Good question. As one who lived before Vatican II (when there were no labels like neo-con and neo-trad and everyone was just plain Catholic), I have noticed some cultural differences between Catholics of the past and those who claim to be the torchbearers of traditional Catholicism today (at least in some who post on discussion forums).
For starters, there were no long skirts debates. People didn’t come to Mass looking like they stepped off the cast of Little House on the Prairie. They wore what was in style, as long as it was modest. They did, however, wear their Sunday best, and women always had their heads covered.
There was no aversion to modern technology back in the good old days. Among those first in line to buy their first television sets were many faithful Catholics. Granted, we have become a materialistic society, and there is much on television today that is a near occasion of sin. But the television set is not intrinsically evil. It just takes a little self-control on the viewer’s part.
While the topic of sin and hell were included in more sermons yesterday than today, there was definitely NOT what I would call a “doom and gloom” spirituality. Vatican II brought confusion and many were left scratching their heads and wringing their hands in the aftermath. But the Church has had crisis before. We who have the Holy Spirit should never be filled with a sense of dread and bitterness.
Finally, being a traditional Catholic meant following the Pope: obeying him, supporting him, praying for him. We respected the office of the papacy. It is frightening that a whole generation of neo-traditionalists have grown up without feeling any filial love for the Holy Father. Instead, many of them see Rome as the enemy.
In their favor, you rarely find “Christmas and Easter Only Catholics” among today’s traditionalists. The same cannot be said of diocesan Catholics. But the sheep and the goats have always rubbed shoulders in the pews. Jesus told us that the kingdom of heaven would collect both the fervant and the indifferent, and they would not be separated until the end of time. Traditional chapels today don’t have this… and thus there is both a strong devotion to the faith and a certain elitism.
Well, that’s my two cents. There are quite a few items in neo-traditionalism today that does not gel with the tradition of my past.