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billcu1
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Hum. If a provocative woman walks by I’m always going to look but I never in any circumstances don’t see a soul or a human being. I have too many girls I like for that and some of them are pretty, some aren’t. And this hollywood sexy girl stuff doesn’t work on me either. If I see a pretty reasonably dressed woman I’m going to shake her hand and ask her name and give her mine. I don’t ask for numbers I see a potential friend. But I’m going to look too I can see. Let’s hope grace changes that if it needs to be changed right now I’m getting an aversion to porn and cursing.To control our thoughts and be more faithful we must not become greater and stronger, but smaller and weaker.
As for our thoughts, no sin is mortal unless there is deliberate consent, and you can always tell if there has been deliberate consent. To be blunt: a woman dressed provocatively walks by. If in my mind I chose to indulge on what I see and desire to possess her and imagine having a physical encounter with her, I’d say that is mortal sin. If I feel something and simply keep moving forward and shift my thoughts towards other things (especially spiritual things) then no matter what I saw, it is not mortal sin.
And I draw the line as follows: when I don’t see her as a soul, as a whole human being, but as parts, I know I am in danger of grave sin.
Devotion to Our Lady helps very much in this context.