Perhaps that’s part of the problem. Work should not be seen as “giving up hours of their life to work for you.” Work is a privilege. Work keeps our hands and heads active, gives us a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, and keeps us away from mischief and unsavory activities.
God has a purpose for each human being, and work is part of that purpose. Even children should have work–a child should not be encouraged to play all the day and never work. Children should be given small tasks from the time they are able to do them.
As children get older, they should be included in the family chores, and given the responsibility for some of the work of the home. Of course the child will protest, but children benefit greatly by knowing they are contributing to making the home a happy place.
A child should take on more and more responsibilities as they grow older, and by the time a child is 16-18, they should essentially be capable of doing any adult task.
I believe that teens should find some kind of work outside the home, although nowadays, it’s hard to find employment at the traditional teen workplaces because so many of their jobs are held by mature adults. But the teen should be persistent, and most teens can find something outside the family home.
As for adults–work including full time child-rearing, should be part of their lives. Yes, many types of work are unpleasant and physically draining. Yes, there are employers who don’t have a clue, and who establish unjust or foolish policies that make the work harder and result in poorer production. And yes, there are employers who get by without paying a decent wage, although in the U.S., competition between companies often means that a worker can try to find a job at a different place, and eventually, the unjust employer will find themselves with no workers.
Often it is the U.S. government, or various policies of State or local governments, that make work a misery rather than a joy. All of us have the option to petition our elected officials to change these onerous policies
As you might know, many people who retire sicken and die within a very short time, and one of the theories is that the let-down of no longer doing productive work causes the mind and body to shut down. So even Seniors enjoy doing some kind of task; finding a part-time job or volunteering are wise and satisfying ways to spend the retirement years.
This is a topic that is important to me–I was raised in German family where work was greatly valued. My grandparents taught me and my brother the joy of work, and my parents reinforced their teaching. Although at the moment, I am having a very hard time in my workplace due to various upper management decisions AND due to crippling short-staffing (we are desperate for employees!), I generally love my job and take great satisfaction in my work.
I think that an attitude that work is a “necessary evil” that detracts from our lives is wrong and inconsistent with Christian teaching.