Things are out of control

[Polishman]

Dear Seminole Girl:
I am new here and you may have already answered this question but when the marriage ceremony took place had any decision been made by either of you concerning having children? If a marriage took place with either one or both spouses rejecting the possibility of having children, then the marriage was invalid. I am a member of a marriage tribunal in my diocese and I see this situation arise frequently. That’s why, in an annulment process, witnesses are vital to the case: Someone who can testify under oath that a decision had been made NOT to have a child.
Just my 2 cents. Blessings and prayers for you!
Polishman

 

[Cupofkindness]

Seminole Girl:

Why are you putting up with this torture? You cannot win this battle. It’s all in his sick head and heart, you cannot re-wire his thinking at this point. This man is abusing you with his cruel remarks and lies. He sounds mentally ill or possessed. I doubt that any of the saints had to put up with as much vile sexual sin accross their entire marriage as you do in a period of weeks. This man is lost and he will pull you down with him if you give him the opportunity. Get out of the marriage and figure out the annulment details later. You know, he might go off the deep end and start harming you. Call a family lawyer as soon as possible in order to work out the details of a legal separation. Protect yourself financially, your husband will probably try to get all of the money for himself.

By the way, what do your husband’s parents think of all of this? And what about your family? This situation is urgent, please act so that you can live in peace. You deserve so much more, God does not want you to suffer needlessly. Ultimately, your husband is responsible for getting himself into heaven. You are living in hell because your husband has decided that he wants to go there instead.