What is your problem with that word? The Church wants people to desire to belong to Her. We want people to be “attracted” to the Church. The Church means “attractive” in a purely objective sense, not some sexual subjective sense. This isn’t about the Church wearing a spaghetti-top and short-shorts!
Easy there, I’m on your side. The word “attractive” recalled to my mind the time when Karl Rahner used the phrase “make the Catholic Church
palatable for modern man” & ended up casting doubt upon the Virgin Birth because of his eagerness for ecumenicism.
“Palatable & attractive”…can’t it be enough that the Catholic Church is Christ’s own creation, that it is one, holy & apostolic, that it is the true Church of God, guided by the Holy Spirit & possessing the fullness of the faith taught by Christ??
So much has been done, in the name of making the Church “attractive”, that we are so far from what the Church really is. Again I remember reading about Rahner’s reaction to the Marian Schema during the council. He felt that the Doctrine of the Virgin birth of Christ would make the Church “unpalatable” to our “seperated brethren”. I looked to see if I could find anything on the internet about the conflict about this during Vat. II. I found the following:
"The first Marian schema contained the words 'who [the Son] willed the bodily integrity of his Mother to remain, in the moment of birth (in ipsomet partu), incorrupt and untouched…
"According to Father Rahner, whose written comments were distributed to all participants in the conference, the schema as then drafted was ‘a source of the greatest concern’…Were the text to be accepted as it stood, he contended,** 'unimaginable harm would result from an ecumenical point of view, in relation to both Orientals and Protestants.'It could not be too strongly stressed, he said, 'that all the success achieved in the field of ecumenism through the Council and in connection with the Council will be rendered worthless by the retention of the schema as it stands.**
marycoredemptrix.com/perpetual_virginity.html
You’ll have to scroll down to the “Virginitas in partu” heading to find the quote.
Please don’t worry. I’m as eager to bring non-Catholics into the fold as anyone else. Both my Mother & my Mother-in-Law were converts & wonderful Catholics. I just don’t want to lose anymore of the faith in order to make it “attractive” or “palatable” to modern mankind.