Wow. I had no idea anyone would ever respond to this. It was an overgeneralization on a late night.
I didn’t mean either thinking yourself a part of a huge, extended family that is your society (my, probably erroneous, concept of much of Europe), or individualism (my, probably errouneous, concept of the US) were inherently positive or negative - they can both be selfish or selfless, and are in themselves morally neutral. Thay are just different modes of thought.
E.g. where I live, it is perfectly normal for grandparents, aunts, and uncles, to babysit frequently, to help out a lot, etc. On the other hand, adult ‘children’ still owe their parents and extended family lots of respect, help in many situations, take care of old parents instead of put them in a home, etc. This is both selfish and selfless - you give more and get more in return. It sort of can spread wider than a family, if many feel the entire society is connected by blood. Again, morally neutral, both selfish and selfless.
What I tried to imply was that many of those rooting for universal healthcare etc. in the US seem to push the EU model, but that many US people seem to feel this would be almost immoral, and perhaps rightly so, as it is at odds with US culture and the values of responsibility, independence, and, most importantly, freedom of choice - not being forced to give. Another, US-specific model, would have to be found, e.g. something based on voluntary charity encouraged by tax breaks - what the US already have, but more developed and universal.
You go straight to the doctor of your choice - in your area, though - and wait up to 2-3 hours in the waiting room. You pay nothing for either the call or antibiotics. There isn’t much out of the ‘network’, really - the vast majority of doctors are government-paid, and they’re really good - what the private ones offer is more in terms of atmosphere, not having to wait at all, and for some, the sheer prestige of going to a private doctor. And most private doctors ALSO work within the government system, and their private practice is something they do on the side. Their government-paid hours are about 40 hours a week, so they can easily work more, if they want to, although they really don’t have to, as their salaries are already the highest in the country, 10 times the minimum wages.
In all my life, I’ve had great experiences with doctors. After giving birth (free), both mother and child remain for three days in hospital (free), ‘just in case’. All those I’ve seen were very thorough and conscientious, and were just doing their jobs - no need to push unnecessary drugs or surgeries, but also no need to withhold the necessary ones either - as in either case, no money came in or out of their pockets.