No, the Church doesn’t make the standards. God does. The Church merely teaches them. So if you have an issue with the standards, take it up with Him.
You can disagree with the Church. That is not the issue. The issue is disobedience. You can disagree with the Church stance on abortion, homosexuality, marriage, etc, but you are to be obedient. Now, you chose the word “dissent”. This has a much stronger meaning than just disagreement. And those that dissent are challenged, or as you put it, “clamped down on”. But as for being “pushed away from the Church”, that is not what is occurring. What is happening is that they are corrected by the Church, and their refusal to be obedient has them walking away. That is like saying Jesus pushed away those who refused to believe him when he said “unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you”. Did Jesus push away those who said this was a hard teaching and could not be acceptd?
Indeed it does. That’s why I oppose capital punishment in the US.
Because those in favor of capital punishment do far less damage than those in favor of abortion. Let’s say you have a flood in New Orleans and an tornado in Peck, KS. Which do you think should get the greatest response? Who should we focus on the most?
Here is where your confusion lies. It isn’t “exceptions”. It is in definitions. Killing, in and of itself, isn’t evil. We kill cattle, sheep, insects in our homes, but we (well Catholics at least) don’t consider this an evil. The distinction lies in who or what is killed. So the problem isn’t the killing, but who is killed. And killing innocents is always wrong, and the killing of the guilty, may be wrong (and in today’s society, I think it is wrong). Again, this is not an exception, it is how it is defined.
You mean His standards. They are God’s after all.
Then you seem to be questioning God’s perfection, for He defines the standards, not the Church.