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bmullins
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I think my wife is sexy, yes. In fact, I think she is most sexy when she is being herself and not trying to be anything else. You see, my wife is the kind of woman that the author is talking about. She is the innocent and beautiful. She dresses the way she is comfortable, and often times thinks I’m silly when I find myself staring at her face across the room.
As I said before, we aren’t talking about you dressing the way you feel comfortable. You can wear a bikini to the beach if you want or a one piece. You can dress in shorts, and a tank top if you care. It’s when someone is purposely dressing to attract attention.
Let me try it from this angle, maybe you will understand where I am coming from. I am a father of four girls. My 13 year old wants to dress like the women she sees. She wants skinny, tight jeans that hug her figure. She wants to wear low cut tops, and even halter tops. She gets angry when I tell her she’s too young to wear such things. I’ve even been accused by some of being a fuddy duddy, or of trying to force her to be ‘less of a woman.’
Quite the contrary. My daughters are encouraged to express themselves. They are encouraged to use their minds, to speak with confidence, and to always tell me how they feel even if it is something I don’t want to hear. They can be strong, decisive and powerful women without having to dress in a common or crude manner. In fact, I find that I respect many women more when they are dressed in a business manner or in a very nice, flattering, but conservative outfit.
I think what most of the guys here are trying to say is that our society has become a place where the bikini isn’t just found on the beach. It’s making it’s way into every aspect of life. The office is no longer a place where you don’t expose much flesh, but now a place where low cut tops (and I don’t mean just a little) and ever shorter skirts are the norm. You find men all over the place exposing more and more of their anatomy as well.
I don’t want women to regress. I don’t want them to be my slave (I’m a house husband for that matter, I stay home with my kids.) I don’t want someone to iron my clothes or wash my dishes. I also don’t women to be nothing more than eye candy. The most attractive part of my wife (though I think she is very physically attractive, quite beautiful) is her mind, and the fact she is willing to express it to me with on qualms. That is what a woman should be, not just her breasts and legs. As well as a man should be his mind, not just his biceps and buttocks.
As I said before, we aren’t talking about you dressing the way you feel comfortable. You can wear a bikini to the beach if you want or a one piece. You can dress in shorts, and a tank top if you care. It’s when someone is purposely dressing to attract attention.
Let me try it from this angle, maybe you will understand where I am coming from. I am a father of four girls. My 13 year old wants to dress like the women she sees. She wants skinny, tight jeans that hug her figure. She wants to wear low cut tops, and even halter tops. She gets angry when I tell her she’s too young to wear such things. I’ve even been accused by some of being a fuddy duddy, or of trying to force her to be ‘less of a woman.’
Quite the contrary. My daughters are encouraged to express themselves. They are encouraged to use their minds, to speak with confidence, and to always tell me how they feel even if it is something I don’t want to hear. They can be strong, decisive and powerful women without having to dress in a common or crude manner. In fact, I find that I respect many women more when they are dressed in a business manner or in a very nice, flattering, but conservative outfit.
I think what most of the guys here are trying to say is that our society has become a place where the bikini isn’t just found on the beach. It’s making it’s way into every aspect of life. The office is no longer a place where you don’t expose much flesh, but now a place where low cut tops (and I don’t mean just a little) and ever shorter skirts are the norm. You find men all over the place exposing more and more of their anatomy as well.
I don’t want women to regress. I don’t want them to be my slave (I’m a house husband for that matter, I stay home with my kids.) I don’t want someone to iron my clothes or wash my dishes. I also don’t women to be nothing more than eye candy. The most attractive part of my wife (though I think she is very physically attractive, quite beautiful) is her mind, and the fact she is willing to express it to me with on qualms. That is what a woman should be, not just her breasts and legs. As well as a man should be his mind, not just his biceps and buttocks.
