In Catholicism you do not reach the age of reason until around age 7 which is about the time we recieve our First Communion and the Sacrament of Penance to strengthen us spiritually.
Yes… this is the age worked from, some children are quicker than others however, it’s a line drawn for practical purposes. Children can be admitted earlier if their parents think it advisable, exceptions are made by requests.
I love reading about saints and special children who go to Confession and Holy Communion early, by special exception.
It reminds me of Ven. Anne de Guigne, one chapter of her biography calls her ‘the Apostle of the Nursery’ where she would help her brothers and sisters in holiness. In fact I think that biography is a great example of the spiritual life of children and gives some idea of how to raise holy children. So important to know…
She was very small for her age. She was not holy from the start either… Very strong willed… did some bad things… described as jealous… bossy… then had a conversion…
At age 5, for her first Communion preparations, a Jesuit especially examined her. He did not keep to the order of the catechism but asked her questions out of order to make sure she knew the material.
I’ll quote the book of her biography (on sale cheap from
Tan Books I still believe.)
“What is your chief fault then?” he asked.
“Pride,” answered Anne promptly, “and disobedience too.”
“Humility here,” thought the priest, but he pretended to be very stern and told her that a little girl who wanted to recieve Our Lord must obey at once and do whatever she was told. Then with a quick turn he asked: “When does Jesus obey?”
“At Mass,” answered the child without any hesitation.
“What words does He obey?”
“He obeys the priest when he says: ‘This is My Body, this is My Blood.’”
Then the examiner tried another subject: “What Sacraments have you received?”
“Baptism and Penance,” she replied.
“And which are you hoping to receive?”
“The Holy Eucharist and Confirmation.”
“No more?”
“Perhaps someday I shall receive the Sacrament of Matrimony,” she suggested.
“Holy orders too, eh?”
“Oh no, Father, how could I? That’s *your *Sacrament!” The little maid was not to be caught tripping.
Outside, Mother St. Ramyond was getting more and more anxious but at length they both appeared smiling to her great relief. “I wish you and I were as well prepared to receive Our Lord as this little girl is,” was the examiner’s verdict.
All obstacles being now removed, Anne joined the first communicants’ retreat at the convent. It was given by one of the Jesuits who took for his text: “Obedience is the sanctity of children.” All those little one’s listened with good will no doubt, but as in Our Lord’s time, “the seeds fell, some on thorny ground, some by the wayside and some on the good ground.”
For Anne the Father’s words were a revelation. Being a saint, then, for a little girl, meant being obedient. Being obedient meant pleasing Jesus; and as she wanted to please Jesus, she must therefore be obedient. The logical little mind had put the matter with a clarity worthy of St. Thomas. All that remained was to carry it out; and with Anne to know was to act, so it was done."’