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JimR-OCDS
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To be a member of the order means to be be a member of a community and this requires being present in order to build a relationship with that community. They can easily reject you as well as you reject them and our community did reject aspirants who came, but had personal problems that would keep them from coming into our community and the order. I won’t get into the details, but every order has it’s rule of life and laws which make them function properly according to their spiritual charisms.
I’m not irritated that my wife and myself are not part of a community. I had thought of beginning one myself, but there was more to it than I had energy for.
The Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites is the only third order I know of, where the members can make vows one year after making definitive promises. All other 3rd orders make promises, but do not take vows.
Being in a 3rd order is a vocation, not just joining a club or sodality. It’s more than following devotions or visiting shrines and making pilgrimages. It’s a way of life and it takes God’s grace and time for it to happen.
It takes about five years before a member of a community makes their definitive promises. It takes six months to a year for them to receive the scapular. Not the one like the Scapular Society gives, but a large brown cloth one that is part of the order.
None of this can be done via skype or zoom.
I’m not irritated that my wife and myself are not part of a community. I had thought of beginning one myself, but there was more to it than I had energy for.
The Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites is the only third order I know of, where the members can make vows one year after making definitive promises. All other 3rd orders make promises, but do not take vows.
Being in a 3rd order is a vocation, not just joining a club or sodality. It’s more than following devotions or visiting shrines and making pilgrimages. It’s a way of life and it takes God’s grace and time for it to happen.
It takes about five years before a member of a community makes their definitive promises. It takes six months to a year for them to receive the scapular. Not the one like the Scapular Society gives, but a large brown cloth one that is part of the order.
None of this can be done via skype or zoom.
