Transgendered people?

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Incorrect. We all start as female.

“Two processes: defeminization, and masculinization, are involved in producing male typical morphology and behavior. Disruption of either of these processes in males produces female-typical development. The opposite is not true, disruption of normal sexual development in females does not lead to male-typical endpoints.”

In doing so, you are negating and invalidating a person. Nobody gets to choose another person’s gender. A much easier, more respectful, and more charitable way to determine gender is to simply ask the person. If they are too young to ask, then wait until they are old enough.

As I have shown in several other posts, genes and phenotype can be misleading, such as in the case of the 46,XXY genotype. There is no good reason to choose those criteria over the self-determination of the individual. Just because you might feel more certain with some objective test, doesn’t mean you get to choose. The history of the matter shows us how damaging the approach you’re suggesting is to trans people.

Clinical implications of the organizational and activational effects of hormones
Milton Diamond (2009)
A brain stuck between isn’t really either and then of course after birth the body will bath the brain in hormones according the physical sex.

I was talking about if someone is XY or XX genetically. Society isn’t all about the individual and it should be rational not touchy-feely.
Hi GEddie,

I agree that sex and gender are far more than some “skin on the body.” That is why I said that the mind is a more important criteria in determining gender. As Christ told us in Matthew 5:

“29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.”

If some body part of mine has caused me to stumble, am I not authorized by Christ Himself to “cut it off and throw it away”?

I have a feminine body, voice, senses, and mind. And most important, I have feminine behavior. I’ve always acted like a girl. From my perspective, my main problem is a few male body parts. Why would you deny me my agency in favor of a test which might provide you with more certainty?
That’s the most bizarre eisegesis I’ve ever seen for that verse.
 
Ah, that’s the very question!

Are you the sex/gender of your external body, or that of your feelings?

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Well, I pose the question because from what I understand the fetus in a MTF gets an appropriate dose of testosterone, but the the fetus’s brain is blocked (for some unknown reason) from receiving that same proper dose of testosterone. If that is the case, than the person was supposed to be a man, not a woman. It does not change anything for the person because they “feel” like a female, yet they should have been fully male. So, instead of being a woman “trapped” in a man’s body (as many say), it would be a man with a woman’s brain (or some slight variation of that).
 
…By the way, I apologize for assuming you were male. Since the face in your picture has a beard, I assumed you were male. My mistake.
I’m not at all offended that you thought I was male. No need to apologize, but I accept it. It doesn’t really matter, so no worries. 🙂

In any event, I’m still thinking about those two songs. I hate when I get songs stuck in my head because it is so annoying. “I feel pretty” and the Enjoli commercial version of “Cause I’m a woman” ala “I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in the pan, and never, ever let you forget you’re a man, 'cause I’m a woman” keep popping back into my mind. Grr.
 
A brain stuck between isn’t really either and then of course after birth the body will bath the brain in hormones according the physical sex.
Some people identify as being “between” genders. Perhaps their brains are somewhere in between. Other transsexuals like myself identify as female. I don’t feel as though my brain is stuck between, but rather, it’s firmly on the female side. If an androgen receptor is broken or not expressed in the brain, then it doesn’t matter what the levels of hormones are, they won’t penetrate into the brain. Having lots of keys doesn’t matter if there is no doorknob to unlock.
I was talking about if someone is XY or XX genetically. Society isn’t all about the individual and it should be rational not touchy-feely.
Determining if someone is “XY or XX genetically” isn’t nearly as easy as you might think. First of all, the required test, a karyotype, costs thousands of dollars. Second, in mosaicism, one cause of intersexuality and transgenderism, it can take scores of karyotypes to find out which cells have XX and which have XY, and in what proportion. And if the mosaicism occurs only in the brain, it would require a biopsy, which I believe requires a dead patient. And these tests don’t necessarily prove anything anyway. So, how many more tests will you require before granting an individual her own agency and freedom to choose her path?

Everybody likes the easy answers. Sometimes in reality, the answers aren’t as easy to get as we’d like them to be. For people who take their sex and gender for granted, it can be difficult to have the patience to look for the genuine solutions to the problems which gender-sex variant people face. But isn’t that what the spirit of charity is for?
That’s the most bizarre eisegesis I’ve ever seen for that verse.
What I find bizarre is that taking Christ’s teachings literally would earn me disparagement from a Christian.
 
A brain stuck between isn’t really either and then of course after birth the body will bath the brain in hormones according the physical sex.
Some people identify as being “between” genders. Perhaps their brains are somewhere in between. Other transsexuals like myself identify as female. I don’t feel as though my brain is stuck between, but rather, it’s firmly on the female side. If an androgen receptor is broken or not expressed in the brain, then it doesn’t matter what the levels of hormones are, they won’t penetrate into the brain. Having lots of keys doesn’t matter if there is no doorknob to unlock.
I was talking about if someone is XY or XX genetically. Society isn’t all about the individual and it should be rational not touchy-feely.
Determining if someone is “XY or XX genetically” isn’t nearly as easy as you might think. First of all, the required test, a karyotype, costs thousands of dollars. Second, in mosaicism, one cause of intersexuality and transgenderism, it can take scores of karyotypes to find out which cells have XX and which have XY, and in what proportion. And if the mosaicism occurs only in the brain, it would require a biopsy, which I believe requires a dead patient. And these tests don’t necessarily prove anything anyway. So, how many more tests will you require before granting an individual her own agency and freedom to choose her path?

Everybody likes the easy answers. Sometimes in reality, the answers aren’t as easy to get as we’d like them to be. For people who take their sex and gender for granted, it can be difficult to have the patience to look for the genuine solutions to the problems which gender-sex variant people face. But isn’t that what the spirit of charity is for?
That’s the most bizarre eisegesis I’ve ever seen for that verse.
What I find bizarre is that taking Christ’s teachings literally would earn me disparagement from a Christian…
 
Well, I pose the question because from what I understand the fetus in a MTF gets an appropriate dose of testosterone, but the the fetus’s brain is blocked (for some unknown reason) from receiving that same proper dose of testosterone. If that is the case, than the person was supposed to be a man, not a woman. It does not change anything for the person because they “feel” like a female, yet they should have been fully male. So, instead of being a woman “trapped” in a man’s body (as many say), it would be a man with a woman’s brain (or some slight variation of that).
Where did you get the authority to tell someone else what gender they are “supposed to be” or “should have been?” Why are you opposed to anyone thinking of themselves as a woman with malformed genitalia? And why do you believe the mind is of secondary consideration to some features of the body?
 
Where did you get the authority to tell someone else what gender they are “supposed to be” or “should have been?” …
It is a bizarre mindset to think that a person born with perfectly formed genitalia could possibly be of the opposite sex. There is no reason to think like that.
…Why are you opposed to anyone thinking of themselves as a woman with malformed genitalia? …
You answered that yourself. “Thinking of themselves as a woman” when reality indicates otherwise is faulty thinking. Common sense would indicate that a healthy baby born with perfectly formed male genitalia is, in fact, a male and not a female with malformed genitalia.
… And why do you believe the mind is of secondary consideration to some features of the body?
Because if the body is healthy, then the mind is the problem area causing the confusion.
 
If you are going to claim that there are only two sexes based on male and female sex organs, where do intersex people fit in with their ambiguous genitalia? I hope they are not invisible to you. They really do exist.
Certainly such people really do exist but it seems to me they are rare. And ambiguity does not in any way challenge the existence of the two sexes. Deformities do not either. We have no problem recognizing man has five fingers on each hand despite the fact that some have four or six or some other number.
The concept that one’s sex depends on one’s genitalia suggests that if one’s genitalia were lost in some kind of accident, that one would no longer be that sex. Yet there are many people who have been in such accidents, and they still identify as the gender they did before they lost their genitalia. That’s because gender is independent from sex.
No sex is not dependent on the presence of the genitals. Genitals is just the primary indicator of sex. If a man has both legs amputated so he can no longer walk on two legs he is still a man. He doesn’t become another species.
I’m not sure what you mean when you say you don’t “believe” in gender. When I was younger, I thought of myself as genderless. Looking back I can see that was my way of dealing with my gender dissonance. It was fairly successful for me, and I have heard other transgender folks have independently used such a concept.
I believe it is an artificial construct and not something really observed in the world. I believe that the word gender is property of nouns in some languages and not a property of man.
Like you appear to be doing, I rejected the idea of gender. I knew I wasn’t a man, despite my male body parts. I thought I couldn’t be a woman because of my male body parts. Therefore I embraced that I was genderless. Now that I understand gender is independent from sex, I realized what gender I really am (after dealing with a lot of denial and self-hate). My life has improved dramatically and demonstrably since consolidating my gender identity.
When someone says they know they are or are not a gender they are saying they know what it means to be a gender. This definition is typically suggested to be some sort of mental or spiritual state. The obvious question is how does one know that. I’m a man. But I dont claim to know what it is to be the male ideal or even what the male ideal is. I certainly dont claim to know what it is like to be a female. All I know is what I experience. How would I have a reliable way to know what the ideal is? And how would I know which aspects are male or female?

Such claims of knowledge of the different genders are particularly suspicious in the framework of modern psychology since it seems very relativistic. Psychology seems willing to say gender roles (and therefore definition) are social constructs. If gender is just a social construct then how can anyone truly be a gender?
You claim it is impossible to know what it’s like to be “the other” gender. I claim that I have never understood what it is like to be a man, despite being forced into that role. And in addition, I feel natural and comfortable in my new feminine role. I know this all seems very strange and I understand skepticism towards it, since I was myself in denial about it for many years. At some point, it became totally obvious that the facts pointing to me being a female outweighed the facts of my body parts.
If you can’t understand what it is like to be a man how can you be sure you are not one?

In a much different sense I can agree with your concept. I am still learning what it means to be a man. And I can conform myself more or less to the ideal. It seems to me many modern American men enjoy watching a lot of sports. I dont. I think they are not being manly despite our society thinking this is manly behavior. My wife likes to watch sports more than I do. Does that make her a man? I sure hope not.
As for feminism, philosophies evolve and change. In the past, some influential feminist writers promoted the idea that women should be equal to men. As time went on and more facts revealed themselves, that idea became obsolete. There are well established factual differences between men and women. The current goal of feminism is not equality in an absolute sense, but equality in a socio-legal sense.
This wasn’t over a long period of time and the facts were obvious to almost everyone before, during, and after that period of feminism. The ancients didn’t need scientific studies to note the obvious differences between men and women. It took a modern to invent a convoluted theory that imagined no distinctions.

If that is the current goal of feminism then I would take that to mean ending laws like in my state where women have a special law against assaults on them. Or it would be making women eligible and required to sign up for the draft. Somehow I never hear anything about those unequal laws being evil which leads me to be sure that older and modern feminism are equally philosophically and morally bankrupt.
 
Where did you get the authority to tell someone else what gender they are “supposed to be” or “should have been?” Why are you opposed to anyone thinking of themselves as a woman with malformed genitalia? And why do you believe the mind is of secondary consideration to some features of the body?
I apologize, truly, I was not trying to tell anyone how they should think. I am asking questions.
 
Hi irishpatrick,

As a person with just such a problem, and as a philosopher, I believe that my mind is more important than some skin on my body. I’m surprised to hear anyone suggest the mind takes a secondary status to a small part of the body. I’m a female with a few male body parts - or a trans woman, if that is less confusing.

Sincerely,
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Thank you for that reply. I am not trying to tell anyone how they should think of themselves–who am I to do that?

Instead, I am asking questions of claritfication.

I suppose I am asking a different question than you might.
 
Thank you for that reply. I am not trying to tell anyone how they should think of themselves–who am I to do that?

Instead, I am asking questions of claritfication.

I suppose I am asking a different question than you might.
irishpatrick, I didn’t mean to be argumentative and I apologize for sounding that way. You’re asking the correct question, but I disagree with your conclusion. Yes, trans women could hypothetically have had a lack of testosterone, for whatever reason, in the developing brain. That’s a smart insight and my own experience lead me to that premise. However your conclusion - that trans women are primarily men - places the sex organs as more important than the brain and mind. I disagree with that view. The most important determinant of gender is the most important organ in the body - the brain. The mind, not what’s between our legs, tells us which gender we are. At least that’s my view as a woman with some unwelcome male body parts.
 
Hi exnihilo, thanks for your thoughtful post.
Certainly such people really do exist but it seems to me they are rare. And ambiguity does not in any way challenge the existence of the two sexes.
For a while I was confused why people frequently say things like “but they are rare.” I think now I understand that to be a justification keeping general rules which apply to most people in spite of the exceptions. In other words, rare exceptions are not necessarily a good reason to overthrow general rules which tend to work. I tend to agree with that view, but I think there needs to be more sympathy to those who do not fit into gender rules.

In my experience, transgenderism does challenge the gender binary. I have had several people tell me that after revealing my own transsexuality, they began to question their assumptions about gender, including their own gender. Most people feel stronger in their own gender after thinking about it for a while. So it doesn’t challenge the gender binary in a fundamental way. It’s true there are men and women and always will be. But it does challenge what it means to be a man or a woman. Those words are much more complex than most realize.
I believe it is an artificial construct and not something really observed in the world…
… Psychology seems willing to say gender roles (and therefore definition) are social constructs. If gender is just a social construct then how can anyone truly be a gender?
Forgive me for snipping your quote, but I’m a bit puzzled by what appears to be a contradiction. Personally, I think gender has elements of biology and social construction. If I were trapped on a deserted island for the rest of my life, I’d still be attached to femininity as much as possible within the confines of maintaining survival. I suppose in some ways gender expression is a luxury provided by our advanced society, yet there do appear to be some biological inclinations towards certain gendered behavior. I am no expert in this topic.
If you can’t understand what it is like to be a man how can you be sure you are not one?
In a much different sense I can agree with your concept. I am still learning what it means to be a man.
From what I have learned of the qualities of masculinity, it is obvious to me that I have a considerable deficit. In contrast, from what I know about femininity, it feels quite natural to identify in such a way. If I were forced to choose between having an “ideal” masculine body and an “ideal” feminine body, I’d choose the feminine body because that’s what feels natural to me. Obviously neither of those ideals really exist, but I’m trying to think of ways to explain how I think.
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Hi exnihilo, thanks for your thoughtful post.

For a while I was confused why people frequently say things like “but they are rare.” I think now I understand that to be a justification keeping general rules which apply to most people in spite of the exceptions. In other words, rare exceptions are not necessarily a good reason to overthrow general rules which tend to work. I tend to agree with that view, but I think there needs to be more sympathy to those who do not fit into gender rules.

In my experience, transgenderism does challenge the gender binary. I have had several people tell me that after revealing my own transsexuality, they began to question their assumptions about gender, including their own gender. Most people feel stronger in their own gender after thinking about it for a while. So it doesn’t challenge the gender binary in a fundamental way. It’s true there are men and women and always will be. But it does challenge what it means to be a man or a woman. Those words are much more complex than most realize.

Forgive me for snipping your quote, but I’m a bit puzzled by what appears to be a contradiction. Personally, I think gender has elements of biology and social construction. If I were trapped on a deserted island for the rest of my life, I’d still be attached to femininity as much as possible within the confines of maintaining survival. I suppose in some ways gender expression is a luxury provided by our advanced society, yet there do appear to be some biological inclinations towards certain gendered behavior. I am no expert in this topic.

From what I have learned of the qualities of masculinity, it is obvious to me that I have a considerable deficit. In contrast, from what I know about femininity, it feels quite natural to identify in such a way. If I were forced to choose between having an “ideal” masculine body and an “ideal” feminine body, I’d choose the feminine body because that’s what feels natural to me. Obviously neither of those ideals really exist, but I’m trying to think of ways to explain how I think.
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I personally would gladly trade these magic male benefits for being a woman, but I can’t and since there is no way to really become a woman there is no reason to worry about it.
 
Why do you believe you can’t? Worrying about it isn’t a choice for those suffering from gender dissonance.
Many people feel ill at ease in their own body, surgery to make you look how you want to be is the coward’s way out, despite looking different you are still the same person underneath hiding from yourself. Being yourself can be substantially tougher, but is ultimately much more rewarding as it yields self mastery and restraint.

What gender identity is in culture changes, what is considered effeminate now might have been with acceptable boundaries of manhood previously, for example males being emotional now is effectively unacceptably whereas five hundred years ago it was very much within the boundaries of normal even in English culture, some of the letters from then are more gushy emotionally than what women today write.
 
Many people feel ill at ease in their own body, surgery to make you look how you want to be is the coward’s way out, despite looking different you are still the same person underneath hiding from yourself. Being yourself can be substantially tougher, but is ultimately much more rewarding as it yields self mastery and restraint.
For some people “being yourself” requires surgery to pass as their desired gender. So you’ve made a false dichotomy. It can be very brave to undergo such surgery and this could even be thought of as a “self-mastery.” I know I am terrified of surgery and would prefer never have it again.
What gender identity is in culture changes, what is considered effeminate now might have been with acceptable boundaries of manhood previously, for example males being emotional now is effectively unacceptably whereas five hundred years ago it was very much within the boundaries of normal even in English culture, some of the letters from then are more gushy emotionally than what women today write.
Sure it’s true that gender rules change, but many stay the same. We all need to find our place in our gendered civilization. It would be nice if people were less hateful towards those who feel more comfortable in a gendered state which society might find unusual.
 
For some people “being yourself” requires surgery to pass as their desired gender. So you’ve made a false dichotomy. It can be very brave to undergo such surgery and this could even be thought of as a “self-mastery.” I know I am terrified of surgery and would prefer never have it again.

Sure it’s true that gender rules change, but many stay the same. We all need to find our place in our gendered civilization. It would be nice if people were less hateful towards those who feel more comfortable in a gendered state which society might find unusual.
Anxiety is what Xanax and wine are for.

What are your distinctly female attributes?
 
I always felt like I was a cow trapped in a human’s body. Brb surgery.

😃
 
Forgive me for snipping your quote, but I’m a bit puzzled by what appears to be a contradiction. Personally, I think gender has elements of biology and social construction. If I were trapped on a deserted island for the rest of my life, I’d still be attached to femininity as much as possible within the confines of maintaining survival. I suppose in some ways gender expression is a luxury provided by our advanced society, yet there do appear to be some biological inclinations towards certain gendered behavior. I am no expert in this topic.
It seems to me ‘gender’ is defined entirely by social constructs. Sexual attraction is said to be unrelated to one’s sex. So with sex organs and attraction removed from ‘gender’ what other than social constructs can be used to identify this?

Regarding a desert island the interesting question for me is if a child were raised on an island in complete isolation how would they ever know they were of the wrong ‘gender’? If they had never experienced the existence of another person then they’d have no knowledge of differences. They could and would only think that they are as they should be. That is was convinces me that there is no such think as being of the wrong gender.
 
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