May your marriage be blessed with an abundance of children… but many women today want to be barren. Sex is not love, sex is a natural gift from God that is intended to bring forth children and to draw a husband and wife closer together spiritually and emotionally.
Trust me when I say that sex outside of marriage is not love from experience and worse,
if a child is conceived the situation is both unfair to that child and the child’s life could be in danger.
Concern, if the issue is framed as church blocks access to: birth control, abortion, and sterilization for women, the issue is framed such that the church won’t win.
Obama is a constitutional lawyer, shame on him. He should know better than to ignore religious freedom and attempt to impose a religion from the federal level that many of us
do not want. There are no majorities on same sex marriage, abortion, or even access to contraceptives. These are at best polarizing issues where half the country is on one side and the other half is on the other. The solution isn’t to: pick a side, ignore the constitution, and impose whatever you can. That is Obama’s approach, the
American people should have known that this time and they should have voted
accordingly.
I guess Catholic women who know better than God how many children they should have can’t use natural family planning. After all, natural family planning is what God wants married couples to engage in with Him.
Sexual arousal is fleeting. A single man who has a porn problem wants love, but the images don’t love him. Love is not spiritually harmful. Even if the man connects with a prostitute he does not experience love unless, the encounter is chaste and the prostitute has a change of heart. She must begin to care about both her spiritual health and his.
What is fleeting does not satisfy us spiritually where we are not merely natural beings.
To love is to want the absolute ultimate good for another, no matter the cost to yourself In mutual love, that cost is mitigated by the other party as much as possible because that other party doesn’t want you to suffer. Love needs a return, we are made to love and be loved ultimately by God our creator.
The single life after being sexually abused by a woman who treated sex as if it were love when in fact I was just being used by her is hard to live. If she could have gotten pregnant and had, this HHS mandate would make me pay potentially for the death of my own child. Women are given power in our society that doesn’t belong to them, the power to kill and to prevent the transmission of life artificially. This HHS mandate seeks to reinforce that as if women have to have sexual mastery over men or they are being denied their rights. Whatever happened to your rights end when the next person’s rights will be infringed? What about God’s rights which supercede man’s?
A change of heart is needed in America. We need to do a better job of teaching people why our values are what they are and we must attempt to reveal God’s burning love to those who deny him. A love so strong that one must either: accept God completely, repent and ask for healing, or reject God completely. God love is so great, those three options are your only options.
Obama needs to be impeached on a charge of attempting to violate freedom of conscience and ultimately render null and void the constitution. I have faith that the house could push for an impeachment, but I’m worried the Senate will not carry it.