Valuing a human being based on whether or not they’ve had sex is not a good way to think. It’s incredibly harmful - for example, what about those who are not virgins through no choice of their own? Do they have less value? What about those who had sex before marriage and then regretted it - should they go through the rest of their life believing they have less worth than others? Should they allow others to treat them as if they have less worth than others?this way of thinking is actually good.
Especially “hey bro, you know who really satisfied my wife? Her last boyfriend. Know what I mean, bro? He gave her the most brotastic orgasms, bro.” (fist bump)You don’t talk about your sex life with your bros. You get a therapist and talk about it with your spouse .
That’s not what I said.Yes it is good to tell a close friend. Not confronting the issue, can lead to jealousy, anger and even domestic violence if just looked over. Telling man to keep his emotions in a just carry on is the worse thing you could do to a man in pain.
You don’t talk about your sex life with your bros. You get a therapist and talk about it with your spouse .
He does not have the right to share private information like that with whoever he wants.
I’d like to hear what your thoughts are on the scenarios I suggested. I’m curious about how you’d actually apply these ideas around value in real life.I think your trying hint that everyone should be equal. You praise the person who didn’t give away their virginity versus the one who did. Thats justice, because they are not equal.
You’ve undergone marriage counseling?Ok therapist isn’t going to help with this. I know it doesn’t work from past experiences.