There was phrase I heard years ago that made be, mentally, flee in the opposite direction to the Charismatic movement: ‘The gift of tears’. Don’t know if that’s one of the ‘gifts’, but talk about an excuse to self-indulge, if it is.
I am glad you said this, because I have been meditating on how avoidance of feelings might be one of the main reasons that people avoid the charismatic gifts.
Yes, the gift of tears is one of the movements of the Holy Spirit. Tears are not necessarily “self indulgent”, but your characterization of them as such says much more about you than it does about the “movement” of the Holy Spirit in the Church.
Did you know it is possible to weep for joy? Do you find that “self indulgent” as well?
Gen 29:10-12
11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel, and wept aloud.
Was Jacob self indulgent?
Gen 33:4
4 But Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.
Can you honestly read a passage like this one, and not see the emotional release that results experiencing the healing from God?
And Joseph? Gen 45:15
5 And he kissed all his brothers and wept upon them; and after that his brothers talked with him.
Were all the priests, Levites, and heads of houses, old men, all “self indulgent”?
Ezra 3:11-13
12 But many of the priests and Levites and heads of fathers’ houses, old men who had seen the first house, wept with a loud voice when they saw the foundation of this house being laid, though many shouted aloud for joy; 13 so that the people could not distinguish the sound of the joyful shout from the sound of the people’s weeping, for the people shouted with a great shout, and the sound was heard afar.
And, let us not forget the shortest verse in the whole Bible:
John 11:35-36
35 Jesus wept.
That self indulgent Son of God! What was He thinking?!
Or maybe weeping, whether for joy or for grief, is part of the normal, healthy, human experience? Maybe the HS wants to make us fully human, and fully alive? Maybe He wants to conform us to Christ, who was fully human, and able and willing to experience the whole range of human emotions.
What’s the ratio of men to women in this movement?
I am not aware of any studies that have been done, but my observations are that they are equivalent to the ratios one sees at daily Mass.
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Just because you *feel* something is holy doesn't mean it is.
True, but just because you
feel emotions are self indulgent doesn’t mean they are.
I have lots of fine and vicious feelings every day. You can have peak experiences and still go on to be a spiritual menace to yourself and the people around you.
Ok. Well, I am glad you are willing to allow yourself to experience some emotions. Yes, letting your emotions lead your life can make you a menace. Equally true, though, is becoming a menace because your emotions are not healed, and do not function in an Christlike manner. I have never met anyone who never had their feelings hurt, or was not in need of emotional healing.
Marketing men know the value of evoking an emotional response. It’s pure gold. Makes the punters keep coming back for another ‘fix’.
It does. You know why it works? Because GOD created us emotional beings, with emotional needs. Squelching them or abrogating them to “self indulgent” is not the answer.
Try being emotionally continent. Get your feelings under control. Who is the master here: Your immortal soul or your feeeeeelings?
You put me in mind of my father. An emotionally very restricted man who said this often. You are both right. One has to be emotionally continent, and not allow emotions to control one’s life. The immortal soul includes the feelings, though, and they need to be saved right along with the rest of the human person.
I think you make a very good point, though. One of the fears of yielding to the HS is that one might experience the “gift of tears” as “emotional incontinence”.
This sort of stuff is common in New Age movements: give people some kind of high, make them feel better about themselves, collect the cheques.
Yes. It works because humans have emotional needs. God has made provisions to get those emotional needs met through His One Body, the Church.
