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Aloysium
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If you are married, it hasn’t been for very long. You may find that you end up hating your spouse. A commitment to God, to one’s word and the person you married will be the reason for not only maintaining, but improving the relationship. Love is demonstrated in those acts that will bring you back together. Having overcome the worst imaginable, the couple will be rewarded with a love far deeper than what existed before.Aloysium, I know you are just speculating . . . why would the God of love punish an act of love from his own created image? . . . So did Adam truly love his Eve as you seem to say, because if he did, he would have continued to state that, rather than put blame onto her?
Adam could have eaten the apple because:Gen 3:6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.
- He was convinced as was Eve by the serpent.
- He and Eve were of one mind.
- He knew that Eve would be taken from him, and he could not let her go.
- for other motivations.
I understand the Greeks had four words for love:Gen 2:23 The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.”
- storge, relating to family relations
- philia, or friendship
- eros, a passionate spiritual or physical desire for the beloved, seen as beautiful
- agape, a giving of oneself without ulterior motives
We also read of charity: - a love of God above all things, from which arises a love of our neighbor as ourselves.
Out of everything that is good, God wills certain things that are good for us. There are intrinsically good things that are bad for us.
Whatever Adam’s motivations, once the relationship with God was damaged, once we failed to reciprocate God’s love, the capacity to love was diminished within us.
Created as self-and-other, in love, man now finds himself in conflict with the other, whom we no longer know and whom we fear, aware that we are other to his self.Gen 3:12-16 The man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate.” 1Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” And the woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” . . . your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you."
Not loving and not trusting we control , dominate and blame the other.