The Value of Virginity for Marriage

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this way of thinking is actually good.
Valuing a human being based on whether or not they’ve had sex is not a good way to think. It’s incredibly harmful - for example, what about those who are not virgins through no choice of their own? Do they have less value? What about those who had sex before marriage and then regretted it - should they go through the rest of their life believing they have less worth than others? Should they allow others to treat them as if they have less worth than others?
 
You don’t talk about your sex life with your bros. You get a therapist and talk about it with your spouse .
Especially “hey bro, you know who really satisfied my wife? Her last boyfriend. Know what I mean, bro? He gave her the most brotastic orgasms, bro.” (fist bump)

Totally realistic conversation adult men have with each other.
 
It was him and this man who was in pain. Don’t take it literally, it was a metaphor for what happened. Yes it is good to tell a close friend. Not confronting the issue, can lead to jealousy, anger and even domestic violence if just looked over. Telling man to keep his emotions in a just carry on is the worse thing you could do to a man in pain.
 
Funny how you took that literally, cause it was a metaphor.
 
Yes it is good to tell a close friend. Not confronting the issue, can lead to jealousy, anger and even domestic violence if just looked over. Telling man to keep his emotions in a just carry on is the worse thing you could do to a man in pain.
That’s not what I said.
You don’t talk about your sex life with your bros. You get a therapist and talk about it with your spouse .
He does not have the right to share private information like that with whoever he wants.
 
I think your trying hint that everyone should be equal. You praise the person who didn’t give away their virginity versus the one who did. Thats justice, because they are not equal.
 
I love how no official Church teaching has been quoted on this supposed “damaged goods” theory. Just saying.

There’s also been 0 proof from an empirical angle.
 
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I think your trying hint that everyone should be equal. You praise the person who didn’t give away their virginity versus the one who did. Thats justice, because they are not equal.
I’d like to hear what your thoughts are on the scenarios I suggested. I’m curious about how you’d actually apply these ideas around value in real life.
 
Ok therapist isn’t going to help with this. I know it doesn’t work from past experiences.
 
How is this twisted put-down of non-virgins and fetishizing of virginity justice?
 
What is wrong with you fetishzing virginity. Are you kidding virginity is fantastic, why are you shaming it. It one of the 3 crowns of glory a person could receive upon entering heaven.
 
There’s a problem with saying someone isn’t worth marrying if they aren’t a virgin.
 
I never said that, I said and asked which I am still waiting for an answer. Could she herself fully to me? YES OR NO?
 
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