Because that effort is semantically equivalent to a couple of propositions:
- ‘I will think about you when I’m alone.’
- ‘I hope you reject your deepest principles and instead accept mine. Rather than discussing them with you and hoping you come around due to logic I’m seeing supernatural aid.’
- ‘You are probably going to burn in hell for all eternity.’
- ‘You are subverting God’s plan for you [as if such a thing were possible].’
- ‘You are founding your life on a life so vile that I am at a loss to explain its depravity.’
I would ask you a similar question–in the strongest possible wording; how could you be ‘touched’ that someone thinks your life is founded on a lie and that you have been deceived into believing it?
I can almost understand how the statement ‘I will pray for you,’ makes sense in the worldview of a person of faith but I think it’s one of those (many) things that are best kept to oneself.
How could I be touched by someone that thinks my life is founded on a lie and I have been decieved? Easy. Because a well-wish is still a well-wish. If you wished me well, but thought I was an idiot, I would accept the offer of Agape (love) and rejoice in it.
Additionally, only people who are
unsure of their faith are truly upset at having their faith challenged. Atheists react so strongly because when I pray for you, I directly challenge your belief in atheism. Becaue you are not
really sure of this belief, that challenge makes you angry.
I
know that there is a God and that He incarnated Himself in the person of Jesus Christ. On the “1-7 scale,” I would be a “1” (if memory serves - “knowing” there is a God). No challenge you issue to me can make a difference to that knowledge that I know the Truth to the extent my limited brain can take it, and thus challenge in and of itself can make me angry or upset. In my view, if you flamed at me and called irrational and all other kinds of names, and denounced Christianity as vile, it would not change the Truth - so I have no need to get upset about it.
Naturally, if you wanted to start a flamewar and be insulting of my personal character, I might get upset and angry (not that you ARE doing that, I believe that this debate has by and large been quite civil. Heated, but civil). But challenging my faith or even calling it stupid doesn’t make make upset.
Now, as for your propositions:
- I don’t know why that bothers you. People think about each other all the time. I’m not a stalker, you know.
- Again, the prospect of rejecting or accepting deepest principles should not shake you if you are truly confident that you are right.
- I cannot know the state of your soul; no one can. I certainly pray that you will make a choice for God when you die and thereby achieve Heaven (the Beatific vision). I can say that lack of belief is a risk factor for chosing to be apart from God when you die (Hell), because Jesus said so.
- I don’t know God’s plan for you, except in a broad sense. For all I know, God’s plan for you is to journey through the dark of atheism for a time. However, I do know that God’s plan for everyone (including you) is to know Him and to love Him.
- I would say atheism is a dark, nihilistic philosophy that is open to grave evil - much more grave than any twisted version of religion. I would urge you to reject atheism simply because it is a bad philosophy, both for an individual and for society as a whole. It’s natural and probable consequence is nihlisim, hopelessness, depression, and the dictatorship of moral relativism - none of which I would wish on you or anyone else.
Perhaps you think that you can’t “choose” your belief; but you can. Take the first step, keep taking steps, and you will find others on the road that will help you reach the Goal. That’s the way God often works: unexpected help on the journey.