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thank you for this thread!

i will be entering Sacred Heart Seminary (Hales Corner, Wisconsin) for first year of Theology. I am a delayed vocation. I am getting prepared spiritually for the road ahead. I thank God every day that he has chosen me. if i can be of any help or answer any questions for anyone out there I would be glad to share my discernment experience. God bless.

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I guess I am technically discerning (see my discussion-advice needed on this section of the board), although it is in the very initial stages.

I know most orders won’t even consider a candidate (who is a convert) until they have been Catholic two years. That is very understandable, and gives me time to discern, so I am not bothered by that. It is a blessing that keeps me from rushing in.
 
Johnny Reb. congratualations first for your conversion and secondly for your consideration to the Priesthood.

You will find that discernment is a process with its highs and lows. Increase your spiritual life. three recomendations;
  1. Prayer- without this you will be lost. try to dedicate at least 45 - 60 minutes of prayer a day at whatever stage of prayer you are in. remember prayer is the raising of heart to Christ and allowing him to renew and purify to heart and intentions. place a lot of emphasis on this place very close attention to your inspirations. remember purify those inspirations through a spiritual director.
  2. Spiritual Director - find one. this one is real tricky. make sure that you choose a man with spirituality and prayer if he doesn’t have prayer watch out.
  3. Eucharist - Daily Mass when possible + Eucharistic adoration. make time to be intimate and prayer in front of the Eucharist. you will be amazed of the results.
  4. Confession - minimum monthly, keep the battle going, keep purifying that heart. get the graces that come from confession.
  5. Retreat - 2-3 days of silence. spend dedicated time with Jesus, you will begin through prayer to see clarity.
  6. Pay close attention to the things that happen in your life. this is one way that God speaks to us. pay close attention !!! thetre will be suffering and heart breaks this is part of a serious and devoted discernment process.
I pray to the Holy Spirit that he will sustain you. Keep the Blessed Virgin Mary always in your prayers ask her to lead you to and make you like her Son.

Pray to St. Joseph.
 
Johnny Reb. congratualations first for your conversion and secondly for your consideration to the Priesthood.

You will find that discernment is a process with its highs and lows. Increase your spiritual life. six recomendations;
  1. Prayer- without this you will be lost. try to dedicate at least 45 - 60 minutes of prayer a day at whatever stage of prayer you are in. remember prayer is the raising of heart to Christ and allowing him to renew and purify to heart and intentions. place a lot of emphasis on this place very close attention to your inspirations. remember purify those inspirations through a spiritual director.
  2. Spiritual Director - find one. this one is real tricky. make sure that you choose a man with spirituality and prayer if he doesn’t have prayer watch out.
  3. Eucharist - Daily Mass when possible + Eucharistic adoration. make time to be intimate and prayer in front of the Eucharist. you will be amazed of the results.
  4. Confession - minimum monthly, keep the battle going, keep purifying that heart. get the graces that come from confession.
  5. Retreat - 2-3 days of silence. spend dedicated time with Jesus, you will begin through prayer to see clarity.
  6. Pay close attention to the things that happen in your life. this is one way that God speaks to us. pay close attention !!! thetre will be suffering and heart breaks this is part of a serious and devoted discernment process.
I pray to the Holy Spirit that he will sustain you. Keep the Blessed Virgin Mary always in your prayers ask her to lead you to and make you like her Son.

Pray to St. Joseph.
 
Thanks for the pointers. They do seem somewhat overwhelming, but it does seem like what I would need to do as well. The first thing I must remember, I am not my own. I may have to cut out some liesurely activities out of my schedule if I want to grow closer to the Lord.

How do I find a spiritual director?
 
dear Johnny Reb,

start by talking to any priest that you know who they would recommend. If you have Jesuits Priests this is their specialty. Just look for a holy and spiritual priest. again remember a man of prayer and experience. a man dedicated to Christ. He will be able to help you.

i will warn you it wont be easy to find. Ask the Holy Spirit to Guide you. Ask the Blessed Mother to guide you to her Son Jesus Christ.

I will pray for you.🙂
 
Thanks for the pointers. They do seem somewhat overwhelming, but it does seem like what I would need to do as well. The first thing I must remember, I am not my own. I may have to cut out some liesurely activities out of my schedule if I want to grow closer to the Lord.

How do I find a spiritual director?
Here is my tips:

1.) Pray in front of the Eucharist. Whether in the tabernacle or exposed he is just as present in both.

2.) A book that i recomend is Archbishop Fulton Sheen’s “The Priest is Not His Own” YOu can get it at like Barns&Noble or Books-A-Million.

3.) Talk to parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, etc. Family is always the best support.

4.) Contact the vocation director at the diocese, religous orders, etc.

Hope you discover your calling. 👍
 
Here is my tips:

1.) Pray in front of the Eucharist. Whether in the tabernacle or exposed he is just as present in both.

2.) A book that i recomend is Archbishop Fulton Sheen’s “The Priest is Not His Own” YOu can get it at like Barns&Noble or Books-A-Million.

3.) Talk to parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, etc. Family is always the best support.

4.) Contact the vocation director at the diocese, religous orders, etc.

Hope you discover your calling. 👍
Good advice. I have decided that I will go to daily mass as much as possible with my work schedule. The few times I have prayed in front of the Eucharist I sensed a spiritual connection with the Lord that I cannot explain. I never thought it would be like that. In fact, praying in front of the Eucharist really was instrumental in opening my eyes to how Christ is really present in the Eucharist.
 
There are a number of things that are helping me. My spiritual director always says I should ask myself, “What gives me life?” Is it the thought and desire for marriage? Is it thinking about being a priest? Is it a desire to give up everything for Jesus and bear his cross? It’s a tough question, but if you ask yourself that each day you’ll find themes and patterns. Patience, I guess, is very important.

I’ve also been checking out some inspiring video online.
  1. USCCB’s Fishers of Men: ccc.usccb.org/video/fishers_of_men1.wmv
  2. The Catholic Priest Today documentary: thecatholicpriesttoday.com/viewDVD.htm
  3. Diocese of Providence Office of Vocations: catholicpriest.com/ - they have a good site and some good videos about discernment.
Of course, prayer every day is so important. Praying throughout the day, asking for God’s presence in everything that you do is key. I’ll be praying for all of you and I hope you’ll pray for me as well. While I am being open to dating, I also have noticed that the priest thing is not going away easily.
 
I guess I am technically discerning (see my discussion-advice needed on this section of the board), although it is in the very initial stages.

I know most orders won’t even consider a candidate (who is a convert) until they have been Catholic two years. That is very understandable, and gives me time to discern, so I am not bothered by that. It is a blessing that keeps me from rushing in.
Dear Johnny Reb

I agree to everything that alllan-frederik, Andy and the others have said. Prayer IS the most important.
I’m entering the Jesuits on September 4th (Yay!!!).
The Jesuits are really good at helping you through the discernment process. They have a candidacy period of around 2 years, during which they guide, give you spiritual direction, invite you on retreats and encourage you to spend as much time with the local Jesuits as you possibly can. At the end of the two year period, the vocations director (and you of course) will then decide whether you are ready to apply. If he (the vocations director) does not think you are ready, he will not invite you. Then the selection process starts, which is pretty tough (but an immense learning experience). I guess what I’m trying to say is that, yes contact your local Jesuits’ vocations director and have a chat with him. The 2 years that I spent in discernment with the Jesuits were 2 of the best years of my life in which I could really feel God’s Spirit moving me in the direction that He wants. remember - in the end, it’s not our will, but His will that counts.

You’re in my prayers
God bless
Hendrik
 
My Dear Brothers I share this message from Cardinal Hume.

Dear brother priests,
On the occasion of the August 4th feast of St. John Marie Vianney, the Curé of Ars, I greet you cordially with all my heart, and I fraternally send you this brief message.
The Church knows today that there is an urgent mission, not only “ad gentes,” but also to those Christians living in areas and regions where the Christian faith has been preached and established for centuries and where ecclesial communities already exist. Within this flock, the mission, or the missionary of evangelization, has as its target those who are baptized but who, for different circumstances, have not been evangelized sufficiently, or those who have lost their initial fervour and fallen away. The postmodern culture of contemporary society - a relativist, secular, and agnostic culture - exerts a strong erosive action on the religious faith of many people.
The Church is missionary by its very nature. Jesus told us that “the sower went out to sow” (Mt 13:3). The sower does not limit himself to throwing the seed out of the window, but actually leaves the house. The Church knows that it cannot remain inert or limit itself to receiving and evangelizing those who are seeking the Faith in its churches and communities. It is also necessary to rise up and go to where people and families dwell, live and work. We must go to everyone: companies, organizations, institutions and different fields of human society. In this mission, all members of the ecclesial community are called: pastors, religious and laity.
Moreover, the Church recognizes that priests are the great driving force behind daily life in local communities. When priests move, the Church moves. If this were not so, it would be very difficult to achieve the Church’s mission.
My dear brother priests, you are the great richness, the energy, the pastoral and missionary inspiration in the midst of the Christian faithful, wherever they are found in community. Without your crucial decision to “put out into the deep” for fish (“Duc in altum”), as the Lord himself calls us, little or nothing will happen in the urgent mission, either “ad gentes” or in the territories that have previously been evangelized. But the Church is certain that it can count on you, because it knows and explicitly recognizes that the overwhelming majority of priests - despite our weaknesses and human limitations - are worthy priests, giving their life daily to the Kingdom of God and loving Jesus Christ and the people entrusted to them. These are the priests who are sanctifying themselves in their daily ministry and who are persevering until the harvest of the Lord. Only a small minority of priests have gravely deviated from this mission, and the Church seeks to repair the harm that they have done. On the other hand, it rejoices in and is proud of the immense majority of its priests, who are good and exceedingly worthy of praise.
During this Pauline Year, and pending the Synod of Bishops on the Word of God to be held in Rome next year in October, we call those who are receptive to this urgent mission. May the Holy Spirit enlighten us, send us, and sustain us, so that we might go forth and proclaim once again the person of Jesus Christ, crucified and resurrected, as well as His kingdom!
I greet you again, dear brothers, remaining always at your disposal. I pray for you all, especially for those who suffer, for the sick and for the elderly.

Vatican City State, 15 July 2008

Claudio Cardinal Hummes
Emeritus Archbishop of São Paolo
Prefect of the Congregation for the Clergy
 
Jude! What a wonderful story on your blog. I will definitely keep reading. I think it’s so wonderful you explored Catholicism and found a possible calling. I can’t blame people who might say that you should experience more of the secular life. Certainly, discernment is important and I will keep you in my prayers. Long ago many joined the priesthood at quite an early age. I have always been “fairly” religious, as I liked to say. It has only been in the last year or so that I have truly been drawn completely into my faith.

For me, 13 was not so fun. You seem in such great spirits and so optimistic about everything. As Peter said, be prepared to explain why you have so much hope (1 Peter 3:15). Is your family protestant? What do your parents think about your faith and calling?

Andy
 
There are a number of things that are helping me. My spiritual director always says I should ask myself, “What gives me life?” Is it the thought and desire for marriage? Is it thinking about being a priest? Is it a desire to give up everything for Jesus and bear his cross? It’s a tough question, but if you ask yourself that each day you’ll find themes and patterns. Patience, I guess, is very important.

I’ve also been checking out some inspiring video online.
  1. USCCB’s Fishers of Men: ccc.usccb.org/video/fishers_of_men1.wmv
  2. The Catholic Priest Today documentary: thecatholicpriesttoday.com/viewDVD.htm
  3. Diocese of Providence Office of Vocations: catholicpriest.com/ - they have a good site and some good videos about discernment.
Of course, prayer every day is so important. Praying throughout the day, asking for God’s presence in everything that you do is key. I’ll be praying for all of you and I hope you’ll pray for me as well. While I am being open to dating, I also have noticed that the priest thing is not going away easily.
Those are great websites Andy. The Diocese of Providence’s website should be permanently posted at the top of this forum, in my opinion. It has some good stuff on it.
 
Jude! What a wonderful story on your blog. I will definitely keep reading. I think it’s so wonderful you explored Catholicism and found a possible calling. I can’t blame people who might say that you should experience more of the secular life. Certainly, discernment is important and I will keep you in my prayers. Long ago many joined the priesthood at quite an early age. I have always been “fairly” religious, as I liked to say. It has only been in the last year or so that I have truly been drawn completely into my faith.

For me, 13 was not so fun. You seem in such great spirits and so optimistic about everything. As Peter said, be prepared to explain why you have so much hope (1 Peter 3:15). Is your family protestant? What do your parents think about your faith and calling?

Andy
My family is Catholic. My granmother, aunt, great-aunt, and family friend just got back from EWTN. (alot of fun!) My whole family is supportive and they keep me on my feet. They always challenge me not because they don;t understand but because they want to see waht I know. I think 13 is alot of fun! There are other religious like me at my school (public) but not all are Catholic. We all have disscussions over lunch. Our teacher says that we take the eccumunical thing very serious! 😃
 
Te Deum Laudamus!

Hello all,
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I'm a 14 year old Roman Catholic, Latin Rite, bell ringing, water pouring, insence swinging, candle lighting, missal holding, office praying, boat bearing, (you get my drift) altar boy...
I’ve been discerning a call for the priesthood for about 2 years now…

I have a great friend at the Gregorian University…
And I have the greatest spiritual director ever…

One of my pieces of advice is Obediance…
Without it you can’t have a good Spiritual life, let alone successful vocation…

“Obediance is the beginning of true humility”
-Order of St. Benedict

Any vocation advice? All is appreiated!!

XC

(Fr.?) Pat
 
At your age right now, the strongest advice I could give you is to try and find a spiritual director to help you in the discernment process. Due to your young age, you would have time for adequate formation and discernment. Most diocese want those going into the seminary now to have a college degree. I think this is sound. But by all means, talk to your pastor and see if he could help in spiritual direction or guide you to a good one. You will remain in my prayers.
Prayers & blessings
Deacon Ed B
 
Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel!

Would the Society of Jesus be a good order in which to enter? I hear they are big on the sciences another one of my interests (behind Theology of course!). And do they wear habits or just regular clerics?

XC
Patrick
 
The Jesuits are great, obviously big on education. My brother is a Jesuit. I believe you can have the opportunity to focus on what you’d like to study. They do not wear habits, just regular clerics on certain occasions. I think if I were to enter, I’d join the Jesuits.
 
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