believe that if the evidence was such that the conclusion could go either way that the determining factor for a non-Catholic should be the conclusion that is the most godly and holy. We believe that any earthly and carnal approach will inevitably fall short of the beauty and glory that is contained in the cosmic tapestry that is God’s plan for salvation.

We believe that a denial of the perpetual virginity of Mary is based on man’s weakened intellect and tendency toward carnal understandings. This is not the godly view that is based upon looking to the greater glory and honor of God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Please pray and think about this idea…it is not meant to be an insult…it is meant to help us all lift our eyes heavenward, and to see by the light of grace and scripture the beauty, glory, and perfection that is God. Everything that is associated with God is brought into perfection. Look for the holiness and perfection that is God and you will begin to see the truth of what the Church teaches.
 
You jerk.

Cut with the caps and colors.

Don’t you remember, that Old Scholar, whose little finger is worth more than 10 of you, had a sick grandson?
And I offered prayers for his grandchild (see my post #80). That still doesn’t give him the right to make vitriolic assaults against the Church.

As for your personal attack against me - I will let the Moderators handle this.
 
PS - Nobody’s shouting - I like colors. When I shout - I use exclamation points!!😉
USING CAPSLOCK IS SHOUTING whether you use explanation points or not. Peope come off as rude and arrogent when they use capslocks evcerytime they post.
 
USING CAPSLOCK IS SHOUTING whether you use explanation points or not. Peope come off as rude and arrogent when they use capslocks evcerytime they post.

**I assure you, Teadough - and everybody else who has a colorphobia - I am not shouting. It’s simply the way I choose to express myself. Again, I use exclamation points when I shout. **
Now - let’s get back to the matter at hand - the subject of the original post.
 
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teadough:
USING CAPSLOCK IS SHOUTING whether you use explanation points or not. Peope come off as rude and arrogent when they use capslocks evcerytime they post.

So what if people shout? You just can’t get it that’s why…🤷
 
Hi

Well I am not a Protestant. We could rephrase the sentence; Why do Catholic believe that Jesus did not have brothers and sisters? What is wrong with that? If god could have father and mother, there is no harm if he has brothers and sisters and wife and children as well, in my opinion.

I love Jesus and Mary

Thanks
Sure, if Mary wasn’t the spouse of the Holy Spirit. But she was. And St Joseph knew that. He was a righteous man (Mt 1:19).
 
No this would just mean they were married.
So, does the fact that Joseph did not have intercourse with Mary prior to the birth of Jesus (per Matt. 1:25) mean that they weren’t married prior to the birth of Jesus?? 🙂 If this is the case, then Jesus was a bastard with no right to Joseph’s name, and so no legal right to be the Messiah, the Son of David, through Joseph. I don’t think you’ve thought your position through very carefully; nor do you appreciate the fact that Jewish marriage was a matter of property ownership. One did not need to consummate a Jewish marriage for it to be a legal marriage (see 1 Cor. 7:36-38). Joseph and Mary had a Jewish (purely legal) marriage, not a Christian Sacramental marriage, in which consummation is necessary to establish a one-Flesh (Sacramental) Covenant. Joseph and Mary were married under the Law. But, under the New Covenant, Mary (and also Joseph himself) were consecrated entirely to God (see Luke 1:38, Matt 19:12).
Having sex during eirusin just confirms that you are now married. Mary turning up pregnant later would have implied it was Josephs.
Again, Matt. 1:25 says that this did not happen. So, was Mary Joseph’s legal wife or not? Scripture says she was.
Unfortunately this overall, while correct in some areas, is incorrect in many others. Opisso is making an interpretation based on some major assumptions. Having sex during the period of eirusin may not have been forbidden but it certainly was frowned upon and meant that you were married which eliminated divorce as an option.
Huh? 🙂 Divorce under the Law was always an option. All the husband (or betrothed) would have to do is issue the wife a written bill of divorce, which was similar to granting a slave his freedom. Joseph always had this option, even if he was the child’s father. Having children with a woman did not mean you could not divorce her.
Given Mary and Joseph’s strict adherence to Jewish customs I would say it’s safe to assume they weren’t having sex.
No kidding. 🙂
And given Joseph was contemplating divorce after learning Mary was pregnant was revealing enough for the Jewish reader and need no further clarification sex had not happened between the couple up to this point.
Sorry, wrong. You are wrenching the narrative out of context. Joseph was going to quietly divorce Mary prior to the Divine dream telling him to accept her as his wife. Matt. 1:25 addresses the situation after Joseph accepted Mary into his home – i.e., after he completed the Jewish wedding ceremony and claimed full rights to her as his property. From this point, Matt. 1:25 tells us, he had no relations with her; thus making it clear to Matthew’s original audience that he could not possibly have been Jesus’ biological father. And so, once again, if sexual consummation was necessary to confect the marriage (i.e., your position), then Joseph and Mary were not really married, and Jesus was a bastard, and so not a Son of David (according to the Law), and so He cannot be the Messiah, and you are still in your sins. The reality, however, is that Jewish marriage was legal marriage (a matter of property ownership); and so no sexual consummation was needed to make Mary Joseph’s legal wife, and Jesus Joseph’s legal son. Again, you have clearly not thought your position through very carefully.
The fact that it’s addressed much later in verse 25 after Gabriel’s visit demonstrates Matthew had different intentions for his message.
🙂 Again, you show no respect for the narrative or its intended context. Go read the passage again.
Mary’s perpetual virginity was never based on GOD not allowing her to have sex with Joseph but the fact that she supposedly took her vow to GOD as outlined in Numbers 30.
Actually, if you want historical accuracy, Mary’s perpetual virginity would have been based on Joseph’s choice to remain chaste in expectation for the Kingdom (something quite a few 1st Century Jewish men did - e.g. Matt. 19:12, 1 Cor. 7:36-38, and the witness of the Dead Sea Scrolls). Mary was just Joseph’s virgin-wife (again, see 1 Cor. 7:36-38), and so her virginity was based on his choice to remain chaste (see 1 Cor. 7:39-40). This is very clear from a careful reading of Luke 1:26-38. When Mary is told that she will conceive and give birth to the promised Messiah, the Son of David, she is disturbed and asks “How can this be since I do not know man.” Clearly, there would be no reason to ask this question if Mary intended to have a normal married life with Joseph, for, as v. 26 tell us, she was about to marry a man from the house of David (and thus a potential father of the Messiah), and if Mary and Joseph intended to have a normal marriage, the question would be pointless. It would be presumed that this Child would be conceived in the normal context of their upcoming marriage. However, in response to her concern, Gabriel tells her that the Child will be born by the power of the Most High, and “thus the Child will be called HOLY, the Son of God.”

IOW, the Child will not be conceived through Joseph’s breaking of his vow of chastity to God, but miraculously through God Himself. This is why, in the very next line, Mary consecrates herself to be God’s “Handmaid”, i.e., the concubine of God - just like Hagar, and Abigail, and other such “handmaids” became the sole possessions of Abraham, and David, and others in the OT. From this point on, a sexual relationship with a man would be impossible for Mary. There is simply no way to read Luke 1:26-38 with an ancient Jewish understanding and not come away with that conclusion.

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Based on Matthew’s account he never mentions the impact of Mary turning up pregnant as being in violation of her vow which would result in a major sin.
🙂 First of all, Matthew’s Gospel was written for Jewish Christians. The concern was primarily a Jewish and patriarchal one. When a woman was pregnant outside of wedlock, this did not represent her sin so much as it represented a sin against the one who “owned” her - whether her father or her husband. So, whether or not one had made an extraordinary, extra-legal vow to God was beside the point. What is really at play here is the perceived offense against Joseph –i.e., a chaste individual. He intended to take Mary as a virgin-wife - a woman who would remain chaste with him, but care for his household and cook and clear for him, etc. (see again 1 Cor. 7:36-40). But, in the process of confecting this legal marriage, his intended virgin-bride was found to be pregnant, presumably by another man. So, what does Joseph do? Why does he intend to “divorce her quietly”? Well, quite simply, because, if he divorced her quietly, she would a) not be exposed to the punishment of the Law - a punishment that was designed to avenge the perceived offense against HIM (Joseph); and b) If he divorced her quietly, it would make room for Mary’s supposed lover to come forward and claim her for himself. This, again, is clearly the act of a chaste individual who did not feel slighted, but who was incredibly understanding and obviously sympathetic to the likelihood that Mary was not suited to share the type of extraordinary, chaste life that Joseph himself was avowed to. So, he intended to release "the poor girl " from her legal obligations to him and allow her to live a normal life with whomever her supposed lover was.
It’s focused that she was betrothed to Joseph and turned up pregnant implying she was either raped or committed adultery.
It implied adultery, not rape. Children conceived through rape have long been tolerated and accepted in Jewish culture. If Mary had been raped, Joseph would have had no need to divorce her quietly.
With regard to GOD sending Joseph a decree, he did just that when HE sent Gabriel to Joseph and told him not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife. Why tell him not to be afraid if he couldn’t have normal marital relations with her?
🙂 For the same reasons that Mary was told not to be afraid in Luke 1. Here was a couple prepared to live a chaste marriage based on Joseph’s vow of chastity (per Matt. 19:12). Joseph did not want a normal wife, but a wife who would be a virgin-wife and who did not expect sex or children from him. When Gabriel tells Mary (in Luke 1) that she will give birth to a Son of David, she immediately assumes (obviously) that this means that she will cause Joseph to break his vow. This is why she was upset, but Gabriel tells her there’s no need for concern; God Himself will be the Father of this Child, and so the Child will be “holy,” and not the cause of any broken vow. Then, in Matthew 1, Joseph is also greatly concerned about accepting Mary. For starters, he understandably doubts her story that her pregnancy is miraculous, and assumes that he must make way for her supposed human lover to marry her. This is both in sympathetic deference to Mary herself, and in consideration for his own chaste vocation. For how can a chaste man take a wife who is a) now equated with sex and likely to expect it and b) a mother who will, in all likelihood, desire other kids? This is the “fear” that Joseph has.

But, notice what Gabriel says to him: “Do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this Child has been conceived in her.” IOW, Mary is still a virgin, and can still live with him as his virgin-wife. Indeed, just after this, the passage continues: "All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 'Behold, the virgin shall be with child and bear a Son, and they shall name Him Emmanuel. IOW, Joseph’s chaste vocation and his desire to take a virgin-wife were, far from being disturbed by this turn of events, the fulfillment of the Messianic prophecy of Isaiah 7:14! Joseph had not lost his vocation, but had stumbled upon his destiny - his faithfulness to God had not been thwarted, but confirmed. This is why he had no reason to fear. He was not going to lose anything by taking Mary as his wife. That’s the point of the passage.

Indeed, you (again, VERY modern and anachronistic) idea that “fear” had to do with Joseph being concern about his own sexual rights is just silly and makes no sense at all. Jewish men married non-virgins all the time. There would be nothing to “fear” at all if Joseph intended to have sex with her.

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What further refutes this is looking at the original Greek text in verse Matthew 1:25. Matthew is writing the Greek in the future tense when he writes Joseph knew her not. Matthew was fully expecting Joseph to know Mary (have sex) at a future time.
Sorry, but that is a VERY silly and outdated argument. The very same Greek expression is used in this same Gospel, in Matt. 28:20, where Jesus says, “And behold, I am with you always until the end of the age.” Does this imply that Jesus will not be with us after the end of the age?? Not at all. In the same way, Matt. 1:25 is not concerned at all about the subsequent married life of Mary and Joseph, but only with the period up until the time Jesus is born. Matthew’s concern (which was the concern of his original readers) was whether or not it was possible that Joseph might have been Jesus’ biological father. Matthew is assuring us that he was not - that Joseph’s taking of Mary into his home (which was the conclusion of the Jewish wedding ceremony) did not include the normal consummation of the marriage, or any such consummation “until” the Child was born. And, again, Matthew is clearly not concerned about the period after the Child was born, nor was his audience, nor could they be, since if (as I already addressed above) consummation were necessary to unite Joseph and Mary in marriage, then this would mean (based on Matt 1:25) that Jesus was born outside of marriage, and was thus a bastard, and was thus not a legal heir to the House of David - a right He inherited from Joseph. And if Jesus did not possess this status, then He could not be the Messiah, and so you and I are not saved from our sins. This is how incredibly ridiculous your modernist reading is and the type of incredible problems it causes for anyone with an ounce of discernment and maturity. But, don’t take my word for it. Consider what one of your own Protestant founders, John Calvin, has to say about Matt. 1:25:
“There have been certain folk who have wished to suggest that from this passage [Matt 1:25] that the Virgin Mary had other children than the Son of God, and that Joseph then dwelt with her later; but what folly this is! For the Gospel writer did not wish to record what happened afterwards; he simply wished to make clear Joseph’s obedience and to show also that Joseph had been
well and truly assured that it was God who had sent His angel to Mary. He had therefore never dwelt with her nor had he shared her company…And besides this, Our Lord Jesus Christ is called the first-born. This is not because there was a second or a third, but because the Gospel writer is paying regard to the precedence. Scripture speaks thus of naming the first-born whether or
not there was any question of the second.” (John Calvin Sermon on Matthew 1:22-25, published 1562.)
And likewise Martin Luther:
“It is an article of faith that Mary is Mother of the Lord and still a virgin… Christ, we believe, came forth from a womb left perfectly intact.” (Weimer, The Works of Luther, English translation by Pelikan, Concordia, St. Louis, v.11, pp. 319-320; v. 6 p. 510.)
And likewise Zwingli:
“I firmly believe that Mary, according to the words of the Gospel as a pure Virgin brought forth for us the Son of God and in childbirth and after childbirth forever remained a pure, intact Virgin.” (Zwingli Opera, Corpus Reformatorum, Berlin, 1905, in Evang. Luc., v. 1, p. 424.)"
So, were these founders of Protestantism unable to read Scripture properly? If that’s the case, then your problems run even deeper.
I’m sure Matthew would be intimately more aware of what was happening here than Opisso.
Oh, Matthew certainly was. The problem is that you, unlike Obispo (and Calvin, and Luther, and Zwingli ) and everyone else with any common sense until the modern sexual revolution, do not know how to read Matthew properly, but impose your modern preoccupation with sex on him.
If Matthew was merely clarifying that Joseph did not have sex with Mary prior to the birth of Jesus he would have written this is the past tense.
No; as Calvin points out above, the verse is meant to address the specific period in order to assure Matthew’s original readers (for whom the Virgin Birth was a new and challenging idea) that Joseph was really not the Child’s father. That’s all that it refers to, and all credible Scripture scholars know and admit this. It’s only sex-obsessed modernists who think otherwise. For goodness sake, if you read the passage itself, there is no reason whatsoever that Matthew would be concerned with the subsequent married life of Joseph and Mary. He speaks in the future tense in reference to Jesus’ birth, not in reference to the type of life that Joseph and Mary would have together after the Lord’s birth. This is obvious to any honest and mature reader.

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*** You are in error here. Peter was really in Babylon. The reference of calling Rome Babylon in Revelation is in the future, not in those times or these. There is nothing at all to show Peter was not in Babylon. He said that is where he was and there is no reason to not believe him. That’s just another “twisting of the Scriptures” to try and support the belief that he was the first bishop of Rome but it isn’t Biblical. Babylon was a city in the time of Peter and that is where he was—he said so himself.***
**Prove it. Show me where - in scripture - that Babylon is not code for Rome when St. Peter wrote his epistles. Show me – with Scripture - that the first Christians were not being persecuted. **

Also - are you saying that extra-biblical resources, such as the Early Church Fathers are lies and not trustworthy?? Because there are GOBS of quotes from them that talk about Peter being in Rome.

If the Bible is all you trust, do you believe that George Washington led the Colonial army to victory against the British? It can’t be true. It’s not in the Bible.

How about Marie Antoinette. Was she beheaded? It can’t be true. It’s not in the Bible.

Your arguments are weak because you twist Scripture to mean what you want it to say and you disqualify ANY OTHER historical text that proves the Catholic point.
I realize that it’s a waste of time arguing with you but the anticipation of reading your response is quite entertaining. Too bad it’s usually erroneous.

While you’re at it,
show me where in Scripture it mentions that Joseph was the father of these “brothers of the Lord”?
**I mean, since you claim that the Bible is **“so explicit” about this, I’d like to see where it says this. You have not shown this yet.
 
This is where the knowledge of the Greek comes in handy.
Does it? 🙂 Well, whose Greek is better? Yours, or John Calvin’s? And, if you think you can “out-Greek” John Calvin, then what do you do with a NATIVE Greek speaker like St. John Damascene, who likewise writes:
“The Ever-Virgin One remains after the Birth still virgin, having never, at any time, up until death, consorted with a man. For although it is written, ‘And he knew her not until she had brought forth her first-born Son,’ note that he who is first-begotten is first-born even if he is only-begotten. For, the word ‘first born’ means that he was born first but does not at all suggest the birth of others. And the word ‘until’ signifies the limit of the appointed time, but does not exclude the time thereafter. For the Lord says, ‘Lo, I am with you always, even until the end of the world,’ not meaning thereby that He will be separated from us after the completion of the Age. The divine Apostle (Paul) indeed says, ‘And so shall we ever be with the Lord,’ meaning after the general resurrection.” — St. John of Damascus, Orthodox Faith, 4:14 (743 A.D.)
So, is your Greek better than that of native speakers?? I don’t think so. 🙂
Given that it is written in the future tense means Matthew understood that the couple would “know” one another after some point in time.
Wrong again. I’m afraid youu don’t know what you’re talking about. Your grasp of Scripture and the Greek language is very poor.
Since it could not be at the point of chuppah it would be after Jesus was born.
Ah! So then, Jesus was a bastard?! He was born out of wedlock, eh? If this is the case, then He was not a legal Son of David, and so not the Messiah. You want to embrace apostasy? Congratulations!
It’s like me saying I’m not going to work until 12pm. A reader of that sentence would expect me to be at work after 12pm. That’s a little different than if I wrote in the past tense that I had not worked up until 12pm.
I’m sorry, but you are ignorant on the subject.
Also we have to look at the use of the words Adelphos/Adelphoi.
Oh, please! 🙂
In some places in the Gospels these words are used in the possessive tense meaning that when Jesus Adelphos/Adelphoi were referred to, that specifically meant they had to be blood relatives either from the Mother, Father, or both.
Says who? First of all, there is no such thing as “possessive tense” in Greek. Possession in Greek is shown via the genitive declension, not through any “tense.” Secondly, the term “brother” or “brothers” is used in the genitive declension numerous times in the NT in contexts that do not refer to blood relations at all (e.g. John 20:17, Acts 22:1, etc.). So, you again reveal that your grasp of Greek is very poor and that you don’t know what you’re talking about.
Since Joseph was not Jesus biological Father any sons or daughters he had prior could not be Adelphos/Adelphoi to Jesus.
Again, the Greek word for “brother” is not only used to refer to full blood relatives in the NT, or in the OT; and, in the OT especially, it is used numerous times to refer to half-brothers -that is, children of the same father but different mothers (e.g. the twelve sons of Jacob).
So they would have had to be Mary’s.
Not only is that a silly presumption, but it is revealed to be totally impossible by a careful reading of the NT itself; for, if you take Matt. 13:55 and Mark 6:3, which names two specific “brothers” of Jesus (i.e., “James and Joseph” in Matthew and “James and Joses” in Mark) and you then compare these to Matt. 27:56, 61, & 28:1 and Mark 15:40, 47, and 16:1, it becomes abundantly clear that the mother of these two so-called “brothers” of Jesus" is a) still alive at the time of the Crucifixion and Resurrection and b) clearly a different woman than Jesus’ mother – i.e., the woman who John 19:25 calls “Mary of Clopas,” identifying her as the “sister” (“adelpha” - tribal relative) of Jesus’ mother Mary. So, the “brothers” James and Joseph/Joses were clearly not Jesus’ literal sibilings, and clearly not the sons of His own mother; and, if the term “adelphos” falls once, then it falls EVERY time. This is what you learn if you bother to read Scripture comprehensively and in accord with the ancient and consistent understanding of the Church.

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This differs from the use of the words Adelphos/Adelphoi more universally to refer to cousins, step-brothers, or me saying you and I are Adelphos/Adelphoi in Christ.
Then why does Christ Himself use the term “adelphos” as a synonym for “neighbor” and 'loved ones" in Matt. 5:43-47? Here, Jesus is using it in the Jewish, tribal sense. That Jewish sense was very broad, referring to any male relative, not just your literal siblings. The NT uses “adelphos” to translate the Hebrew and Aramaic word “ah,” which referred to any male relative. For example, in Genesis 14:14, Lot is called Abraham’s “brother,” when Lot was really Abraham’s nephew. The same is true in Gen. 29, were Laban calls Jacob his “brother,” when he is really his nephew. If you want solid proof of this Jewish usage, look at Genesis 27:29 and compare it to Gen. 27:37; here, Isaac gives his blessing to Jacob (thinking he is his brother Esau) by proclaiming: “Be master to your brothers (plural), and may your mother’s sons (plural) bow down to you.” Seems pretty straight-forward, eh? 🙂 But, now ask yourself this: How many “brothers” did Jacob have? How many other “sons” did Jacob’s mom Rebecca give birth to?? Only one: Esau himself. So, why then is Isaac speaking in the plural?? V. 37 tells us. Isaac is referring to the entire tribe - to all the male relatives of Jacob. “Brother” was not used literally among the Jews. The term was a very broad and far-reaching one; and comparing Matt 13:55 & Mark 6:3 with Matt 27:56, 61, & 28:1 with Mark 15:40, 47, and 16:1 (and John 19:25) proves that this is how the term “brother” is being applied to the male relatives of Jesus. One cannot escape this fact without ignoring the comprehensive witness of Scripture itself.
No relationship at all.
See above.
Finally the word Desposyni that appears in Mark 3:21 was a word used to refer to the blood relatives of Jesus and was well known through the first century and a half.
You again reveal a profound ignorance of Greek, for the term “desposyni” does not appear in Mark 3:21 at all. Rather, the term here is an idiom which literally reads “hoi par autou” – i.e., “those from his side” - term which some modern translators assume should be rendered as “relatives,” but which more likely (given the context of the passage) refers to His surrounding disciples, in contrast to the scribes and Pharisees. Taken in context, and beginning in v. 20, the passage reads:

“He came home (i.e., to Peter’s house). Again, the crowds gathered, making it impossible for THEM even to eat. When those from His side (hoi par autou) perceived this, they set out to seize Him, for they said, 'He is overwrought (or ‘beside Himself’ - 'exeste; in Greek).” The scribes who had come from Jerusalem said, ‘He is possessed by Beelzebub,’ and ‘By the prince of demons He casts out demons.’

Then, from verses 23 to 30, Jesus replies to the scribes to show that He is not possessed. And, only after this, in verse 31, does it say:

“His mother and His brothers arrived. Standing outside, they sent word TO HIM and called Him. A crowd seated around Him told Him …”

This alone shows that the people described as “hoi par autou” (“those from His side”) in v. 21 CANNOT BE the same as His blood relatives, i.e., His “brothers”, since they do not even show up on the scene until verse 31 - 10 verses later.

Now, with that said, there are verses of Scripture which use a word for “relative” (“suggeneis” in Greek), and not the Jewish term “brother” or “sister” (i.e., “adelphos” or “adelphe”). Examples of this can be found in Luke 1:36, Luke 2:44, Colossians 4:10, Romans 16:7, etc. But, without exception, the use of the word “suggeneis” (“relative” / “kinsman”) always applies to someone who is related to you, but who you do not actually live with as part of your extended family. 🙂 Elizabeth was the “relative” of Mary (Luke 1:36), but she did not come from the same household, or even the same tribe as Mary (Mary was of the house of David; Elizabeth was a Levite - see Luke 1:5).

Likewise, the “relatives” of Joseph and Mary in the caravan on their pilgrimage to Jerusalem (per Luke 2:44) would have been from all over Judea and Galilee, not from their extended family back in Nazareth. Likewise, Mark and Barnabas (per Col 4:10) were related, but not of the same household, since Mark was a native of Jerusalem and Barnabas was from Cyprus (see Acts 5:36); and the Andronicus and Junia, who are called the “relatives” of Paul in (Romans 16:7) were Jews from Rome, whereas Paul himself was from Tarsus in Cilicia (modern Turkey).

So, the term “brother” was only used to refer to those who were part of Jesus’ literal, extended family - those with whom He grew up and had intimate family relationships with. This is how the term is used all throughout Scripture.
When Mark referes to Jesus Desposyni in 3:21 he later clarifies who they are in 3:31 when they arrive to retrieve HIM from the house where he was preaching.
No. See above. Jesus’ “brothers” do not arrive until after Jesus rebukes the scribes for claming that He is possessed. By this time, there was no need to seize Him, nor do the brothers try to. Rather, they send word to Him, which is very different. I’m sorry, but you are very sloppy with your exegesis, and with your Greek. The term “desposyni” does not appear in Mark 3:21.

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It was Jesus Mother and Brothers.
There is no evidence of this whatsoever. It is a modernist distortion. The term (lit. “Those from His side”) almost certainly refers to Peter and the other disciples, i.e., those who were literally in the house with Him. It cannot refer to His “mother and brothers,” since they do not show up until later.
Remember they thought HE was out of HIS mind.
🙂 More modernism. The Greek term (“exeste”) does not refer to insanity at all. More correctly, it means “overwrought” or “overwhelmed” - “beside Himself.” The image is one of Jesus being overworked by ministering to those He was healing, to the point where He could not relax and was becoming an apparent danger to Himself because of it. In the Gospel context, Jesus is being depicted as overwhelmed with love for the people, i.e., giving of Himself to them to the point of personal harm or death (Sound familiar?). It’s a literary foreshadowing of His Sacrifice. But, this totally selfless love is perceived by the scribes as demonic possession.

And, again, there is no evidence that Jesus’ mother or His brothers were even there to witness it. The expression “those from His side” (hoi par autou") is referring to the “family” of His proto-Church (i.e., His disciples and the other members of Peter’s household), who Jesus will later contrast with His biological relatives in verse 33-35. This alone shows that the people who try to seize Him in v. 21 (“those from His side”) are different from His mother and brothers, who do not appear until v. 31, and are contrasted with this new, eschatological Family of Jesus (the Church) in verses 33-35. This is obvious to anyone who reads the passage maturely and comprehensively.
Just one final point, the perpetual virginity of Mary did not resonate until the 4th century. So this was not an early church belief.
Sorry, again, you are not knowledgeable on the subject – consider:

Origen - A.D. 232
"For if Mary, as those who declare with sound mind extol her, had no other son but Jesus, yet Jesus says to His mother, ‘Woman, behold thy son,’ and not ‘Behold you have this son also,’ then He virtually says to her, ‘Lo, this is Jesus whom thou didst bear.’ It is not the case that everyone who is perfect lives himself no longer, but Christ lives in him, and if Christ lives in him, then it is said of him to Mary: ‘Behold, thy son Christ.’ " — Origin, Commentary on John, 1:6 (232 A.D.)
Hippolytus of Rome --A.D. 217
“Mary the Virgin, a Tabernacle exempt from all defilement and corruption”
Ireneaus of Lyon - A.D. 180
“Consequently, then, Mary the Virgin is found to be obedient, saying: ‘Behold, O Lord, your handmaid; be it done to me according to your Word.’ Eve, however, was disobedient; and when yet a virgin, she did not obey… [and] having become disobedient, was made the cause of death for herself and for the whole human race; so also Mary, betrothed to a man but nevertheless a virgin, being obedient, was made the cause of salvation for herself and for the whole human race… Thus, the knot of Eve’s disobedience was loosed by the obedience of Mary. What the virgin Eve had bound in unbelief, the virgin Mary loosed through faith.”
Ignatius of Antioch - A.D. 107
"Now the virginity of Mary was hidden from the prince of this world, as was also her Offspring, and the death of the Lord; three mysteries of renown, which were wrought in silence by God.
The Protoevangelium of James --A.D. 100
“And immediately the cloud disappeared out of the cave, and a great light shone in the cave, so that the eyes could not bear it. And in a little that light gradually decreased, until the infant appeared, and went and took the breast from His mother Mary. And the midwife cried out, and said: This is a great day to me, because I have seen this strange sight. And the midwife went forth out of the cave, and Salome met her. And she said to her: Salome, Salome, I have a strange sight to relate to thee: a virgin has brought forth — a thing which her nature admits not of. Then said Salome: As the Lord my God liveth, unless I thrust in my finger, and search the parts, I will not believe that a virgin has brought forth. And the midwife went in, and said to Mary: Show thyself; for no small controversy has arisen about thee. And Salome put in her finger, and cried out, and said: Woe is me for mine iniquity and mine unbelief, because I have tempted the living God; and, behold, my hand is dropping off as if burned with fire. And she bent her knees before the Lord, saying: O God of my fathers, remember that I am the seed of Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob; do not make a show of me to the sons of Israel, but restore me to the poor; for Thou knowest, O Lord, that in Thy name I have performed my services, and that I have received my reward at Thy hand. And, behold, an angel of the Lord stood by her, saying to her: Salome, Salome, the Lord hath heard thee. Put thy hand to the infant, and carry it, and thou wilt have safety and joy.”
Note: The Protoevangelium of James (an apocryphal work, but accepted as Scripture by many ancient Christians) was written as a defense of the doctrine of Mary’s perpetual virginity. This was as early as A.D. 100. The work is as old as the Gospel of John.
 
FCEGM,

Nicely done…a careful and thorough analysis of the points made by others.
 
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