Judging not only by your post but also by your signature and your username, you’re a pretty closed-minded individual. Stop thinking about yourself. And why are you writing a letter to your pastor about liturgical abuse? If he is part of the problem, than you should be writing to the Bishop, with evidence of liturgical abuse.
Nice to see that you can judge the heart and intentions of an anonymous person. Can I hire you as a consultant for my business dealings so that I can know who to trust?
Anyways, according to Redemptionis Sacramentum, awfulthings is doing the correct thing. According to awfulthings post, there were abuses, abuses which the Vatican has stated that it is our right and duty as laity to try and remedy. The protocol is if it is possible to go to the offender first, if nothing changes, then go to the local Ordinary, then still if nothing happens they have recourse to the Vatican.
It is a shame that priests and deacons often times fail in their roles as Fathers by being obedient to their superiors and protecting their flock from errors. It is their role to stick to the rubrics so that the people can enter into the mystery more fully.
Awfulthings, I think your letter is excellent, you share the truth with charity, good job faithful servant.
I would also like to leave with a quote from St. Teresa of Avila:
“Know this: it is by very little breaches of regularity that the devil succeeds in introducing the greatest abuses. May you never end up saying: ‘This is nothing, this is an exaggeration.’” (Saint Teresa of Avila, Foundations, Chapter Twenty-nine)