It’s also something that I think comes up in RCIA, group Bible study, or Lectio Divina, that Person A may really have a confusion or have many questions based on the use of a word (like whether it says Debt or Trespass) while Person B will be sitting there wondering why Person A is even concerned about this.
That makes sense.
I’ve noticed it too in Bible studies. It seems like Bibles Studies can often get to a point where people start getting ready to throw the book at one another over particular opinions and ideas. I’ve never been able to explain it, but I think it has something to do with our sinful nature coming out when that happens. I mean, we’re all always going to get to that point where we do “trespass” against each other, disagree with each other, or simply hold differing opinions of the same thing. In the context of mercy, it all works out, but - when people start getting defensive over splinters - I think that’s when we fail to see the beam in our own eye.
Personally, I just love studying all of this stuff as much as I can… I mean, I love praying, thinking, contemplating God’s universe, scripture, and so on… That’s what I think we should be doing…
I didnt mean to suggest forgiveness was easy for you or other people; or, if I did, then I apologize… Forgiveness isn’t always easy… it’s like, when we see that moment of disagreement, which is what motivates so many of the arguments even on this site, or in Bible studies, or all the way to the Holy wars in Jerusalem… it’s like… so important to understand the fifth petition in all of its divine Glory… really… I guess my concern is just that people dont always see it, and yet we lose sharing in the Glory of God’s Love and Charity when we have difficulty simply seeing the disagreement, trespass or debt or whatever it’s called… is somehow still okay…
I mean, it’s like, it IS a trespass… but then… we’re also asking God for the same thing…
It sometimes becomes very hard (for me anyway) to discern what to admit and what to decline as an appropriate action of justice… It’s a sort of
“be careful in how you measure things… for what you measure out to others will be measured out to you” type of moment…