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Lux_et_veritas
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I would like to address the dialogue that took place between myself and Carole (Joysong). Carole and I have had some offline conversations and we are doing just fine. It is for this reason we have not been having exchanges in the thread. I believe we had some early misunderstandings and both reacted - in fact, almost at the same time as we crossed wires before the other finished their post. We were posting and editing at the same time, without a chance to fully understand each other. This made it look worse than it was. Carole also thought that by using bold, it meant shouting, and may very well be the case. However, in other forums and in these forums, I have typically used bold when pasting quoted material to highlight a small area of a large paragraph. This was my intent, but Carole made an honest minsterpretation of the bold, which she clarified later.
When it comes to talking about these kinds of subjects, we really need to exercise charity all the way around, regardless of where we stand - pro, con, or neutral.
Engaging in these forums has taught me something, as well as discussions with people outside of the forums: Don’t react tersely when challenged and challenge others without being terse.
I appreciate any challenges that come my way on this subject, otherwise, there is no sense making such a post. Let people express their opinion and if it challenges my position that is fine. It’s up to me or anyone else who feels as I do to calmly, and with charity find a response and if one cannot be given, to acknowledge a point well made.
For the remainder of this thread, lets please approach the topic this way.

I would like to address the dialogue that took place between myself and Carole (Joysong). Carole and I have had some offline conversations and we are doing just fine. It is for this reason we have not been having exchanges in the thread. I believe we had some early misunderstandings and both reacted - in fact, almost at the same time as we crossed wires before the other finished their post. We were posting and editing at the same time, without a chance to fully understand each other. This made it look worse than it was. Carole also thought that by using bold, it meant shouting, and may very well be the case. However, in other forums and in these forums, I have typically used bold when pasting quoted material to highlight a small area of a large paragraph. This was my intent, but Carole made an honest minsterpretation of the bold, which she clarified later.
When it comes to talking about these kinds of subjects, we really need to exercise charity all the way around, regardless of where we stand - pro, con, or neutral.
Engaging in these forums has taught me something, as well as discussions with people outside of the forums: Don’t react tersely when challenged and challenge others without being terse.
I appreciate any challenges that come my way on this subject, otherwise, there is no sense making such a post. Let people express their opinion and if it challenges my position that is fine. It’s up to me or anyone else who feels as I do to calmly, and with charity find a response and if one cannot be given, to acknowledge a point well made.
For the remainder of this thread, lets please approach the topic this way.
