Yep! First the Orthoodx need to set aside their pride …
Looks like the pot is calling the kettle black here.
Funny how Orthodoxs can never give a logical explanation when I present them of numerous cases where eastern bishops clearly wanted the Bishop of Rome to settle the issue…hhmmmm?
It was routine for churches to ask others to mediate disputes. Local synods control their own affairs, and two local synods could ask a third neutral synod to mediate, that is still a practice in Orthodoxy today.
Naturally, the church at the city of Rome held a lot of respect in the ancient church for as number of good reasons. One important one was that the western church was not very innovative in the early centuries, which helps a lot when the question is one of legitimacy in theology. The church in the city of Rome was (in those days) conservative by nature, if not by design.
Another sometimes useful reason to ask Rome to mediate was that it was on the margins of the empire (and sometimes outside of the borders), and this made it difficult to for the imperial authority to mess with it for much of the time. In fact, it was politically advantageous to the empire to cultivate the relationship with the Roman church, insofar as they empire often had designs on expanding into the west once again and reasserting it’s ancient prerogatives. So if the imperial court was backing one faction in a dispute, it was extremely helpful to the other party to get the church in Rome to back them, as it acted as a counterbalance.
Last but not least, the church in the city of Rome was a pilgrimage center, and boasted the ‘superior origins’ of Saints peter and Paul. It was always hoped that this had left a positive influence on the community, and for the most part it did, for several hundred years at least.
… why bother letting the Bishop of Rome settle the issue at all? Why not settle it in-house?
Every local synod is it’s own house. Issues within the synod are handled within the synod unless there is an impasse, then a third party can be invited or petitioned to help settle the matter.
When Rome was Orthodox it participated in this process. Now it is not Orthodox, and is not asked.
When Rome had the most prestige and respect in the communion it was asked more often, now it does not have that same respect and is not asked for anything.
If you notice, none of the examples you may find of the early Roman involvement in Orthodoxy include administrative functions. Rome did not govern churches outside of it’s own synod. This contrasts with the current claims of the papacy, which asserts that it has ordinary and immediate jurisdiction throughout all of Christendom.
Today, the position the bishop of Rome held in the communion, and the responsibility which goes with that role, is capably held by the Ecumenical Patriarch. If anyone is interested in how the Pope functioned in the first millenium church they need only examine the EP.
IF, and it is a big if, the Papacy was readmitted into the Orthodox communion, the Pope’s responsibilities could be essentially the same as the EP’s responsibilities today.
However, there are no guarantees even of that. Rome might have to go through aprobationary period, and it might not ever regain it’s former postion. This is a discipline of the church, after all, and disciplines may change as the needs of the church change.