Not a single Catholic person on this thread has ever claimed to be perfect when she’s correcting or admonishing you, tweety.
Why must every correction be taken so personally?
We’ve all been at family gatherings when, seemingly, an interesting discussion is being had, and suddenly (usually it’s a female, I must say) jumps up and exclaims, *“Well, since you’re all perfect and think it’s okay to insult me I’ll just take my casserole and leave, thank you very much!” * Everyone else is left mystified by the perceived insult…but, then, the conversation happily continues, but, sadly, next time this family member appears conversation must be stilted and one-dimensional, lest this person take offense at another innocuous remark.
Every family has one member that, unhappy in her personal life, makes everyone else miserable when gathered together.
What’s the saying by Thomas Merton? Something like, “You are not at peace with others because you are not at peace with yourself. You are not at peace with yourself because you are not at peace with God.”
Now, this is not meant as a personal anything to you, tweety. It’s just an observation I’m making.
And before you say, “Thank you!” I’m going to go ahead and pre-empt that with a resounding, “You’re welcome!”