I believe this whole **preoccupation **with “being saved” (and when/how), points to a deep malady - a lack of proper appreciation of the essence of God, and what He seeks of man. I would even suggest that such a question (by itself, and perhaps unwittingly) skews/hijacks/undermines the whole central point of Christianity. And yet it’s the first question a Protestant usually hits a Catholic with!
Did Christ come to earth merely to “save” us? Or did He come principally to restore our filial relationship with our Father, shattered by the sin of our first parents? Does a jealous God seek merely to be “received as personal Lord and Savior” (via a Sinner’s Prayer or otherwise) or does the One who “loved us first” crave **much **more - to be intimately adored as “my God, my all”? Was Christ’s mission simply to free us from the bonds of sin and the prospect of hell or did He dwell among us to teach us (very specifically) how to love - even to death on a Cross? The really relevant question therefore (to my mind anyway), isn’t “Are you saved”, or even less, “When were you saved?” but “Do you love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your strength? And, in practical demonstration of this, do you truly love your neighbor as yourself?”
How could such a profound question ever be asked on some application form (to join a mere dance group, to boot)? And if it were, how many of us could truthfully answer yes? Further, if the answer is indeed yes, would it really matter when the loving began? In any case it’d virtually always be a case of “Late have I loved Thee, Thou who hast loved me from all eternity”.
From this point of view, without the Eucharist in a Christian’s life - the most intimate union a Christian can have with a loving, self-emptying God, this side of heaven - all these other (seemingly paramount) questions about our faith lives and our salvation are quite so rhetorical, wouldn’t you say? Must be a reason Catholics never ask questions like that!
O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven, and the pains of hell (
from which I seek to be saved); but
most of all because they offend Thee, my God, Who are all good and deserving of all my love.