The Rosary and my daughter

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The school is confusing my child about how to say the Rosary.
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We just got in the habit of saying it correctly and now she is all mixed up.
They teach her to say You and Your for the Thy and Thou parts.

WHY?
 
Both are acceptable. Thee, thou, and thy are older English usage.

It’s not “wrong” to say thee, thou, etc, and neither is it “wrong” to say you, your.
 
The school is confusing my child about how to say the Rosary.
😦
We just got in the habit of saying it correctly and now she is all mixed up.
They teach her to say You and Your for the Thy and Thou parts.

WHY?
Because people have a choice whether they wish to use more modern language or not.

If your daughter will be praying the rosary with her class and if they use “you” and “your,” then perhaps it would be easier for her if you prayed it the same way at home.

If you prefer to stay with “thee” and “thy” then she’ll need to learn to be flexible.
 
Do people have a choice to use modern language with the Our Father? :confused:
 
Do people have a choice to use modern language with the Our Father? :confused:
At Mass there aren’t multiple ways of saying it because because it’s in the missal. At home, I suppose you could say it however you want, though most Catholics will probably say it the way they’re accustomed to at Mass.

I think you’ll find that there are variations in a lot of prayers. Take the Suscipe of Ignatius of Loyola as an example.

Receive, O Lord, all my liberty. Take my memory, my understanding, and my entire will. Whatsoever I have or possess Thou hast bestowed upon me; I give it all back to Thee and surrender it wholly to be governed by Thy Will. Give me love for Thee alone along with Thy grace, and I am rich enough and ask for nothing more. Source]

Or is it…

Receive, O Lord, all my liberty.
Take my memory, my understanding, and my entire will.
Whatsoever I have or hold, You have given me;
I give it all back to You
and surrender it wholly to be governed by your will.
Give me only your love and your grace,
and I am rich enough and ask for nothing more. Source]

Or maybe it’s…

Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty,
my memory, my understanding
and my entire will,
All I have and call my own.

You have given all to me.
To you, Lord, I return it.

Everything is yours; do with it what you will.
Give me only your love and your grace.
That is enough for me. Source]

Obviously they’re all expressing the same idea. It’s a question of how they’re translated from the original Latin and which one an individual prefers.
 
I understand. I do think its sort of confusing for grandparents and parents to say the Rosary one way, and now their children say it another way. If you want to gather as a family and say it together, doesn’t it make sense to say it the same way? Well, I guess I will have to say it the way they are teaching her then and tell her people say it different ways. No biggie.
I would not even tell her she can say the Our Father any way she likes if she is not in Mass!
I think that will lead to a lot of her making things up as she sees fit.:o
 
I would not even tell her she can say the Our Father any way she likes if she is not in Mass!
I think that will lead to a lot of her making things up as she sees fit.:o
When we’re at Mass we pray as a body so there isn’t an option to make it up as we go along. When we’re praying privately, there is no wrong way to pray.

When I was growing up I learned all the standard prayers. Something that I didn’t learn until I was older was that I didn’t have to always pray using someone else’s words. I wish I had known earlier that I could use my words and God would listen.

Don’t be too hard on how your daughter prays. Give her some space to have her own loving relationship with God.
 
We do both. The prayers the faithful have said for many years, and we also pray spontaneous prayers.
I don’t dislike traditional prayers. Maybe because I don’t dislike family traditions either. They are very important, I am sure you would agree. Even as an atheist, we had our own tradtions that we will continue, like all families do. And typically, they remain in the family as long as the fudge recipie does, or whatever the particular thing may be. Sometimes changing some things, just for the sake of change is not always great. Sometimes its just fine.
I dunno. This is a prayer every catholic knows all over the world.
So many saints have said it the old way. In every country all over they would be able to join you saying it the same way. (lets assume english speaking for the sake of conversation now).
Is this only done in america? Or have other english speaking countries done this also?
 
I forgot to add, regarding the Our Father, why would anyone want to change that one considering it was taught to us by Jesus?
I don’t view it as a model prayer.
 
Does your daughter or anyone she knows have a nickname?

You might use nicknames to explain the differences between formal language “Thee, thy” and informal language “you, your”.

A girl could be named Elizabeth Anne Jones. Her friends might call her Beth and her mom might call her BethieAnn. They are all her names, one is formal, others are casual.
 
Do people have a choice to use modern language with the Our Father? :confused:
Not in the Mass, because the texts of the Mass are definitive and not supposed to be deviated from, but in private prayer there’s nothing wrong with saying ‘Our Father who is in heaven, hallowed be Your name, Your kingdom come …’
 
Does your daughter or anyone she knows have a nickname?

You might use nicknames to explain the differences between formal language “Thee, thy” and informal language “you, your”.

A girl could be named Elizabeth Anne Jones. Her friends might call her Beth and her mom might call her BethieAnn. They are all her names, one is formal, others are casual.
🙂

I like that comparison! Makes sense.
 
I forgot to add, regarding the Our Father, why would anyone want to change that one considering it was taught to us by Jesus?
I don’t view it as a model prayer.
Don’t forget, the Our Father wasn’t written in English. The original language was Greek, so what we use is already a translation. Further, ALL language changes over time, and there have been several distinct versions of the English language. It’s perfectly correct to use “thee” and “thy”, but since nobody’s used Early Modern English since Shakespeare’s time, a modern translation would use “you” and “your”. By the way, it would also be perfectly correct to use the Old English or Middle English translations from 1000 years ago, although the language has changed so much that I doubt anyone would understand much of it. Undoubtedly, in another 500 years, there will be yet another English translation. New English translations simply help a new generation to understand the prayer as clearly as possible.

By the way, just for fun, here’s the Old English translation! (I think this makes it clear why periodic re-translations are done. lol)

Fæder ure þu þe eart on heofonum (Our Father, you who are in heaven, )
Si þin nama gehalgod (Be your name hallowed.)
to becume þin rice (Come your kingdom,)
gewurþe ðin willa (be done your will,)
on eorðan swa swa on heofonum (on earth just as in heaven.)
urne gedæghwamlican hlaf syle us todæg (Our daily bread (loaf) give us today,)
and forgyf us ure gyltas (and forgive us our sins (guilts))
swa swa we forgyfað urum gyltendum (just as we forgive our sinners (i.e., sinners against us),)
and ne gelæd þu us on costnunge (and do not lead us into temptation,)
ac alys us of yfele soþlice. (but release us from evil. Amen.)
 
Thank you Rolltide. As old as that version is, it still conveys the exact same meaning from what I can tell. So, I agree it would be fine to change it. And, at least she has not been saying it that terribly long for it to be that large of an obstacle anyway.
I guess I just felt, like one the very first catholic things I tried to teach her, that was our time together to do, suddenly became a moment of confusion for her. I blame myself for being unaware of this change. Even at all the sites, like this one I see it the “old way” lol.
By the way Rolltide, do you happen to know the way the Rosary was originally said in english?
I would guess the same as I read it here, because its a “newer” prayer.
 
Thank you Rolltide. As old as that version is, it still conveys the exact same meaning from what I can tell. So, I agree it would be fine to change it. And, at least she has not been saying it that terribly long for it to be that large of an obstacle anyway.
I guess I just felt, like one the very first catholic things I tried to teach her, that was our time together to do, suddenly became a moment of confusion for her. I blame myself for being unaware of this change. Even at all the sites, like this one I see it the “old way” lol.
By the way Rolltide, do you happen to know the way the Rosary was originally said in english?
I would guess the same as I read it here, because its a “newer” prayer.
The Rosary first came to be popular in the 900s AD, so the prayers they used would have been said in an older form of English.
 
The Rosary first came to be popular in the 900s AD, so the prayers they used would have been said in an older form of English.
Like I said, “newer” LOL!

That is much older than I thought. I did not know the prayer was that old. That’s good to know.
 
Here’s the evolution of the prayer.

First, the original Greek version:

(From Wikipedia):
In Greek the Lord’s Prayer is called Πάτερ Ἡμῶν; in Latin its name is Pater Noster. Two versions are found in the New Testament: one in the Gospel of Matthew and the other in the Gospel of Luke.

Though both are substantially the same there are slight differences.

The prayer as found in Ἐυαγγελίον κατὰ Μαθθαίον (Nestle-Aland Novum Testamentum Graece et Latine):
Code:
6:9 Οὕτως οὖν προσεύχεσθε ὑμεῖς: 
Πάτερ ἡμῶν ὁ ἐω τοῖς οὐρανοῖς 
ἁγιασθήτω τὸ ὄνομά σου 
6:10 ἐλθέτω ἡ βασιλεία σου 
γενηθήτω τὸ θέλημά σου 
ὡς ἐν οὐρανῷ καὶ ἐπὶ γῆς 
6:11 τὸν ἄρτον ἡμῶν τὸν ἐπιούσιον δὸς ἡμῖν σήμερον 
6:12 καὶ ἄφες ἡμῖν τὰ ὀφειλήματα ἡμῶν, 
ὡς καὶ ἡμεῖς ἀφήκαμεν1 τοῖς ὀφειλέταις ἡμῶν 
6:13 καὶ μὴ εἰσενέγκῃς ἡμᾶς εἰς πειρασμόν, 
ἀλλὰ ῥῦσαι ἡμᾶς ἀπὸ τοῦ πονηροῦ.
  1. sometimes the present form ἀφίεμεν is found in place of the perfective ἀφήκαμεν.
    **
    When it came to England, it was translated into Old English (Anglo-Saxon):**

    Fæder ūre, þū eart on heofonum:
    sī þīn nama gehāglod.
    Tōbecume þīn rīce.
    Geweorþe þīn willa
    on eorþan swāswā on heofonum.
    Ūre dæghwāmlican hlāf sielle ūs tō dæge.
    And forgief ūs ūre gyltas
    swāswā wē forgiefaþ ūrum gyltendem.
    And ne gelǣd þū on costnunge,
    ac ālīes ūs of yfele.
From there, the language evolved into Middle English:
Code:
Fader ure ðatt art in hevene blisse,
Ðin hege name itt wurðe bliscedd,
Cumen itt mote ði kingdom,
Ðin hali wil it be al don,
In heven and in erðe all so,
So itt sall ben ful wel ic to;
Gif us alle one ðis dai,
Ure bred of iche dai,
And forgive us ure sinne,
Als we don ure wiðerwinnes:
Leet us noct in fondlinge fall,
Ooc fro ivel ðu sild us alle. Amen.
**
In 1662, the Early Modern English version was composed:**
Code:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy name,  
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
Finally, we have the current version:
Code:
Our Father, who is in heaven, (sometimes just "Our Father in heaven")
hallowed be your name,
Your kingdom come,
Your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our sins (sometimes trespasses is retained),
as we forgive those who sin (sometimes trespass is retained)   against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
A version of the Lord’s Prayer that I learned when I was very young

Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy name,
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our debts,
as we forgive our debtors,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil,
for thine is the kingdom,
and the power,
and the glory.
Amen.
 
A version of the Lord’s Prayer that I learned when I was very young

Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy name,
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our debts,
as we forgive our debtors,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil,
for thine is the kingdom,
and the power,
and the glory.
Amen.
I like this one a lot. I do tend to view sins as direct debts not just to those I sin against, but to God and I do feel I am to be reminded of this debt, even if forgiven so I remember to be forgiving myself, unless I waive my right to seek forgiveness myself!

I just love this prayer so much. 👍
 
That’s because there’s nothing wrong with saying the prayer the “old way”.

I hear people saying it both ways, and that’s okay, because there’s no “official” way that we’re required to say a private devotion like the Rosary.

The same situation exists for the Glory Be prayer. There are two ways to pray the Glory Be:

“Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be forever.”

“Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.”

Again, there are two ways that this prayer is commonly said. You just have to listen to how your group is praying it.
I guess I just felt, like one the very first catholic things I tried to teach her, that was our time together to do, suddenly became a moment of confusion for her. I blame myself for being unaware of this change. Even at all the sites, like this one I see it the “old way” lol.
 
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