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jacie
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LinDiego - you sound like you have a close family member in Regnum Christi. We went through a smilar thing when my brother joined the Legion right out of high school. My Mom was quite unhappy that he would only be coming home on her and my father’s birthdays, and that phone calls were so limited. It was explained that the Legionaries had to be his family now, because he might be spending the rest of his life with them.
That was 15 years ago, and over time things have relaxed a bit. It all depends on what mission or job they are assigned to, but we stay in touch regularly and have wonderful conversations. I think what happens is the individual is so zealous at the beginning and so busy with their studies and work, that they can act a little overscrupulously. Also, I find that the Legionaries’ vow of charilty, i.e. never speaking ill of another person, actually limits the conversation quite a bit. Think about how much time we spend conversing with other people about other people. But try directing the conversation towards spiritual matters, or even current political or world events. Try keeping in touch by e-mail because I don’t think there are many restrictions on that (if they have access to a computer). Also, if you call her, she is allowed to return your call.
I know it sometimes can feel like a cult, because our culture is so used to our personal freedom. But think about the Apostles - they left their wives and families to serve the Church. Think about the Carmelites and other orders who are allowed no contact whatsoever with the outside world. The life of a Legionary or a Regnum Christi member is very disciplined and militaristic. But so many religious orders have gotten sloppy in the formation of their priests and religious, that I have to say I appreciate the careful formation done by the Legionaries. Yes, it can be misused by some to hide their sinfulness, but all I know is that my brother doesn’t see it happening, and I trust his judgment. I pray and trust that the truth will come out, one way or the other.
That was 15 years ago, and over time things have relaxed a bit. It all depends on what mission or job they are assigned to, but we stay in touch regularly and have wonderful conversations. I think what happens is the individual is so zealous at the beginning and so busy with their studies and work, that they can act a little overscrupulously. Also, I find that the Legionaries’ vow of charilty, i.e. never speaking ill of another person, actually limits the conversation quite a bit. Think about how much time we spend conversing with other people about other people. But try directing the conversation towards spiritual matters, or even current political or world events. Try keeping in touch by e-mail because I don’t think there are many restrictions on that (if they have access to a computer). Also, if you call her, she is allowed to return your call.
I know it sometimes can feel like a cult, because our culture is so used to our personal freedom. But think about the Apostles - they left their wives and families to serve the Church. Think about the Carmelites and other orders who are allowed no contact whatsoever with the outside world. The life of a Legionary or a Regnum Christi member is very disciplined and militaristic. But so many religious orders have gotten sloppy in the formation of their priests and religious, that I have to say I appreciate the careful formation done by the Legionaries. Yes, it can be misused by some to hide their sinfulness, but all I know is that my brother doesn’t see it happening, and I trust his judgment. I pray and trust that the truth will come out, one way or the other.