Yes I do believe X holds true for me. What I make of someone who doesn’t believe it is there are reasons they don’t believe it and while I may not agree, I can understand why they don’t believe and it does not mean they have rejected God and have no desire to follow Christ. However, I can understand why people have certain objections. Understanding why someone has certain objections does not mean you think they are right. It just means you can understand were they are coming from and I think it is important to understand objections and were someone else is coming from to engage in productive dialogue and not just have an argument that one party wins. Passing on faith is not about winning arguments or demanding obedience.
I agree it is valuable to understand where people are coming from. Everything you say in this paragraph makes sense, and most people who are not Catholics (e.g., someone in China in 1100) have not made some sort of conscious decision to reject Jesus. However–
In my opinion, belief is not fact. That is to say, it cannot be proven by empirical evidence. The shape of the earth can be. Christ rising from the dead cannot. It involves faith and choice. If we could prove everything we believe, we would have no need of faith and we would not need to make a choice. We do not accept the law of gravity through faith and choice. The resurrection of Christ cannot be verified in the same way.
What you’re describing here sounds like a version of extreme relativism, in which facts about God and religion are not “real” facts, they are just true “for me” or “for you” inasmuch as we have faith in them. They are fake facts. We
create God by sheer force of our own wills in believing in him, and if we all stopped believing in God and forgot about him completely, then he would no longer exist. So Jesus exists for me, and Shiva exists for a Hindu; and if I converted to Hinduism then Shiva would exist for me too.
Well, what does that get me, exactly. If God is a creation of my own will and faith, then (1) did he create the universe countless ages before I was born?, and (2) how the heck is he going to save me and give me eternal life after I die? I can’t do either of those thing personally, so how could one of my mental constructs do it?
Verificationism in this context is nonsense. True, if something cannot be verified for the time being, then I cannot say “I know for a fact you’re wrong, and I’ll prove it.” Was Alexander the Great gay? Some people say yes, some people say no. Without a time machine we’ll doubtless never know. But the fact that we cannot prove it doesn’t mean that he must have been both gay and straight any more than it means could neither have been gay nor straight. The fact that we can’t prove his sexuality has absolutely no bearing on the fact
of his sexuality.
The same applies, in the first place, for various historical claims that Christianity makes, like the fact that Jesus Christ was conceived of a virgin, walked around Judea and taught, met with the disciples and said “This is my body, this is my blood,” was crucified, died, and was buried, and then rose on the third day and passed through a closed door to meet with the disciples again. Those are all historical claims; they either happened or they didn’t. With a time machine, maybe you could go check for yourself, just like you could check on Alexander the Great’s sexuality, on whether Homer was really blind, and on whether the angel Moroni appeared to Joseph Smith and gave him some golden tablets. Those claims are verifiable in the time-machine sense (like a claim about a distant galaxy may be verifiable in the warp-drive sense), and generally unverifiable in the real sense.
In the second place,
non-historical claims that religion makes
can be verifiable. You might have to die to verify them, though. If you and your atheist friend have heart attacks at the same moment and show up at the Pearly Gates together, that will be your big chance to say “I told you so.” The fact that, while on Earth, you could not offer scientific evidence of the existence of Heaven turns out to have had no bearing at all on the question of whether Heaven existed all along. It did not force Heaven not not-exist, or to only exist “for” those people who chose to believe in it.