Transvetic fetishism the vice of my life

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I have what scientist call transvetic fetishism, and to your information I’m straight. When people dress and act like sluts an intense opiate-like effect is triggered in their brains.

But, my desire to quit transvetic fetishism is even greater, and be in a healthy relationship. It’s an constant battle going on in my head, i cant rid myself of it. It’s a battle between the frontal lobe and hypothalamus. When I see movies in Jesus heals blind, and crippled people, I cry out to Jesus, and God: “Please God, make me a man who loves making love to woman instead of acts of transvetic fetishism”.

I quit my gorgous girlfriend. I can’t make love a girlfriend, because i don’t love my own self.

Wicked people say that i am “born this way”, there is no cure. Therapist are scammers, they only want to see money. Other people who have this condition say you can quit but you will relapse in this behavior. I wish there was a cure for this.

Anger, and hate is all i feel. Death is my best friend, because I rather be dead then to live in hell.
 
Unlike sexual orientation, this ‘fetish’ is a choice. It isn’t part of what you are, although clearly it informs you about ‘who’ you are at this present moment.

It seems that you have an addiction to an unhealthy activity that, even while you desire it, you find hurts and harms you.

I suggest that you seek counselling - perhaps something along the lines of the ‘12 Steps’ program for alcohol but ordered around inappropriate sexual expression.

Do not discount actual counsellors. While some may well be scammers, most are honest people who only wish to help. It may also be worthwhile approaching your doctor in case there is a deeper cause to your current malaise.

Certainly death is definitely not your friend. You were called forth into this life to live happy and in the image of God our creator. None of us is perfect or unafflicted in some way, it is how we choose to address those concerns that matters.

Your local diocese may have suitable resources that you can avail yourself of. Ask your priest for recommendations for sympathetic (and non-scamming) counsellors.

Remember that God cares for you and holds you in such tenderness as the apple of his eye. You are loved unconditionally. Do not worry about hell - you are clearly in pain and by your description you are not responsible for your current condition. God is merciful and kind. You would not be damned for something you find you are incapable of dealing with. Just seek help from those who would offer it compassionately and remember that overwhelming eternal love our Creator offers us. It’s there, you only have to accept it.
 
Thanks for your reply.

It is indeed a choice to act on them, but it ain’t a choice to feel them or not feel them.

The human brain is a network of neurons. Experiences and behavior create different neural connections which bring different emotions. Depending on which neurons get stimulated certain connections become stronger and more efficient, while others weaken.

What I’m trying to achieve is through the understandment of neuroplasticity to weaken all neural connections which can be described as transvetic fetishism to zero.

Relapsing is the worst thing. Pray for me.
 
DexUK said:
Unlike sexual orientation, this ‘fetish’ is a choice.
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This is incorrect.

People don’t wake up one day and think “hm, you know what, I think I’m going to be attracted to diapers/shoes/rubber suits.”

And besides, if it were that simple than why would the OP be in such despair?
 
Debora123 said:
This is incorrect.

People don’t wake up one day and think “hm, you know what, I think I’m going to be attracted to diapers/shoes/rubber suits.”

And besides, if it were that simple than why would the OP be in such despair?
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sexual orientation is a choice as well.
 
jesusfollowerx said:
I have what scientist call transvetic fetishism, and to your information I’m straight. When people dress and act like sluts an intense opiate-like effect is triggered in their brains.

But, my desire to quit transvetic fetishism is even greater, and be in a healthy relationship. It’s an constant battle going on in my head, i cant rid myself of it. It’s a battle between the frontal lobe and hypothalamus. When I see movies in Jesus heals blind, and crippled people, I cry out to Jesus, and God: “Please God, make me a man who loves making love to woman instead of acts of transvetic fetishism”.

I quit my gorgous girlfriend. I can’t make love a girlfriend, because i don’t love my own self.

Wicked people say that i am “born this way”, there is no cure. Therapist are scammers, they only want to see money. Other people who have this condition say you can quit but you will relapse in this behavior. I wish there was a cure for this.

Anger, and hate is all i feel. Death is my best friend, because I rather be dead then to live in hell.
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My friend, don’t worry -judging by your guilt and your own regret, i really don’t think this sounds like something that you initiated on your own. I think someone else might have helped in causing this problem.

I have a question. Could it be that during your early childhood a female family member could have possibly instigated this somehow? Maybe a sister or an aunt?

…I think you need to get to the bottom of this because this sounds like a ‘learned’ behavior to me. Not something that just happens on its own.
 
jesusfollowerx said:
I have what scientist call transvetic fetishism, and to your information I’m straight. When people dress and act like sluts an intense opiate-like effect is triggered in their brains.

But, my desire to quit transvetic fetishism is even greater, and be in a healthy relationship. It’s an constant battle going on in my head, i cant rid myself of it. It’s a battle between the frontal lobe and hypothalamus. When I see movies in Jesus heals blind, and crippled people, I cry out to Jesus, and God: “Please God, make me a man who loves making love to woman instead of acts of transvetic fetishism”.

I quit my gorgous girlfriend. I can’t make love a girlfriend, because i don’t love my own self.

Wicked people say that i am “born this way”, there is no cure. Therapist are scammers, they only want to see money. Other people who have this condition say you can quit but you will relapse in this behavior. I wish there was a cure for this.

Anger, and hate is all i feel. Death is my best friend, because I rather be dead then to live in hell.
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…Also, if my suspicions make sense, then I think you should pray for that woman -every day for the rest of your life. Say to The Lord: Forgive them, for they know not what they do! --and remember how heavy Jesus’ cross was. You can carry yours with Him now.
 
Debora123 said:
That is an incorrect statement.
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Take it to the bank I know these things I can’t tell you the background except to say it isn’t from my own experience with homosexuality but others in my life. Also I don 't know one homosexual who was not abused as a child.
 
Annie39 said:
Take it to the bank I know these things I can’t tell you the background except to say it isn’t from my own experience with homosexuality but others in my life. Also I don 't know one homosexual who was not abused as a child.
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You’ll be the first person I have ever heard say that we actually choose our sexual orientation. Sorry, but I completely disagree.

I know plenty of people with SSA who have not been sexually abused as a child.
 
@TEPO,

When I was little kid, I was wondering “what is it like to be a girl?”, it was just curiosity, and now I have transvetic fetishism. I’m tired of it. It feels like God who is older then time did it all to me as a sadistic prank. In the bible it is written that God controls every human event, and that he knows people before they are even born.

Everyday I pickup my cross. I have no other options. It feels like there is no end to the misery. All i do is looking for a cure. Everyday I forgive, I red the whole bible, I gained understandment about God but I’m still stuck with my vices. I pray to God every day, I red Freud, and other books about psychology and the so called DSM (which was unscientific tho), i work hard on my job.

Maybe I should try LSD. Because Tim Leary a psychologist did some research on psychedelic drugs as a cure for homosexuality. Maybe it should work on this subject as well.
 
jesusfollowerx said:
@TEPO,

When I was little kid, I was wondering “what is it like to be a girl?”, it was just curiosity, and now I have transvetic fetishism. I’m tired of it. It feels like God who is older then time did it all to me as a sadistic prank. In the bible it is written that God controls every human event, and that he knows people before they are even born.

Everyday I pickup my cross. I have no other options. It feels like there is no end to the misery. All i do is looking for a cure. Everyday I forgive, I red the whole bible, I gained understandment about God but I’m still stuck with my vices. I pray to God every day, I red Freud, and other books about psychology and the so called DSM (which was unscientific tho), i work hard on my job.

Maybe I should try LSD. Because Tim Leary a psychologist did some research on psychedelic drugs as a cure for homosexuality. Maybe it should work on this subject as well.
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Roughly how often do you ‘act’ on it? Is it carried out in public or privately?
 
Debora123 said:
You’ll be the first person I have ever heard say that we actually choose our sexual orientation. Sorry, but I completely disagree.

I know plenty of people with SSA who have not been sexually abused as a child.
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You know plenty of SSA who you don’t know have been sexually abused as a child. If one is attracted to the same sex, something tragic has happened to them. They should remain chaste as long as they have this attraction. Also, IMHO they should not self identify as SSA they should keep this to themselves and pray. There are many chaste unmarried adults I know one who is 47. She doesn 't go about identifying herself as an opposite attraction person. SSA people should keep it quite and live like the OSA person lives. This is a burden if one is attracted to the same sex but as that person grows in grace by living a Catholic life he/she will eventually want God much more than anyone.
 
Annie39 said:
You know plenty of SSA who you don’t know have been sexually abused as a child. If one is attracted to the same sex, something tragic has happened to them. They should remain chaste as long as they have this attraction. Also, IMHO they should not self identify as SSA they should keep this to themselves and pray. There are many chaste unmarried adults I know one who is 47. She doesn 't go about identifying herself as an opposite attraction person. SSA people should keep it quite and live like the OSA person lives. This is a burden if one is attracted to the same sex but as that person grows in grace by living a Catholic life he/she will eventually want God much more than anyone.
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Of course SSAs should live chaste lifestyles. However, it is incorrect to say that they chose to be SSA.

As for the reason why a person becomes SSA? That is still unknown. It is also false of you to say every SSA person has been sexually assaulted as a child.
 
What is God anyway? I need a miracle, not because I dont believe and want but because I really believe that God can heal everything, and everything is possible. So for God it should be easy.
 
Annie39 said:
You know plenty of SSA who you don’t know have been sexually abused as a child. If one is attracted to the same sex, something tragic has happened to them. They should remain chaste as long as they have this attraction. Also, IMHO they should not self identify as SSA they should keep this to themselves and pray. There are many chaste unmarried adults I know one who is 47. She doesn 't go about identifying herself as an opposite attraction person. SSA people should keep it quite and live like the OSA person lives. This is a burden if one is attracted to the same sex but as that person grows in grace by living a Catholic life he/she will eventually want God much more than anyone.
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Uh, I know plenty of people from awesome familes that have known they were “different” since the age of three or as early as they can remember. I know parents who know for sure that their kids have not been abused and have always suspected that their child was gay, only to be confirmed many years later. Are you just trying to start a fight? It is simply not true that every gay person has been abused.
 
Is a person with transvestic fetishes required to live a chaste life?
 
JackieMom said:
Uh, I know plenty of people from awesome familes that have known they were “different” since the age of three or as early as they can remember. I know parents who know for sure that their kids have not been abused and have always suspected that their child was gay, only to be confirmed many years later. Are you just trying to start a fight? It is simply not true that every gay person has been abused.
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This thread is not about gay kids. Why aren’t we helping the OP…? :confused:
 
DexUK said:
Unlike sexual orientation, this ‘fetish’ is a choice.
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FWIW, others disagree. A friend of mine is in a medical-related field and was discussing the cause of certain fetishes. He was taught that it has to do with the proximity of part of the brain that controls sexuality to various other functions. He specifically mentioned that foot fetishes are due to this.
 
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